I've been visting my mom since Wednesday and i go home on Wednesday.As much as i miss her and my dad im thankful for living in a whole nother time zone from them.All the have been doing this entire time is fighting and my mom keeps trying to play gulit trip on trying to get me to move up here.I understand i am her daughter and she misses me and she is still trying to deal with my leaving but she doesn't need to down grade me for being 21 and not in college yet.Sure my show off cousin is graduating next year from college and i havent even started yet but damn it im 21 living on my own,i never ask her for a damn thing.I pay my own bills,im buying my own car,i work two full time jobs and yes i will go to college and yes i will pay for it on my own with the help of scholrships and grants but get off my back.Im so frustrated with the way things went tonight that im tempted to buy another plane ticket and fly out in the moring.There arugment was so horrible tonight i told her i wish that i havent even come to vist.I understand my mom has problems and is on meds but just because she is manic depressive doesnt give her the right to be a bitch.I love my mom i just cant live with her anymore.Sorry mom it's nothing personal honestly i just need to get away for my own mental health and i need to learn how to survive on my own because you and dad wont be around for ever.