Continued from previous post.

 

Another thing I have an issue with is the 'division of labour' (now, don't I sound like a moaning bitch?)

 

I know that there is always griping between couples about how much work is done around the house and who does it.  I'm sorry but, (well actually I'm not sorry) I don't think I should have to do everything.  EVERYTHING (eg. mould will grow on the dishes before they are washed if I don't do them). 

 

 I used to nag and moan - this achieved nothing (no wonder really, who likes to be nagged at?).  So I stopped nagging and just did what I could around the house, when I could, figuring he would chip in eventually.

 

Result - fuck all result.

 

As this is a big thing to me (I equate a loving relationship with helping out, both working towards a common aim) I communicated this with him and asked him could he do one thing (not a lot eg. drying the dishes or vaccumme part of the house etc) every day?

 

Result - fuck all result.

 

Sigh.

 

Timer has gone off again - more later.