• sweet_cookie01 said on May 18, 2007....

  it will come... dont have to rush... sometimes those in the age of 45 still wishes the same thing you are wishing for... sadly its true... LOL....

• silverwhisper said on May 19, 2007....

  r, love will find you. it might take its sweet time, but it will. do your friends try to fix you up? do they have a good feel for the kinds of men you'll find appealing?
  
  ed

• rmuxagirl said on May 19, 2007....

  ed:  The only one of my friends who knows my type is D. and she doesn't like setting people up and I don't like to be set up all to much.  I let my mom try twice and both were bad. lol.
  
  sweet:  I know i'll find love someday...but it's hard when I see those who barely bathe get someone and I can't you know.
  

• evil_twin said on May 19, 2007....

  I feel your pain. But hey, I bet if you were willing to settle with a guy who didn't bathe, you'd probably find someone pretty fast. It sounds like you just have a very polluted pond of fish to work with. I don't think it's you.
  
  -evil_twin LA
  

• gingersoul said on May 19, 2007....

  Rmuxa.......sweetie, that's the problem...if you live in a town where not bathed people find easily their mates...well, my friend, ...you have to get out of there.

  You clearly are not a good match for these people and i would be proud of this.......

  Sometimes ist just a matter of geography, nothing else.....

  I was at Wal Mart last day and i too wondered about some really strange couples i saw there...i mean, who knows how and why they chose each other but they were there, hand in hand, and i was there, pushing my cart...... alone....c'est la vie.... 

  You are beautiul ( i saw your pix so i can talk), smart, sensitive, funny....u will find your love....i am sure of this.......

  And dont look down , look up....{hugs}..

• Frlncwrtr said on May 19, 2007....

  Rmuxagirl:  Ginger is right, I think.  How can you find someone compatible wih you if you live in a town that is full of those who don't bathe?
  
  Also, I agree with Ed.  Love will find you, really it will!  Sometimes when you aren't expecting it to happen, that special 'someone' comes along.  You are young, it might take awhile still.  Don't rush it, it will come.  For now enjoy life and maybe find someone who you can have fun with, even if he is not the one you would want for a life-partner.
  
  One more thought, is it possible that you are spending too much time on Soulcast, lessening the possibility of meeting someone? :)
  
  freelance
  

• silverwhisper said on May 20, 2007....

  i gotta say, i think GS is right, too--could you move someplace where good hygiene is a higher priority?
  
  ed

• gingersoul said on May 20, 2007....

  Freelance...my friend, the SC possibility is a real one....i have the same question in my minds sometimes...what if instead of being here typing like a crazy hermit i simply go out and walk?

  Who knows who i can meet, right?

  Balance, Rmuxa, balance and good timing ...its all there..{hugs}

  And lots of bubble bath products.....LOL...

• viciousgrl said on May 20, 2007....

  i know how it feels at moments when you see people who "don't deserve it" having a partner, and being happy with them, and you;re not. The irony is that i always get into this stupid situations. Either i'm lonely, with no partner, or i find myself with 2 crushes at a time....it's stupid!! i mean, at times i want a boyfriend, and when i finally make one, i actually get 2, and can't decide between them....I don't know, i guess the point of my story is that maybe it's true what they say... search for love and you won't find it..love, and love will find you.
  good luck!
  

• rmuxagirl said on May 20, 2007....

  haha well i'm not a hermit I do go out just all the hot guys that bathe are taken or aren't interested in me...<sigh>
  
  I could kick myself though....I didn't have my phone with me when Al. msged me asking if I wanted to go to Pike Days with him and his friend...der! (Pike Days is a celebration of the national pike that runs through our area).
  
  vic: even when I had someone I guess i really didn't have him because he would be preoccupied with other things.  Well not really, but it of course never worked out.  The last one....the one I wanted to marry, just stopped answering my calls.
  

• gingersoul said on May 20, 2007....

  Rmuxa........can't you go by yourself and meet Al there? He will be delighted to see you .......:-)

• rmuxagirl said on May 20, 2007....

  Ginger: I don't drive so I had no way there.....I did tell him I liked him a little bit ago and go no answer so we'll see how things go from here.  <fingers crossed>

• Frlncwrtr said on May 22, 2007....

  Ginger: Yes, that is right, so get out there you crazy hermit! lol

• tntblog72 said on May 23, 2007....

  "Everyone who was "dirty" had someone. I mean these people it looked like they didn't bathe in days or brush their hair."
  They may have only looked like they where "dirty" as it may just be there "look".
  Or the person they are with feel more at ease with them than with someone who are always fussing about there looks, and it is less likely that those "dirty" people are going to criticize there partners looks.
  Another possibility is that the more a person washes the less pheromones they have on there skin, so a person who washes less, however unlikely it may seem, the more attractive they may seem to be to the opposite sex. Personally I like to be clean, I've seen the same thing and I thought I would just offer some possibilities.

• tntblog72 said on May 23, 2007....

  Oh, by the way, I'm sure nothing is wrong with you. If you want to find a serious relationship and keep it, just do some searching on Google for
  dating advice, art of seduction, seduction, fast seduction, ect. You will quickly find that getting a date or finding a soul mate has very little to do with looks, in fact attitude, body language, your own mental picture of yourself, how you talk, and your own expectations is really what matters most. Just think about it for a moment, have you ever seen a super good looking woman with a man who was out of shape balding and all together ugly?

• rmuxagirl said on May 23, 2007....

  I think one of my problems is I am very traditional...I think a guy should woo me and I shouldn't be seductive or anything like that.  The things I've read in the Bible tells me women shouldn't be seductive and I want to stick what my God tells me I should be like.  SO seducing and all that isn't who I am.

• queenparanoia said on May 23, 2007....

  rmuxagirl: i hear you!!! i'm 21 and i never had a boyfriend!!! boys are so dumb... they go for stupid girls.... dont worry someone will be there for you!

• silverwhisper said on May 24, 2007....

  r, correct me if i'm mistaken but the bible doesn't tell men to be seductive, either, no?
  
  ed

• tntblog72 said on May 24, 2007....

  Seduction is a natural part of all Humans, it is built into us. To put it simply seduction is to cause an positive emotional reaction in another person, we have all used it at one time or another. People in advertising have used it for a very long time, we have all used it when we where kids to get our parents to do what we wanted, you use even now every day in some way. Don't confuse seduction with sex, you can use seductive techniques to get more sex, but seduction itself is a whole lot more that just sex. Today the most powerful seduction to exist is religion. Oh you don't agree? What about the Muslim terrorist, what force is so motivating, so seductive, that they are will to kill themselves and others to get to their paradise? To truly understand how to have a happy and lasting relationship with another person we must be aware of the way we behave and how that behavior affects other people.

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