Well Tubs, all I can say is, your fiance sounds like a typical shallow skinny bitch who worships Nicole Ritchie and doesn't love you for the way you are. Either that or you're a fat bastard who does need to lose weight in order to look socially acceptable. So unless you really are an obese person with major health issues, you should drop your girlfriend. If she doesn't love you the way you are now, she won't love you later when you're not only fat but wrinkly and impotent.