There is a problem in this country with domestic violence. Did we just picture a fat slob in a Wife beater smacking some poor defenseless female around? Ok, understandable because that is what you mainly hear about. What you don’t here is statistics like according to the US Justice Department and the Centers for Prevention & Disease control, over 1/3 of all batterers (abusers) involved in domestic violence were wives or girlfriends. Are you a victim and don't know it? Are you willing to take the chance that you could "die of embarrassment" or are you willing to admit it?
In 1998 there were 2,335,000 reported cases of spousal abuse. 1,500,000 women were abused by their husbands or boyfriends. However, many that haven't been around or heard the stories over the years were shocked to see that 835,000 men were battered by their wives or girlfriends which represent over 1/3 of all domestic violence cases. Other reports by the U. S. Justice Department showed that "out of 8,000 men surveyed, 9.7% of male domestic violence victims took out restraining orders. Out of 8,000 women surveyed, 68% violated restraining orders.
What about that 1/3 of men who are abused by their wives or girlfriends on a regular basis? You don’t hear much about that do you. Just like you don’t hear about our cancers, viruses, and mental health problems. Like we don’t have any problems of our own, and women have them all, and a fucking commercial or organization for every damn one of them. Men are just supposed to just suck it up and drive on. I accept that to a point.
I like being a man, holding doors open or sacrificing my jacket for a lady whom forgot hers gives me wood. Some cropped haired feminazis don’t like this traditional mindset, but I don’t date them, so screw em. Taking on the roll of provider, protector and fucking “jar opener”, I love that shit. That’s my role, I know it and accept it, and ladies you should know yours. They say men shouldn’t hit woman. I agree. In fact no one should raise his or her hand against another except in self-defense, period. Ladies that means you keep your little clit diddlers to yourselves. I don’t care how frustrated you get, DON’T FUCKING TOUCH ME!!!
Some women feel that they can beat on a guy and get away with it, because “guys aren’t supposed to hit girls”, and men have been trained to buy into this bullshit. You’ve seen it on TV or maybe in real life, some out of control brewha going ape-shit on a guy and he just takes it saying “I wont hit her back, because I’m bigger than that”. For those of you that think that way let me say that (1) she might get lucky and hurt or kill your ass, and (2) you look like a complete idiot, not to mention “her bitch” when you let her do that shit. I say this from experience, 14 years worth. The first incident was a clipboard to the nuts. Princess threw it and dropped me like a bad habit. The last, she wiped out my .357 and started doing her rendition of the diner scene from Pulp Fiction. There was no choice there but to disarm her and take her to the ground. “Sorry, the bitch was rabid, had to put her down”. I went through 14 years of “I’m a guy, I can take it”.
Yes I should have left, but fuck me for truly loving her.
My point is, don’t take this shit. If she hits you, fix it and fix it quick. The first time can be enough to do great harm. The clipboard to the groin had a real chance of cutting me and spilling my nuts onto the deck, as I was not wearing much protection. By fix it I mean leave, or tell her that the days of free hits, because “guys, don’t women”, are over. Tell her that if she ever lays a hand on you again, then you will view her as a male packing at least 8 inches of meat and not a clit, and will treat her as such. She may say, “oh, you can’t do that. You’re bigger and stronger than I am”. That’s right sweetheart, so don’t fucking mess.
In my case princess weighed more than me, it’s amazing how many calories are in wedding cake. She was small before we got married. Then she had some “postpartum” bullshit after our first child, and then she started to hit like Tyson…moved like Sugar Ray though. I would try to leave the house till she calmed down, but she would block the door and pound me if I got near it. I should have cold cocked her, walked over her limp body, and found new living arrangements, but I was stupid. Lesson learned. She would also call the cops blaming the disturbance on me. From experience, the majority of the time, the man is going to jail. The woman gets to stay because “she’s a woman”, and you get kicked out or go to jail because “you are a man”. In some cases I would say pop her one, you’re going to jail anyway. I’m not saying trash her while she is down, or beat the hell out of her, but defend yourself, do it with authority, and let her know that women aren’t supposed to hit men either.



