• silverwhisper said on May 10, 2007....

  tbs, what happened?
  
  ed

• tbs230 said on May 10, 2007....

  The asshole who decided that I wasn't worth even looking at last year decides that he wants to be my friend on facebook. Like the fact that we aren't in the first place means nothing.
  
  UGH!!! I hate him, I hate him with every fiber of my being. I can't go to Church without fearing I'll see him. The thought of his name causes me to dry heave. And he requests to be my friend on facebook. Yeah I could just ignore it, but then I'll see it every time I log on. Yeah I could just deny it, but then he'll know I haven't gotten past the hurt. I hate him and I wish I was vindictive and mean enough to wish something horrible for him.
  
  AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!
  

• missunderstood1162 said on May 10, 2007....

  awww TBS...I'm sorry .....
  hugs...
  wish it wasn't so.  hate that for you.
  

• cateemay said on May 10, 2007....

  Well, if I were you, I'd deny him, tell him nothing personal, but you're not friends, and you only keep friends on facebook. If he takes it personally, well, then he's probably just as big of a douche as you already think he is. :)

• pascodelta said on May 11, 2007....

  My wife's ex wanted to be my 'friend' even though he is a nasty piece of work.  I saw him at a funeral, and he came over to me.  I enjoyed asking him, very calmly, why he thought we were friendly.  His face was a picture.
  
  I'd say, for what it's worth, tell him you've moved on and can't see why he would want to register as your 'friend' - because you are not friends.  Or maybe just deny him and let him think about it.
  

• silverwhisper said on May 11, 2007....

  tbs, if there's ever been a reason to abandon a social networking site, you've been given one, if you ask me.
  
  ed

• MsBradford07 said on May 11, 2007....

  Deny it and move on. I hope that helps you.

• tbs230 said on May 11, 2007....

  Thanks guys. Yeah, I denied it. And you know what? It felt good. I was sitting here thinking why would he now want to be friends? And guess what? It's because he's coming back home, the bastard. I wish I wasn't still this angry, but I haven't so much as heard his name unless it was coming out of my mouth, and then he does this. No message, no warning, like if he puts it out there, then I'll approve it just out of habit. He can kiss my ass.
  
  Him and the other bastard who did that to me. At least he called me first. I hate boys, and I say boys because these two are still behaving like we're in elementary school. We can't just act like nothing happened the next day, or when you need me. People do that to me too often. I'm sick of it.
  

• mom said on May 11, 2007....

  "I hate him and I wish I was vindictive and mean enough to wish something horrible for him."  I'm not, I can do it for you. :) 
  

• silverwhisper said on May 12, 2007....

  i think it's time for you to look for men, not boys, tbs. :>
  
  ed

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