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Apparently, it is assumed that I have been involved in the Lucy/JD thing.  I noticed some people that I like and respect, unsubscribed from me.  That makes me sad. 
 
I have been trying to steer clear of this whole thing, as it is usually my policy not to comment or read the negative, nasty blogs.  Its just not my cup of tea.  I had become friends with Lucy/Tobi-lee outside of SC, along with a few others, but I don't know JD from Adam.  Of him, yes.  Enough to know that he is a right asshole.  I didn't even realize that Tobi-lee was friends with JD.  Again, don't know him, don't read him, have nothing to do with him. 
 
I read the now infamous post, and I felt upset for Tobi-lee.  I commented.  I went to work.  I work retail sales, so no time for internet at work.  When I checked the next day, I got an E-mail from Tobi-lee saying it was a joke and was I mad....I said I didn't understand it, but to each his own.  She said they were coming clean in an hour.  At this point I hadn't read anything and didn't know the extent of the nastiness.  It went to far.  Well, posting it in the first place was too far. 
 
I Emailed mom personally, because she seemed to personally "call me out" on one of the comments as to someone who knew about this ahead of time.  I explained to her, and I posted my explanation, she seemed to accept it and appreciate the email. 
 
Anyway, I am afraid to comment, because I feel un-welcome.  Its upsetting, because I always steer clear of the negative and always try to stay positve and helpful. 
 
That is all.  I just had this on my mind, and I needed to get it out.  Don't know if this will be read, but I guess it doesn't matter anymore. 


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  • hunter_boyce_chandler said on May 09, 2007....

    I dont have a clue what happened to justify all the controversy.  It seems that a hoax of a conflict was generated to enhance viewing.

    What confuses me is this used to happen all the time here.  There was always someone who was pissed or scared or lonely.  We had people pretending to be parapalegics to get sympathy.  We had fake professors from every english speaking country.  We had stalkers who tracked down bloggers that were so stupid that they gave directions to their house on line.

    I had a cardiac event and a near fatal infection while people claimed that everything was a hoax.

    This is the life of SoulCast.  I love it.  It is so damn interesting.  Its like reading a neverending novel written by 30000 people.

    HBC

  • minniemouse said on May 09, 2007....

    I usually don't take things so seriously.  I am very laid back and easy to get along with.  I am relatively new (4 months) and I am starting to see the drama unfold on a daily basis. 

    Wow....parapalegics, huh?  Now that is going pretty far!!

  • AlisonMarie19 said on May 09, 2007....
    Ah, minnie. Friends in battle. I've put on my waders because the bullshit's gotten so deep.
     
    People think that since because you didn't DO anything to stop it (much like I didn't), and minded your own business (much like I did), we are at fault for it. Since JD and Lucy are gone, the blame game is passed to the likes of us.
     
    You're welcome at my blog anytime.
     
                   =(^-^)=  ali m.
  • minniemouse said on May 09, 2007....

    Ali.....I didn't DO anything because I didn't know it was a joke until it was too late.  I've read all the comments directed at you and I do think you are getting the shaft.  Alas, it seems in this cyber world that you are gulity until proven innocent, and its damn hard to prove you are innocent.  People have to trust you to believe you and there are one to many fuckheads (sorry) out there that ruin it for the rest of us.  MM

  • AlisonMarie19 said on May 09, 2007....
    I know. I know!
     
    Fuckheads is perfectly apropos to the situation.
     
                   =(^-^)=    ali m.
  • TinSoldier said on May 09, 2007....
    I hate hoaxes and dishonesty. And I hate it when an otherwise honest person gets splattered with the bull that comes from them.

    I'm sorry that it seemed to happen to you. (nb: not too familiar with the situation myself -- just trying to give my support).
  • minniemouse said on May 09, 2007....

    Thank you Tin.....  :-)

    just a little sad and dissalusioned over here......

    ;(  MM

  • minniemouse said on May 10, 2007....

    Yes....I deleted you.  This is MY blog and I will say what I wish on MY blog.  If I think you are an asshole, then I have every right to say that on MY blog. 

    And yes, I have commented on your blogs before and you were really rude to me, so I stopped reading you.  But you wouldn't know that now would you, since you deleted all your crap.  Yes, crap. 

    I have read enough on here to form my own opinions, and my opinion stands.....especially after what you posted on MY blog. 

    MM

  • mom said on May 10, 2007....
    Hi Minnie- I really am not one to react the way I did,  and for the reasons I told you.  I have taken that blog down, it reminded me too much of someone that I hate and I never want to be that vile.  I have emailed a few people and apologized and things will get back to (normal)? soon.  It has been a bad few days but it is time to start having fun again.
  • AlisonMarie19 said on May 10, 2007....
    It's enough JD. If you're going to leave, leave. Don't stick around and keep on spewing hate. Please. For the good of the community. I'm tired of this.
     
                   =(^-^)=   ali m.
  • mom said on May 10, 2007....
    Ali- it is ok really.  I am done fighting with him.  He can have a onesided fight.  I don't want him  targeting you next. Thanks for trying.
  • minniemouse said on May 10, 2007....

    Who's JD?  Who's Cops?  Did someone comment nasty stuff on here?  I didn't read anything.  I just see comments from nice people like HBC, mom and Ali......if anyone posted anything negative....it must have....{{{{{poof}}}}...dissapeared!!! 

    ****Bulletin**** you have been blocked and I'm sure you don't care.  I choose not to have negative, nasty stuff on MY blog.  

    Mom......thank you for commenting.  I hope you are doing well. 

    Ali......don't stress yourself out.....leave it alone and try to move on.  Its just a blog after all. 

    MM

  • mom said on May 10, 2007....
    Minnie- let's just move on, there has been enough damage done already.  It almost feels like 9/11 here.  I know I am partly to blame and am trying to get past it. Other than that i am doing really good, and you?
  • minniemouse said on May 10, 2007....

    Hey mom.....get past what?  ;-)

    I am doing well....glad its finally spring and getting warm.  Of course, now its getting too warm!!  Oh well...you can't win!  I'd rather it be warm than cold!  I'm a summer baby after all and so are my girls! 

    Beach anyone?

  • mom said on May 10, 2007....
    It has been warm here for the past few days.  I went outside and helped my husband chip and shred branches, boy is that thing loud.  It is nice to see the lower half of my yard getting cleared.  Our golden plum tree is growing plums already :)  We usually get a lot of them, want me to send you some? We also have apples, peaches, pears, purple plums, and red plums.
  • minniemouse said on May 10, 2007....

    Wow!!!  yummy!!!!  I'm suddenly hungry!!!!  :-)

    Yard work is so hard, but so gratifying when you are finished!!! 

  • mom said on May 10, 2007....
    It will be gratifying but it sure does work the muscles with all the cutting and crap.
  • kingcobra said on May 12, 2007....
    Hi minniemouse..............who is messing with my little mousy!!! You guys don't want the cobra upset? Do you?.....Don't know what the fuss is all about, but I know you well enough little mouse,to know, that there was not an inch of nastiness from your side. You can play with the cobra any time you want..........
     
    he won't mind!!!.
  • minniemouse said on May 12, 2007....
    Hi KC.....all is well now.....I think the storm has passed.  Thanks for the compliments!!!   :-)
  • 124dizz said on Jun 12, 2007....
    hey tis is a pretty nice article or post that you have. i am now well informed.
  • kingcobra said on Jun 13, 2007....
    minniemouse is a nice lady too!!!

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