evil_twin posted on May 09, 2007
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The first time I'm intimate with a new woman, I'm always slightly self conscious. I'm always curious if she's happy with the way I look. It's great when they flat out tell you that they think you're hot. But that doesn't always happen. I mean, it's a reasonable assumption to make that they obviously find you attractive, or they wouldn't be getting naked with you in the first place. But there's always that big unveiling moment when you're just praying she'll say something like, "oh wow!" I mean, that's a great compliment right there. It's simple, yet highly effective. But barring that statement, there's just no real way to know what she's really thinking.
And I'm not just talking about the obvious physical feature that I hope she's impressed with. It's everything. My body is nice, but it's not pumped up. I don't work out, really. I like to play basketball and sometimes I jog. But basically, my body is not a pristine specimen of perfection. I'm not overweight, but I'm not muscle bound either. I'm average. And I'm not one of those guys who choose to shave off every last drop of hair I have on my chest (or elsewhere). That's too much fucking work. I bow before you women because you have so many parts to shave. I have no idea how you do it, but it's nice.
But basically, I'm a little curious what it is most women expect of a man in the looks department. Is chest hair disgusting? I realize if a guy looks like he's wearing a fur sweater, then it's a little excessive. But is it really necessary for us to be hairless? Is that sexier? And tell the truth now. Just how important is size to a woman? One of my female friends said it doesn't matter as long as your tongue works.
This is all purely curiosity on my part. I'm just interested in hearing what women have to say about this subject. There's so much talk everywhere about women being afraid of what men think of their looks, but not many of us guys are open to admitting that we're just as worried about the same thing. And I know it's not just me this time. I've had conversations with other people more sane than me.
Anyway, that's my random post for the afternoon. I'm still feeling good about last night, and I talked to Florida girl earlier too. But I'm not going to be able to see her tonight though. They're having a girls night out because the fiancee wanted her to meet the rest of her friends. And I actually went ahead and made plans too.
My brother called me and said they were going to have lasagna for dinner. And his wife makes enough for ten people, so he wondered if I wanted to join them. I haven't been over there for awhile and it'd be good to see my niece. She's 7. And apparently she's been asking when her favorite uncle is coming over to play with her. That's sweet. I'm her only uncle, actually. But it's good to know that I'm the favorite in a non-existent competition.
Next on my agenda is kicking T.'s ass for telling my secrets. But that'll have to wait until later because he's working on some commercial today. But he'll be hearing from me...
lds.mormon
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Tags: scars, attraction, life, injury
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