Hi MissMimi,
I'm sitting here with a fire red butt... and I love the sting. I could live without the blasted clover clamps on my nipples, but I've got enough endorphins going to bear even those right now. Master has me spaced again... right where he loves me to be. And right now... he wants me to write... oh my.
MissMimi, I've seen BDSM porn that is tamer than what we do, and I've seen some that makes even me wonder why anyone would allow it, and why anyone would dish it out. After a while some of it just looks like brutal, savage, abuse. We all have our likes and dislikes, and I find myself trying not to judge... but do I watch it? No, I can't. Of course I'm the same person who once cried, "Be careful Master, that really hurts" when a Master started to whip another sub... lol.
MissMimi, porn can be extreme in any genre, and for some it seems, the more extreme the better... BDSM is not unique in that, although the unspoken possibilities for damage can appear greater. Films are made to sell.
I'm one of those unfortunates who feels everything she sees (not always a bad thing) and I suspect you are too.
Now to tie your own submissiveness in to how you react to BDSM porn would be a major mistake. Would we show a young virgin extreme porn to help her decide whether she wanted to marry? That would be more than she might ever need or want to know.
