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Since today its my B-day i couldnt have a better super special gift.
I finished right now to talk with an Expedia agent and i have officially booked my trip to Italy and at a whopping $400 less than the price i was expecting!!! I called yesterday and the price was that higher, called today and switched seats and connections and i got this great price...i am so happy...
 
I will be leaving June 26th and returning July 23rd.
I have decide to splurge with the lenght of my visit because originally i thought of staying only 20 days.
 
Then i thought about my mother.
 
She deserves to have at least one month with her grandaughter. She saw her last time 2 years ago. Since i am not able to help her the way i would, and be closer the way she needs ....this is my gift for her. The expression of  her face anytime she see us getting out of the elevator door is simply priceless. 
 
And its a gift for my daughter too. She needs to be a longer stretch of time in her country, speaking our language, staying with her Italian family, doing a normal life that would be more than a short vacation.
 
I am so stressed out though. It has been a big strecth for my finances. I hope to be able to work since June and to work also there a little bit with my brother shop to earn some money. There I also will have to sell some of my old stuff and most of all we will have to go thru some legal issues still pending since my sister's death.
The main task will be taking care of my old home where she lived the last 5 years. And thsi only opens a painful chapter that my mother is not ready to face yet. But the home needs needs to be cleaned and put on the market to rent.
So it will be also business, not only vacation.
 
But the tickets are mine now.... LOL...
 
I have been 2 hours at the phone with this incredibly nice guy at  Expedia. He really worked with me thru any possible option to find me the cheapest flights with the best seats and connections. 
At the end we were like best friends....lol...
We were chatting about the weather, the job, the inside tips of booking a flight...and so i asked him where his office was located, West, East or Central?
And he started to laugh....
And he told me "No, Ino i am in Manila, Philippines".
 
I was so surprised that i started to laugh too.... 
And i had to explain him why.
"You won't believe how many people i knwo now from your country" And so i told him about SC and the immensely nice community of filipino we have. I told him about Queen going to the beach, Sweetcookie born in Baguio and Yani and Lioness and so many other..
He told me it was freaking hot in Manila today and when we parted Jerric and i were like old good friends....
His accent is so clean i would have never imagine him coming from Manila.....Congratulations to the school system there is this is the level of English that is taught....
 
Well, i think i am going to call my mom and tell her the good news.
And when tonight she will be back home i surprise my daughter too....lol...
 
My b-day has been great up to now even though i am alone here to celebrate it....but its ok...i have been chatting and talking all day.....:-)
 
I got some very nice emails from my Italian friends and Scasters, my American friends called and i have been invited to lunch for tomorrow and a dinner in the middle of the week, Daily dedicated a post to me, we solved our problem with our signing in...and a very special gift has been promised to me from a far away country and its sender will be back in town soon too.... ...
 
I am very thankful for all of this......  i might not have had fancy presents or cake and parties and cotillons...but i can't really care less...
 
You know what?
Not worrying until tonight at midnight is going to be just enough ..... :-)


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  • silverwhisper said on May 06, 2007....
    first, happy birthday GS!

    second, i'm glad you're returning home for a while, that's wonderful! :>

    ed
  • lioneljay said on May 06, 2007....
    Happy birthday, GS. And I'm so happy to hear about your trip. It's going to be a great summer for you and your daughter.
  • gingersoul said on May 06, 2007....

    SW......yes, its wonderful.....:-)

    My last October's visit wasnt for sure a vacation beacuse of my sister's passing away.......this summer my mom has to have a good time and create good memories with us..... 

    LJ.....thank you so much....i am glad you made it here again...lol....

    i really need this kind of attitude and positive thinking....lets keep hoping in this way...{hugs}

  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on May 06, 2007....
    Again, Happy Birthday dearest friend!

    I will be in Ireland mid-July, to be reunited with my brother. We will stay four weeks.  I know how the longing is to be with our family.  I am glad you will have another summer to remember.

    I feel well, and to answer the question in your other blog, the baby is fine.  My last check-up was Friday; it is always good to hear the words: all is well.

    I was born in Manila! LOL

    And yes, the business of call-centers are booming in the Philippines - so I have heard!

    Have a wonderful birthday!

    Your friend,

    Joanna
  • Jenna said on May 06, 2007....
    Awww...sweetie....I am so happy you are going home.  I know there will be some tough spots....dealing with the sister stuff...but to see your mom...and your daughter to see her grand mother...how special. 
     
    I am glad this brings happiness to you on your birthday.....but I wish I was there to surprise you on your doorstep with balloons and a cake and a bottle of champagne....
     
    Once again...happy birthday sweet friend. 
    Love to you!
    Jenna
  • gingersoul said on May 06, 2007....

    Joanna....oh, Ireland in mid-July....what a dream!...I am happy you are going to reunite with your family too...this world is too big sometimes and life scatters us all over the places ...

    These reunions are so, so sweet....

    I an also happy to read that Piccolo Paper is fine...and mommy too...

    Take care and stay well, my friend

    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

  • gingersoul said on May 06, 2007....

    Jenna....but you did it..i saw you there......balloons and cake (chocolate, my favorite) and champagne...

    Its the thought what really counts.....its true.....and your wishes are arrived here to keep me great company....thank you....{{{{{{hugs}}}}}

    Yes, it will be tough but good...my mom needs to smile and laugh and nobody more than my daughter can work this miracle ....not even me...:-)

     

  • skald said on May 06, 2007....
    Oh happy birthday to you. happy birthday to you , happy birthtday dear Ginger. Happy birthday to you.

    I am so happy for you and for your daughter and your mum who deserves to have you both. I am so sorry about your sister.

    Ginger you are a good daughter and a good mum. you were a good sister. Sorry , I want you to be  happy.
    Hope you have a great time in Italyl Whis I could be there with you ♥♥
  • minniemouse said on May 06, 2007....

    Happy birthday Ginger!!!  So happy for your trip!  You will make special memories for you, your daughter and your mom! 

    I am not Italian....but my dream is to visit there one day! 

    Birthday hugs!!!  MM

  • mom said on May 06, 2007....
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!  I didn't know it was your birthday.  I am so happy for you that you can go back to your home where your roots are.   I am sorry about your sister.   You deserve this vacation, so very much.  You are an amazing person.
  • MsStar39 said on May 06, 2007....
    Happy Birthday ginger, enjoy your time with your mom.
  • sweet_cookie01 said on May 06, 2007....
    Happy birthday gingersoul... Its good that you'll be visiting your home country... I am so happy for you... Yeah its so SO hot here right now... English is our countries second language. That is why call centers are mainly located here... they are mushrooming like crazy. One of their requirements is to be able to speak english fluently. I remember reading in a magazine that Filipinos are the best english speaking people in asia.
  • CreativeWoman said on May 06, 2007....
    Ginger,

    Happy Birthday!  I hope you have a wonderful trip home.

    CW
  • Lioness said on May 06, 2007....
    Happy Happy Birthday Ginger!!! Wishing you all the best in life and a lot more blessings, you deserve it all... I bet you'll have a great vacation.

    I could imagine what a great chat you had with your new found friend. =)

    @sweet_cookie: you were born in Baguio? Sadinno ti ayan mo tattan?
  • sweet_cookie01 said on May 06, 2007....
    sorry lioness...i dont speak ilocano... i stayed for 10 years there but never learned the language... i dont even speak pangasinan though this is where i grew up.
  • Lioness said on May 06, 2007....
    Oh, I see scookie. Just like my li'l sis.. But she can speak a little and understand a little too. I miss going back there. =) thanks.
  • mobil said on May 06, 2007....
    I was smiling the whole time while reading this 'Gingerbread. Your
    excitement is contagious. HAPPY BIRTHDAY
     
    What a great adventure for you and your daughter, this trip is just what
    the doctor ordered. Good for you and HAPPY BIRTHDAY AGAIN
    GINGERBREAD
  • secretlife said on May 06, 2007....
    What wonderful news!  A whole month!!!! 
    Your mother is going to be so happy!
    Your daughter is going to love this trip...
    And I can feel your happiness!
     
    Happy Birthday one more time ging....i'm so glad you had a good day!
  • queenparanoia said on May 06, 2007....

    happy birthday ginger!!! i'm so happy youre going to italy!!! MABUHAY!!!!

    and yeah as sweet_ccokie and paper said... call centers are booming here in the philippines... anyway i might go to manila this friday!

    english is our second language and yeah some said that the best english speakers are filipinos...

    i'm happy that you thought of me when you thought of philippines!!!

    loves you ginger!!!!

     

  • beyondtheveil said on May 06, 2007....
    ginsoul- Happy birthday, I'm so glad for you and your daughter about the trip.
     
    And once again, you have so expertly made me a very jealous person.
     
    I may come back and extend this comment after I quit pouting.
  • D6fer said on May 06, 2007....
    Happy B-day ginger!....the trip sounds great......I would love to spend a month in italy....or just about anywhere different at this point.
  • botoni said on May 06, 2007....
    Ginger babes! What wonderful news! You are floating on a cloud with excitement! I m so so so happy for you. You ve had a wonderful birthday! Let me add my best wishes for you.
    I really want you to slip away while your home and have a glass of wine near the shore and think of me wishing I could be with you!
  • gingersoul said on May 07, 2007....

    Skald......Iceland lady, you are so full of energy and sweetness...thank you so much...yes, my mom deserves this time..i was thinking today that her time is getting shorter by the day and who knows how long her good health will assist her?...

    Minnie....thnak you so much....dreams do come true...i wish you to see my country one day...:-)

    Mom....i have been so tempted not to go....i was breaking my head calculating and thinking and counting....you know, finances are tight and i was worried i might have some emergency and not being able to face it...but if i dont go i will really regret it.. ...lets think positive ...:D

    Ms...thank you, flower lady...;-)

    Sweet......indeed, i was really impressed....Jerric seems a kind, intelligent, funny guy...he sure loves to talk....lol...

    CW.....thank you again....:-)

    Lioness.....i am learning a lot about Phils lately.....i would love to to visit your country....do you live there? .....thank you...:-)

    Mobil.......lol....yes,  just what the doctor ordered...been homesick and heartaching, need my medicine now....lol....   

    Secret.....thank you again....{hug}...well, technically is less than one month....who is counting?...:-D. I told my daughter about the trip when she went home earlier...she started to scream like a piglet.....she is very, very excited to go....bet she is already dreaming about gelato and pizza....LOL..

    Queen.....well, how couldn't i forget to mention you when i was showing off with Jerric my knowledge about halo halo??.....He seemed very impressed by that...LOL...i confessed him i learned by you though ...

    Beyond...my home is open to my friends....dont pout anymore...ok?.....:-D

    D6....i know...away from this life....whenever might be...but Italy sounds so good to me...LOL.... .

    BottieHottie.....its a done deal......i will do even more than this....since my brother has a a digital camera and a computer i guess i will be able to even post pixs from there so you will see i keep my promise...i will drink my red wine wishing you could be there with me...{hugs}

  • marysaaka said on May 07, 2007....
    There is nothing like a special birthday gift, even tho we have them daily, this is that special one with add favor,  have a happy birthday and trip, you and your daughter,
  • ErinTryin2bStrong said on May 07, 2007....

    Ginger~~ That sure sounds like a really great day to me! Esp with that $400 bargin!  I love a nice chat with someone who doesn't try to kick you off the phone. It's pretty rare these days to be able to find someone who actually enjoys a conversation with you, everyone are always so "busy".

    I'm sure your family will really appreciate your efforts with how the trip is planned! It sound so exciting, I want to take a holiday too but that probably won't happen anytime soon :(

    I'm just very glad everyting worked out for you! Nice to hear someone had a great Bday!

    Erin

  • pessimisticvaunt said on May 07, 2007....
    gs.... happy bday... what a great gift to yourself
  • redrocks said on May 07, 2007....
    welcome home ;)
  • kingcobra said on May 07, 2007....

    Happy birthday my darling ...and many many more.....

    Do you remember that song???  One of my favorites....

  • gingersoul said on May 07, 2007....

    Mary.......thank you...my daughter has already put the news in he MySpace for all her friends to know (and i bet she want some of them to be green with envy too .....lol.....)  

    Lucky......oh, there is still time to talk before the trip, paisa'.... lol...

    Erin.....you are so right...it is rare and i was thinking to write a letter to Expedia about Jerric..i mean....customers should poin tout teh posutive so teh companies wil work in that dierction and then i hope Jerric can have something good from being so professional and nice.....:-)

    Pessimistic...LOL....if they don't give us roses, we buy ourselves roses.... thank you...... 

    Red........thank you so much ...and you? are you planning any trip this summer? ....maybe here?....LOL... 

    King....thank you, my friend.....oh, yes, my daughter was singing that to me yesterday but the long version of it.....something involving racoon and Channel Two and many more on Channel Four....lol.....

    I got the Italian version from a friend of mine who were singing it at the phone from Italy:

    "Tanti auguri a te. Tanti auguri a te. Tanti auguri, mia cara. Tanti auguri a te"...

  • harriedpsychmajor said on May 07, 2007....
    Happy birthday, ginger! And have a great time!
  • gingersoul said on May 07, 2007....
    Harried.....thank you so much...i will try...lol...
  • dailyachesandpains said on May 07, 2007....
    Ginger, I am SO happy that your daughter is excited to go!  Maybe by being there for an entire month, she might want to move there!!!
     
    I hope we don't miss you here for a month! 
     
    I am SO excited for you!  I'm sure it'll be very emotional for you.  Stay strong!
     
    {{{HUGS}}}
    Daily
  • trying.to.be.truthful said on May 07, 2007....
    Thats awesome that you are going to Italy.
     
    I am going to Australia at the beginning of the summer.
     
    I hope you have an awesome trip.
  • gingersoul said on May 07, 2007....

    Daily........{{hugs}}}......oh, she is already telling about the trip to EVERYBODY!......and already thinking what she is going to pack ....that girl is a fashionista...lol..

    I dont think i will be able to stay all that time away from SC though...i will go to my bestfriend Niki's house and i will pester you guys with my blogs from there......i promise you lots of pixs....my brother has a brand new digital camera  (a lot better than my crappy one!)....:-)

    Trying.....nice to meet first of all...thanks for stopping by...:-)

    Australia is great! Are you going to visit your family like me or for vacation? 

  • Lioness said on May 07, 2007....
    ginger, I assure you, you'd never regret coming to the Philippines!! Please do visit our country. =) yes, I live here. 
  • redrocks said on May 08, 2007....
    naaah, no  US for me. Going to Sardinia in August :)
  • ErinTryin2bStrong said on May 08, 2007....
    Ginger, maybe you should do that. I'm sure Jerric deserves to be recognise for doing such a fantastic job!  ~ Erin :)
  • gingersoul said on May 08, 2007....

    Lioness.....oh, you dont know how much i would like it.........any pix i see shows a Paradise on Earth...:-)

    Red....i am plannign to go there for a week end to visit a friend of mine....:-)..

    Erin....yes, i went to Expedia website to look how to direct this kind of letters......:-) 

  • trying.to.be.truthful said on May 08, 2007....
    i am just going to see the sites:] yeah, i am already decided what i want to pack and everything too:]
  • gingersoul said on May 08, 2007....
    Trying........which part of Australia are you going to visit?
  • moonriver said on May 09, 2007....
    ginger -- am i late for your party? lol. anyway, here's my birthday greeting card. hope you like it, even if it's a bit recycled. italia! roma! summer! ancient moon over ancient tiber! fontana di trevi!  le spiagge! e firenze anche! (excuse me while i wipe my drool...)

  • trying.to.be.truthful said on May 11, 2007....

    Pretty much all over. I am going to New Zealand too:]

  • gingersoul said on May 11, 2007....

    Moon.....i saw it and loved it.....simply perfect..{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

    Trying....hey, now you are going to make me drool for real......:-)

  • trying.to.be.truthful said on May 12, 2007....
    Yeah, it's pretty exciting!:]
     
    But please don't drool, haha.
  • redrocks said on May 13, 2007....
    where's your friend in Sardinia? Town?

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