A car crash, that is.
First of all, I'm going to be ok.
My husband was driving and failed to yield at a green light. I couldn't believe it was happening. All I could see was a white car heading squarely for me on my side of the car as my husband turned in front of it. It all happened so fast. My husband said he didn't even know we were going to be hit until he heard me scream.
It bent the axle or whatever it is called under the right front of the car because the tire is not in the proper place and it can't be driven. The passenger side door is crunched in at the middle with the frame popped out at the top. The glove box on the inside won't close, but I think maybe that is because my knee hit there.
What made it even scarier was that my window was down while a big white car was heading at me. Amazingly, the only part of the other car that actually touched me was chards of its headlights that landed in my lap and on my feet.
No one was hurt except for me and my injuries are minor in the grand scheme of things. My right shoulder is badly bruised from the underside by my armpit . My right elbow is bruised at the joint and a bruise is spreading up my arm toward my shoulder. I also have a bruise and scrape from where the seat belt held me tight. The right side of my neck and my right shoulder blade are also sore. They seem to hurt a little more as the day wears on.
I'm so lucky it wasn't worse.
My husband and I have had disagreements about yielding at green lights for years. The country boy just thinks green means go. Perhaps now he will learn his lesson.
The insurance hullabaloo will probably all fall into my lap. I get the joy of all that tomorrow. I would throw it at my husband if I knew he wouldn't mess it up. I still might.
What a way to spend a birthday.
CW
CreativeWoman posted on Apr 29, 2007
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polarheart said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW, so sorry to hear that!! Really, that sucks! I hope you will be all healed up in no time at all. {{{{hugs}}}} Polar -
lioneljay said on Apr 29, 2007....
I'm glad to hear that you're relatively safe and sound. A half-second one way or the other and you might have had much worse injuries. I got into a similar cruncher a few years ago when I was in a desperate hurry to get somewhere on time. Fortunately the wifely one sustained no injuries except the scratches that one usually gets from a deployed air bag. I drive much more sanely now, even when I'm late.
It really is possible for an old dog to learn a few new tricks, if they're simple enough. -
botoni said on Apr 29, 2007....
OH Sunshine! I m so sorry! What a fright that must have been. I m glad you werent severly injured. Couldnt hubby find something better to give you for your birthday? -
Zayda said on Apr 29, 2007....
Oh CW--I am glad to hear that your injuries were relatively mild. I'm terribly sorry that you had to spend your birthday that way. -
silverwhisper said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW, i'm really relieved that you weren't seriously hurt.
i swear, some days i want to kick that man's ass for you, CW.
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 29, 2007....
polar,
Thanks. I'm sure I'll bounce back soon.
lionel,
The crazy thing is that the airbags didn't go off. I guess that's ok since we walked away.
I hope he'll learn this one.
I'm glad you and yours weren't hurt badly in your crash.
botoni,
Yeah, I think he could have chosen a better gift. It was very frightful, indeed.
Zayda.
Thanks. I'm just thankful it wasn't worse.
CW
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 29, 2007....
ed,
Thank you on both counts. :-) I've been trying not to be a backseat driver because he gets so frustrated with me when I am. I just couldn't believe he turned in front of the car. I wouldn't have had time to warn him anyway.
CW
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VICARIOUS said on Apr 29, 2007....
Gald you weren't hurt badly. Maybe some introspection is coming, a nice Birthday girft after all.Happy Birthday lucky lady! -
CreativeWoman said on Apr 29, 2007....
Vic,
Thanks. It does make you think about how precious life is.
CW
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dailyachesandpains said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW, I can't believe that happened! Thank God you're going to be okay! I can't believe you had the strenght to even type the post!!!Were you going out for your birthday when this happened?I'm so sorry, CW, I hope you heal fast. I'll admit, I was having a flash-back reading that. It gets worse before it gets better and I'm sorry to bring you the news. I'll be thinking of you and I pray that you heal fast!{{{{{HUGS}}}}}Daily -
CreativeWoman said on Apr 29, 2007....
Daily,
Thanks. We had just finished a dinner and were headed home. In all honesty, I think he had his mind on what kind chores he wanted to do when he got home.
My bruises are getting darker as the day goes on. I think I'll go rest for a bit and let my body rejuvenate some.
CW
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genalonewolf said on Apr 29, 2007....
Look at it this way CW, you are still alive to be able to teach your husband the right way to have a birthday and what gifts to get you! lol. I am glad that nothing is serious with you. Rest well and get back to health soon! -
secretlife said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW: thank God you're ok. helluva way to spend your birthday, but at least you're ok.
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AlisonMarie19 said on Apr 29, 2007....
OMG, CW!! That's no good. I'm so sorry you were involved in this! I'm glad you are ok, even though you're hurting. :( Rest easy, sweetie, and MAKE him baby you!!(({{{gentle hugs}}}))) =(^-^)= ali m. -
minniemouse said on Apr 29, 2007....
OMG! So glad you were not seriously injured! What a frightening experience! Sending you 2 hugs...one for the accident and a great big one for your birthday! MM -
gingersoul said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW....what a freaking way to celebrate, indeed!
But at least you are here to write about it...I am so glad you escaped with minor bruises, CW....
Your accident reminded me of one that i had years ago...my then to be husband was driving..it was very early in the morning, after a night of (let's say) intense activities he was dead tired and practically didnt see the curve and kept going straight.....the car rolled twice outside the road on the egde....and landed on the roof...we got out of there from the broken widndshield. I messed up my right shoulder and neck, with bruises all over the place and some cuts from the glasses.. It was quick and scary....
Yes, your bruises are going to turn purple and deep blue tomorrow..
Have a quick recovery..{{hugs}}
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MissMimi said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW, how are you feeling this evening? Thank God it was no worse than bruises. Sorry about the vehicle but the important thing is everybody will be okay. {{{hug}}} -
Mamie said on Apr 29, 2007....
hey CW, I am so glad that you are okay. I am sending you healing rays of light and love and hope that you will be able to heal quickly. My daughter was in an accident recently too and I too thought that it could have been worse but still it is terrifying and I am so relieved that you will be okay. Yes the insurance part stinks, maybe you should do it so it is done right:))
Be well and I enjoy following what you are up to...I am soon "free" and will be back to my blogging self, it's all good!! xo, Mamie ps Happy Birthday!!
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MsStar39 said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW I am extremely grateful that you were hurt no more seriously then you were, what a way to spend a birthday, the only good thing that will come out of this is that maybe
DH has learned his lesson before anyone died.
Just lay back, take your pain meds and soak up all the love that you so rightously deserve from your soulcast friends.
Hope you are feeling much better soon,Hope you will enjoy this virtual bowl of hot chicken soup while you are healing. ((((HUGS)))))
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boyzmom said on Apr 29, 2007....
It makes me sad that you were in an accident on your birthday. I am glad that you don't feel too bad tonight but please do not hesitate to seek medical attention if needed in a day or two. And don't forget to take your vitamins, all that bruising is bound to cause your electrolytes to be a little out of balance also. Heal fast CW! -
taniatanfa said on Apr 29, 2007....
as you said it could of been worse good thing you are still with us. We care for you and charish your talent and who you are as a person we can see who you are wonderful through your writings. Take care
Sincerely
taniatanfa:)
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fearing said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW - I am so thankful you and your hubby are okay!
ps - happy birthday!
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mom said on Apr 29, 2007....
CW- that is so awful. I am glad that you are ok. You will probably be sore for a few days. I hope you didn't get shaken up too bad. You have a guardian angel sweetie. That is a pisser that it was on your birthday. :( -
Daniel68 said on Apr 29, 2007....
David Halberstam was killed this week, when an undergrad who was driving him went through a green light just as your husband did. Halberstam, perhaps the greatest living historian, died nearly instantly as the car that hit him on the passenger side punctured his heart with a broken rib.
Tell your husband to pull up and look, even when the light is green. That's what driving defensively means. I'm glad you are alright, and could share that with us. Take care of your injuries.
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RollingC said on Apr 29, 2007....
Thank God you all are ok and it could've been a lot worse. Your husband would need to take some driving lessons.... I take it he's never driven south of the border and that would be a real education for him ( if he survives it ).
Hope that you're feeling better and that you'll get well soon.
Rc
ps - Happy Birthday... : >)
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
genalonewolf,
Thanks. I'm sure I'll be better soon.
secret,
Thanks. I'm very grateful that I'm still alive and kicking.
Ali,
He would have to stick around the house to baby me. That's not going to happen. I can take pretty good care of myself. :-)
minnie,
Thanks for the hugs. It was frightening.
ginger,
Wow! Your accident sounds way more frightening than mine. I'm glad you were ok. Thanks for the well wishes.
Mimi,
I am doing a ok. I had a good long vent session about it with my sister. A little girl talk always helps. :-) I'm very thankful it wasn't worse like you said.
Mamie,
It is so good to see you! Thank your for those healing rays of light. :-D (I'll be checking out your blog soon.)
MsStar,
Chicken soup from a friend always helps things mend. Thank you. I don't think the husband will forget this anytime soon. At least, that is my hope.
boyz,
Thank you for the great advice. I will be sure to do that.
tan,
Thank you for the sweet things you said about me. I feel better already. :-)
fearing,
Thank you so much.
mom,
I was a little more shook up about it today than I was yesterday. I keep seeing that car coming at me and hearing myself scream when I close my eyes. I'm sure that will pass because I'm pretty stubborn about trying to push it out of mind. I'm certain there was divine intervention at play. :-)
Daniel,
It is frightening if I dwell on it especially when you know other people don't always survive these kinds of crashes. As mom said, there must have been an angel with me. It just wasn't my time to go.
The husband does need to learn to watch the other drivers around him. He is too much of a gawker.
RC,
Thanks. He sure could use some driving lessons.
CW
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MissMimi said on Apr 30, 2007....
CW! You need cake!
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polarheart said on Apr 30, 2007....
Ah, Mimikins, that is so sweet of you to do for CW. Just wanted to say I've missed you here over the weekend. What is the time at your place now? (((hugs))) Polar -
CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
Mimi,
Thanks! Yours is the only birthday cake I've gotten. :-)
polar,
It was nice of Mimi. :-)
CW
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MissMimi said on Apr 30, 2007....
CW, I don't usually get my own cake. B's birthday is four days before mine, and we usually just have some of his cake.
Polarbunny, it's just after 3 a.m. here. So off to bed I go. {{{{{hugs for CW and polar}}}}} -
polarheart said on Apr 30, 2007....
CW, dig into that cake NOW! Isn't it cool. . . .a zero calorie cake! :-)Mimibabes, its about time to go to bed! I have also been "caught" blogging in the wee hours of the morning! You and I are 5 hours apart. . .its now 8:20am here.Sweet dreams! -
sweet_cookie01 said on Apr 30, 2007....
I'm so sorry to hear that... Its good to know that you'll be fine. I hope the bruising and the soreness will heal soon. Count your blessings... It could have been worse. Take care and Get well soon... regarding the car.... I hope the insurance will pay up for everything. Her's a hug and a kiss for you CW... HMMM....mmmmwah!!! -
smoochie_pie said on Apr 30, 2007....
Phew, its a good thing that you're going to be ok... I can't imagine going through that... Maybe if I were you, I'd be too scared to ride cars for a month or so... Well, at least look at the bright side CW, even though an accident happened on your birthday, you and your husband are still ok. Right? And oh, maybe just to make you happy, I'm not saying you're sad or anything but just to make you smile, Happy Birthday! And hope you'll take good care of yourself! MWAH! =)Smoopie -
skald said on Apr 30, 2007....
CW I am so sorry but I am glad that you are not seriously injured. I have been in crashed 3 times in my life and I´ve always thought well now it is going to happen. It´s like the last moment before the crah freezes. I´ve never driven my self when only been sitting in the car when this has happened. Twice with my husband and once with my daughter in law. Again I am so sorry. What a birthday!!!!! -
wombat said on Apr 30, 2007....
CreativeWoman: I wasn't around yesterday or last night, so I didn't see till now---
So sorry to read about your accident but glad you are both ok!
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EvilTwin said on Apr 30, 2007....
Glad to hear you are okay! Not the way to celebrate a birthday, in my opinion...Regardless, I hope the rest of your birthday was nice... Happy Belated! -
allswell said on Apr 30, 2007....
Hi CW i'm so sorry that happened and to make it worse on your birthday! I'm glad to hear your not hurt too badly, your pretty lucky it's sound like a pretty bad accident.......get plenty of rest and i hope you fell better soon.....hugs..... -
CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
Mimi and Polar,
I'm not really too bent out of shape for not having a cake. I don't need the sweets anyway. :-) This was the best way to have it.
Smoopie,
Thanks. I've already been back in a car. You just have to keep going and be thankful it wasn't worse than it was.
skald,
Thank you. I have been in two car crashes. Both of them were on my birthday!!! The first one was when I was 15 and then this one. You are right about the last moment freezing.
wombat,
Thank you. I am counting my blessings.
ET,
Thanks. My next birthday will surely be better. At least I'll be around for it.
alls,
Thank you. It could have been much, much worse. I'm thanking my lucky stars.
CW
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blastfromthepast said on Apr 30, 2007....
Ooooh, CW! That's a terrible thing to have happen ANY time, but on your birthday?!! Deep bruises are really painful, so take the advice and pop those pain meds. Mind if I have a piece of that zero calory cake? Yum! -
EvilTwin said on Apr 30, 2007....
Yes CW, you will be around for it. I just wish you had not gotten so battered and bruised this year... You do have my deepest sympathies on the bruises and scrapes. Speaking from experience (that I would rather not have), it could have been much worse...Take care ot yourself... -
uniquely-ironic said on Apr 30, 2007....
So glad that you're okay. I hope you still had cake, since even a car crash is no reason to not have one! I guess I am just wishing you a safe year and many more birthdays. -
rmuxagirl said on Apr 30, 2007....
I'm so sorry that's how your birthday went. I'm so glad you are ok and no one was seriously injured.
HUGS
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
L-13,
Thank you for the advice and the prayers. I can use both. Help yourself to some cake. :-)
ET,
I know what you mean. Getting hurt is never any fun. Sorry you have that kind of experience too. I will take care. Thanks.
uniquely,
Thank you for the birthday wishes. I didn't have any cake this year, but it's ok.
rmuxagirl,
Thank you. Next year will be better.
CW
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LadyGamer said on Apr 30, 2007....
Feh. I was t-boned at a green light. I alwasy approach them now with hesitation.
Happy Birthday to you! Wish it hadn't been so dramatic.
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
blast,
I didn't mean to miss you in that last response. I guess I am slipping. :-)
Help yourself to the cake and thank you for the well wishes. It won't go down in history as one of my top 10 fun birthdays, but it might make the most memorable list.
LG,
That's pretty much what happened in my crash. We were broadsided on my side. I certainly could have used a little less drama.
CW
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DeadlyJester said on Apr 30, 2007....
I was in a crash 2 days after my 21st birthday, in 2004. I was visiting family in St. Augustine and got t-boned by a high schooler from Jacksonville who was trying to get home before mommy & daddy found out she'd skipped school. I saw it coming as I was making a left onto US-1 out of the restaurant driveway where my step-son (he was 3 at the time) and I had just eaten lunch. Time does seem to stand still, or at least slow dramatically. In the span of less than 1/2 a second I thought "That car's going really fast. That car's not going to stop. Shit, this is going to hurt." I was right, it hurt like a mother-fucker. The muscles in my back are permanently jacked-up, I fractured a rib, hit my head, sprained my knee & ankle, bruised my wrist and the back of my shoulder, and got minor whip lash. The only effects I still feel now are a constant pain in my back (always at least a 5 on a 1-10 pain scale), and sometimes my rib twinges where it was fractured. Fortunately, all my step-son got was scared, no injuries.
I was in another accident back in January, where a guy turned left into me. That wasn't so bad. He didn't yield for the green light either, he didn't have an arrow. His dad (in the car behind the kid) told the FHP he should've stopped, but the trooper knew that because she was at the intersection at the time anyways.
People need to learn how to drive. Florida's terrible for drivers.
Happy belated birthday. I hope the insurance isn't too big a problem. (I got screwed the first time around).
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
DJ,
It sounds like your first crash was way worse than mine. I don't think I'll have any lasting affects from my injuries.
So far, it looks like I'm lucking out with the insurance. Out of pocket expense is going to be $500. I'm so happy we had good coverage. Now I just need to keep my husband out of the body shop until the adjuster gives the ok. We've been around and around about that a couple of times already
He's not a very good driver or thinker sometimes.
CW
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botoni said on Apr 30, 2007....
CW.....I m suggesting that for future birthday riding I d like to take you in a rickshaw rather than the car since you seem to be prone to car accidents on birthdays. We ll celebrate together and have a night on the town. -
CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
botoni,
That sounds safer. :-) I mentioned to the police officer that it was the second accident I had been in on my birthday. He suggested that I start staying home. He was joking, of course.
CW
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Sandman said on Apr 30, 2007....
Happy Birthday CW ! ! ! ! ! I'm sorry to hear
about the crash . As a trucker i can tell you
that you have to keep your eyes open all the
time for other crazy drivers . We all make
mistakes and if we are lucky someone will
be watching . As far as green means go .....
hmmmmm well ... it does but it is always
a good idea to still look in all directions just
in case someone isn't paying attention ! I am
happy that no serious injuries took place .
I'm headed for Ca. now so i will keep your
b/d crash in mind . Crazy 4 wheelers anyhow !
Lol ....... Be careful !
G.
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
G.,
Thanks. My husband said he was watching the light and not the other drivers. I hope he learns a little lesson in paying better attention.
You be safe on your travels.
CW
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mom said on Apr 30, 2007....
CW- How are you feeling hon? That post traumatic stress will stay for a bit. It is awful, when you closed your eyes to sleep on Saturday night, did you see that wreck happen a few times and scare you a lot? If something happens to me that is traumatic I relive it a few times. I hope you are doing better. -
CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
mom,
I'm doing ok. Saturday night I did keep seeing the car coming at me and hearing myself scream. Last night the dogs outside barked all night and I ended up listening to my headphones to take my mind off of things.
Thanks for checking on me. :-)
CW
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wombat said on Apr 30, 2007....
Sandman: Just keeping up with posts: So you are a trucker like my hubby. And headed to CA? Hmm..Just a thought.....about someone else..... I love being married to a trucker, by the way. A rare and precious breed.... KEEP ON TRUCKIN! -
mom said on Apr 30, 2007....
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CreativeWoman said on Apr 30, 2007....
mom,
Very good advice. :-)
wombat,
Did I ever tell you that my dad is a truck driver?
CW
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Taffy000 said on May 01, 2007....
I'm glad you're OK. My husband totaled our paid off car some months ago. So now we have 2 car payments!!!! Wonderful!!!! It is pretty funny how quickly I was able to make the switch from "my car" to the new car which is my car now. My husband hasn't even driven it yet!! -
CreativeWoman said on May 03, 2007....
Taffy,
Thanks. Fortunately or not, my car is fixable. Let's hope it has no residual affects.
Glad you got a new car out of your ordeal. :-)
CW
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Alyss said on May 03, 2007....
CW I'm just catching up on the latest posts and found this! {hugs} That was one hell of a way to spend your birthday. =(
I hope your bruises and aches and pains are beginning to fade.
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Sandman said on May 03, 2007....
Wombat : Yes , i have been a trucker for 19 ofthe last 24 years . My wife is like u and has noproblem being married to a trucker . Yes , i'm headedfor City of Industry , Ca. which is in La. area . Right now i'min New Mexico and the weather is beautiful .Thank you for kind words ! ! ! G. -
CreativeWoman said on May 03, 2007....
Alyss,
Thanks. They are starting to fade. I'm happy to be putting them behind me.
CW
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fairytaleromance said on May 05, 2007....
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marysaaka said on May 05, 2007....
car crash was the best birthday present you ever had, facing death and all, only to learn that god favor you more , now if that ain't a happy birthday, then I ate a piece of your birthday cake.
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marysaaka said on May 05, 2007....
Polarheart and the B man , no, his name is, they both help me when I error, they keep terror off me because I dont know alot about the computer and this program usuage, so I am going to do it this way. The car crash was not the best birthday you ever had and live to, you know I have run out of words.........................pretent you dont see this..........................................
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marysaaka said on May 05, 2007....
Polarheart and the B man , no, his name is, they both help me when I error, they keep terror off me because I dont know alot about the computer and this program usuage, so I am going to do it this way. The car crash was not the best birthday you ever had and live to, you know I have run out of words.........................pretent you dont see this..........................................
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marysaaka said on May 05, 2007....
shame, shame on me..............................................................................................................
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marysaaka said on May 05, 2007....
The B man is Botoni -
botoni said on May 05, 2007....
Marysaaka.....Hang in there you re doing just great! It ll get easier as time goes by.
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