How is it that my dh who has avoided work nearly our entire marraige rates alimony? He didnt sacrifice his career to raise our kids. hes just been lazy! how fucking unfair is that. is that the price i pay for giving him the time to chase his dreams? i get to support his lazy ass for the rest of his life? excuse my sexist rant. but its not like he took care of the household or Kyle for the past decade or so... Nooooo he took care of himself. if you look at our tax records youll see he hasnt made enought money to pay taxes in since we first got married!!!!!! now i have to keep supporting him!!!!! that is one of the reasons im leaving his lazy ass. hes a selfish bastard. even when my parents got divorced, my mom left college to raise four kids, she didnt rate alimony.....i guess your damned if you do and damned if  you dont.