My best friend and I haven't talked in more than a month. I got an email from her a few weeks ago saying something about how she can't get through to my cell. (That's total crap- because I got one of those chain text messages from her) Anywho, yesterday she called called me and acted as if nothing happened. We have grown apart since I got married (she's still single) and had a child, but that doesn't mean that I can't hangout with her anymore.
I guess she and I haven't been talking because of her boyfriend. I don't exactly like him (there's good reason) Funny when I talked to her she didn't mention she was making plans to get married. She saw my dad and told him she was getting married soon. Should I be hurt? Should I have expected this?
About the boyfriend:
First impression:
When I met him he was with another girl. She and I were having an all girls weekend & we happen to see him at the same place we were at. So, we see him with this girl- he doesn't even acknowledge my best friend. All he said was "Hi" He didn't even introduce the girl. The girl part really didn't bother me because they could've just been friends, but why act like my best friend was nothing to him. That really pissed me off. So, for the rest of the time she stayed with me there was crying, calling him constantly, wondering why... He didn't call her for about a week & then made her feel like crap that she was trippin'. (The girl was an ex-gf, but they're only friend) That what he told her.
Forward:
They patch things up and everything seemed pretty cool. Then she calls me all depressed- it turns out he told her that he will probably be breaking up with her because of his job- there might be a move involved & his hours won't allow them to spend time together, but don't worry about it now it hasn't happened yet. WHAT!!!! I have tried to keep my mouth shut for as long as I could, but I let it rip. I was so upset with her I didn't want to talk about him anymore. So, he ended up breaking up with her only to give her the possibility of hope & wait for him. We rarely talked from this point on. She did call me to tell they got back together & that was the last of it.
Currently:
I'm speechless. I want nothing, but the best for her. I wish her love, happiness all that good stuff that comes about finding someone- he isn't it.
