its amazing being in a relationship sometimes. here i am sitting at work with huge puffy eyes from crying my ass off last night and by the end today, after constant emails between eachother this morning and mid afternoon- we have sorted our crap out. our relationship is iether UP or down, no in-between. we have much more things to fight about and much more things to love about eachother in the same breath. here it goes....... hold on tight and buckle your seat belts... if we crash we crash. if we dont it will be a lovely journey through life together. :)
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dailyachesandpains said on Apr 23, 2007....
Lmari, are you getting back together?{{{{HUGS}}}}}Daily -
WindRider said on Apr 23, 2007....
I've been where you are... and I am not there right now. Comparing the two, I have no idea which I would prefer. Hell and pain and agony and puffy eyes... or being alone, dead and without hope... hmmmm...
I don't mean that to sound as dark as it does, please know that my best wishes go out to you and yours!
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FoundYouLostMyself said on Apr 23, 2007....
Isn't it odd? Sometimes I can't believe the sacrifices, the tears we cry for our men. I'm not really sure if they even appreciate us. But at the end of most days, they make us feel unique and oh so loved.Keep riding that rollercoaster honey. Inbetweens are heading your way. -
LMari said on Apr 24, 2007....
DAILY - we kissed and made up nicely. its crazy, sometimes i feel like we are breakup-proof. that we are made to grow old together for 100% - then we have a fight that spins outta control, and life is upside down for a moment- then we are back on track. we dont fight alot - but i cant stand those moments where you are uncertain about the future of the relationship. but in the end we always come thru.WINDRIDER- sometimes it can feel dark like that. i think when we are ready to meet someone we do. sometimes we think we are. like i was single for 6months, i was always wondering when that special guy would come around. then one day i met him in the ciggarette line! it just happens when you least expect it. or when you stop expecting it.FOUNDYLM- tell me about it! when we are going thru a realy cool patch. when everything is going fine and happy and lovely, i get worried bcos i know that down slope is coming up soon!!!men can be realy insensitive and inconsiderate. thats why i try not to fuss so much over him like i used to. be like a man sometimes, not care if the hairdryer is ruining he's tv programme - fart and burp infront of him. it helps when you adapt your amount of consideration to the other one. then it feels more fair in some wierd way? but im happy that i get to experience being in love and loving and caring for someone. no one can predict the future so i try my best not to take it for granted. -
southerngirl said on May 23, 2007....
Enjoy the journey, you are preparing your self for the good or the bad which ever you are with seat belts for the crash, which you want need because as long as there is a positive chain of commucating that will help you both land on your feets with heart intactic. good luck