I  really don't know how to start but all I know is I really hate my brother in law! I don't know when will my burdened of having him in our home will end. He is a heavy crossed lay on our back.  Eversince me and my husbands' relationship started he is already around it seems that he assumed the responsibility  of his parents to his 23 y/o brother who doesn't even finished his High School or out of school, jobless and doesn't even know how to do household chores! He doesn't even flash the toilet bowl after using it. All he knows and WANTS  to do is to play computer from morning until dawn, watch TV/DVDS...to waste my husbands' money, to waste and throw food that he didn't like to eat and steal the change of everything we asked him to buy in a nearby store (yeah he overprice the items he bought)...

My 10 & 12 y/o brother who is on a vacation caught him stealing money in our room not once but everytime I'll go out to go to the market luckily we didn't left money in our closet that time because most of the time we are confident to left valuable things in our room unlocked.

Most of the time me and my husband argue because of his brothers' attitude, I often tell him to looked for a housemaid because I'm tired of doing the household chores, cooking, doing the laundry,  taking care of our 10 month old baby boy and everything all by myself because I can't even ask his brother to help me, his brother who is a born liar used to tell him that his helping me, he thought that he really helps and when I tell him the truth he get irritated he used to tell me to ask help from his brother but how could I ask somebody  who  doesn't really want to help.

To end my calvary of doing everything in our home by myself, I ask my mom to transfer in our place, before she really wants me and my baby  to go home and leave my husband because for them it looks like they treating me like a housemaid specially his bullshit brother!

 It's really a nightmare I'm awake from 6am til 12 midnight, sometimes I can't even go to bathroom because nobody will look for my baby, I'll only eat when my husband arrive or when my baby sleeps. And when my  baby sleeps I'll do the cooking, washing, cleaning etc. It's ok that he is acting like a prince if our maid is still around or if my husband is not working  but  the situation is not like that. My husband is too busy recovering the growing loses of our company and he even get sick of all this stressful activity in our office, how come that he could relax and wasting everything...

One incident that got me very irritated  is when he told my  2 younger brothers  that it is ok that he  waste everything  and play computer  the whole day  because  his brother is  the one paying  the bills!  My God, my husband is sick and needs a 2 wks bed rest, his medicines is very expensive then he had the nerve to tell all those stuffs how come??? He do even ask for money and go for a week end vacation he is really stupid!

You  know what guys he is only an adopted child  their whole  relatives  knows that everyone  knows that except him or he doesn't really want to accept it. I said to my mom I didn't want  to tell  him the truth or even comes from my me  but if he pushes me to the limit I'll teach him the lessons he never learned from his parents!

I haven't told my husband all this stuffs because I don't know how...I love him...I love our family and I don't want to end up because of him...