• secretlife said on Apr 15, 2007....

  i'd say you're well rid of him....
  you aren't being a prude.  hes just showing you what he's interested in....

• yani said on Apr 15, 2007....

  nope you're not a prude. some guys are really just like that...........a JERK!

  good riddance! :)

   

• CamDaMan20 said on Apr 15, 2007....

  PB65:  No, not a prude.  Just made the mistake of not "clicking" his IM shut once you made your point the first time, just click and iggy.  lol...thats it, simple.
  
  I am not that kinda guy....hehe
  
  Cam.
  
  

• dailyachesandpains said on Apr 16, 2007....

  Not a prude at all...he was RUDE!
  Daily

• anonymous said on Apr 16, 2007....

  You are no prude.  But his favorite position is obvious:  foot in mouth; head up ass.
  
  
  

• uniquely-ironic said on Apr 16, 2007....

  The jerk was out there looking for a cheap thrill and he picked the wrong mark.  You're absolutely not a prude for wanting to have some sort of relationship with someone before talking dirty.  This is probably the type of guy who can't approach a gal in "real life" so he uses the internet because it takes no guts.

• lafemmecachee said on Apr 16, 2007....

  No, you're absolutely not being a prude! After all, if you'd met this guy in person, it would have been considered rude for him to say that in your first conversation. And, he probably wouldn't have been brave enough to act the same way in person. Or, if he does, he must get slapped often and probably hasn't had a date since Bryan Adams had a hit song. And, if it's not okay to say something in person, you shouldn't say it online - because you are still saying it.
  

  
  I actually posted a blog awhile back about a similar experience I had with a guy I went out with a couple of times who seemed great in person, but when he asked me for my IM, showed a very different side of his personality, saying things that were way too overtly sexual for someone I'd just met. If you want to read the whole thing, it's on the third page of my blog with the title "A Story and a Question". I remember when I asked him of it seemed strange to be saying these things to someone he just met, he said, "No. It's part of getting to know eachother." Now, I would think getting to know eachother on that level is later when you are having sex with the person which shouldn't be assumed after one date.

• billmac said on Apr 16, 2007....

  No you were 100% right. He was totaly out of line. He should know there are chat rooms and web sights where ALL the people ( men/woman) are entering because they want sexual content right away. in that chat room or site he would be ok. Bill M

• gingersoul said on Apr 16, 2007....

  Princess.....well, get used to it....its a jungle out there...there are people looking only for online quickies and people, like you, looking for friendship and some intelligent conversation...

  Next time it will happen (because it will happen again, i guarantee it ) dont even feel pressured to explain your point of view.

  Just say "I see that  you and i are looking for completely different things"  and click away...

  Good luck...:-)

• princessbitch65 said on Apr 16, 2007....

  Hey guys, thanks! For a minute I thought I was crazy!  I don't mind if the subject comes up but that first conversation ( online or in person) for me is pretty critical if I should continue to talk to that person. Actually I had a guy IM me once and asked me if I wanted to watch him masterbate! I  told him no and to never contact me again. As far as I know he hasn't.

  I almost referred the guy to Adultfriend finder. Damn  sometimes I'm slow on comebacks! LOL!

   

• Eilan said on Apr 16, 2007....

  You're not a prude.  He's an asshat.  And even on AdultFriendFinder most people (okay, women, anyway) like to get to know each other before they cyber or do anything sexual IRL.  Been there, done that.

• boyzmom said on Apr 16, 2007....

  I surely don't miss the days when I would come across guys like that! It sounds like meeting guys in bars is no worse than this, except in bars they can actually masturbate all over you leg like a dog.

  No your not being prude, but keep your standards high so you know if the person you are talking to would respect you for that.

• mom said on Apr 16, 2007....

  A lot of people are under the impression that if you are chatting that you are easy. I enjoy chatting with people on here but I don't want to cyber.  You are not being a prude.  The guy is an ass and just click them off next time.  I used to get guys that come on and the first thing they would have typed is "I am sitting here rubbing my cock"  to me that was so ignorant and it pissed me off.  I would say "good for you"and click them off.  I even had a guy ask me one time, "what are you wearing?"  I thought it would deter him if I said a gunny sack.  He just kept going, I told him I had boxers on and combat boots, he still kept asking.  Finally I told him to Fuck off and clicked him gone.

• princessbitch65 said on Apr 17, 2007....

  Mom: LOL! I usually get those and click them off. It's the ones that start off nice. I'm just tired of the stupid games- it's so high school.

• cotteralladams2 said on Apr 21, 2007....

  My dear, this is not a forum for sex.  It is also rather crude to post information about one's sex life online.  Sex is a wonderful thing but it is also private and intimate.  People should treat it that way.  It is the same as sexually explicit material on the Net.  I have read that about 75% of sites on the Internet relate to this.  I would not know--I don't go looking.

• anonymous said on Apr 21, 2007....

  I think you were right. You're not being prude he was totally inappropriate...

• CamDaMan20 said on May 01, 2007....

  Cotter:  You sound like your drunk off your ass on "dick cams" and loving it you pious jerk.  This isn't a place to talk sex...seems it didn't take you long to entertain the young ladies Post now did it ?
  
  Cotter, be careful of attacking people in here for talking about sex,  you are at a loss for words in your current  vocabulary to respond to the attack upon yourself by those on this very page that talk sex....yes, even experience sex, and enjoy sex.
  
  Difference is we do it with humans whereas I might tend to believe your form of sex is commonly referred to as "Knotting".  STFU.
  
  Cam.
  

• mom said on May 01, 2007....

  Knotting? boy am I behind the times here.  What is knotting.

  cotter- there are many topics on SC that might appeal to you, but this is Princess' blog and she can tlak about what she wants to.    Just as you can talk about what you want on yours.  If you don't like a topic don't read.

• BRITTANY_SPEARS said on Jan 09, 2009....

  A pig who wants to talk about sex right out of the gate is a *gay slob!

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