Am I really that mean? I have had people tell me that if looks could kill I would be the best assassin in the world. My brother in laws girl has been here, what about a week and she already does things that kind of annoy me, like when we are making something to eat, "Why do you do it like that, it would be better like this" you know things like that. It annoys me. So it kind of has made me feel irritated by her. Plus my mother in law now has taken to her. Just the other day they were looking for a specific video and I was pretty sure that I saw it in the drawer, so I said as much. She responded, " uh humm" you know kind of shrugging me off. When I realized she was doing that, I said ' you did not even hear me" she turned and gave me the dirtiest look. Then to save face with her new daughter in law, she said oh I was reading the videos here I did not hear you." SHe went and looked where I said and found the tape. I did not miss that look, and she has been giving me it alot lately. At first I felt really jealous then I decided I really did not care, but now it is getting worse. I do not know what to do! My husband says that sometimes I can make people feel terrible with just a look. He says that I have been giving it to Dario's girl alot. Most of the time I do not even notice it. There are so many people in this house that sometimes I just want to be by myself, so when I am feeling that way and people are around I have bad feelings toward them.