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I've always considered myself to be a patient person, in all its definitions.

I'm good with children and am unfazed by outrageous behaviour. I can out wait the longest tantrum.

I somehow manage to stay calm in the face of extreme provocation (okay maybe not all the time) and am usually fairly composed.

When I failed my exams I picked myself up and studied harder and took them again.

On the days when the pain has felt like it was ripping my insides apart I have endured until it has passed.

And as a child I held my breath as Christmas got closer and I waited for Father Christmas to visit without searching or pestering.

But while I have learnt that sometimes good things come to those who wait sometimes my imagination and longings get the better of me and today is one of those times.
 

You see there's something I want, more than anything, and I don't want to have to wait for it. I want it now, but I can't so I have to try to extend my patience even further and hope that that my willpower and fortitude won’t fail me and that my patience is eventually rewarded.


But what about you? Are you patient in the traditional sense? Do you withstand provocation and misfortune; do you ignore hardship and wait for it to pass without complaint? Do you silently endure?

Or does having to wait make you frustrated as hell?



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  • silverwhisper said on Mar 26, 2007....
    i am generally a very patient sort. i will rarely comment if something bothers me. i do not hold my tongue as well however if i am already rather frustrated with something else.

    i dislike having to wait, but i try to be philosophical about it. putting things in perspective, that sort of thing.

    ed
  • raft said on Mar 26, 2007....
    I am _not_ patient. I'm patient about certain things and not about others. Mood has a lot to do with it. I've learn to mask it well enough in either case.
     
    I've learned that to be able to handle anything coming my way, I have to be able to do something about it. If I'm having a hardship, I won't wait for it to blow over, I'll do something about it. Sometimes the best thing is to do nothing, but  I've researched it enough to know that all I have to do is bid my time.
  • secretlife said on Mar 26, 2007....
    i don't think i was very patient until i had children.  They kind of forced me to be patient.  The funniest thing i've noticed about patience is if you practice it, it actually gets easier.  i would have told you years ago it was either your nature to be patient or not your nature.  But now, I think we get better at it.
     
    i can't say i'm good at ignoring things or waiting - i'm just good at holding on.
     
    i also believe that old saying that all things come to he who waits-
    So Alyss, I believe your patience will one day be rewarded.
  • MissMimi said on Mar 26, 2007....
    I'm not really patient by nature, but I've had to learn it. B is very methodical and systematic about any decision-making he has to do, so it was learn to be patient or live my life constantly frustrated.
  • beyondtheveil said on Mar 26, 2007....
    alyss- I wasn't very patient in my younger years, but life has a way of teaching. My patience in later years can best be described by something you said- "silently endure".
  • TinSoldier said on Mar 26, 2007....
    I'm pretty patient. I've learned it the hard way, certainly.

    However I still do give into impulses probably more often than I should.
  • sidhe said on Mar 26, 2007....
    I'm one of those people who sneaks out and peaks at all the presents before Christmas. 
     
    Still do.
     
     
     
     
  • ninjapirate said on Mar 27, 2007....
    Patience for me is something I like to think I had or can at least work on.  I do not have it at all in some instances, while others I will, as very well said, endure.  However, there are some things that I would like right now this very minute and how long can I hold off until I go crazy and just go after them, when it is really best to wait.  These are the current issues that I have with patience and I'm always scared that if I wait to long I will waste my life away, and how do I tell when I've waited long enough?  Also,  I used to work in a kids department in a retail store and was always amazed at how some parents were so very patient and kind to kids who were upset, it's a very admirable trait.  Isn't there a song by Guns and Roses called "Patience"?     
  • EvilTwin said on Mar 27, 2007....
    I have been told that I am a patient person.  But as things are currently, I find that I am growing less and less patient... 
     
    There is something that I want, above all else, and I know in my heart and soul that the reward is worth it.  But the wait is still very trying...  There are things I am trying to get done so I can move on with a clean break, but the process in and of itself is frustrating as hell.  But I am not faltering.  I am not giving up.  I just have to do one thing at a time and get through this...
     
    [Hugs] Alyss...  <Shares my strength with you>  I love you.
  • Zayda said on Mar 27, 2007....
    I'm extremely patient about some things, not so much about others. It's hard to be patient about the things you want most in the world especially if that want is coupled with self-doubt or uncertainty.


    {{hugs Alyss}}


    I wish I knew just the right thing to say here, Alyss, but I'm at a loss. Maybe because right now I'm a little impatient about a few things myself. So, I can sympathize.
  • LadyGamer said on Mar 27, 2007....
    I have the patience of Job.
    I am more patient than the Sahara waiting for the annual rains to bring forth that flash of color that is its fauna.
    I have long be able to see that bigger picture, that long run.
    I am even able to wait out karma and the just desserts it serves my enemies.
     
    But when I see that perfect pair of shoes in just my size.....
     
    Not so much.
  • Zayda said on Mar 27, 2007....
    LG, I cannot help but smile at the shoe comment because I so recognize that feeling.
  • Alyss said on Mar 27, 2007....
    Thank you everyone for understanding. We all have things that test us and our patience so perhaps this is the thing that will truly test mine, though I have had to wait for many things before now.

    SL, yes. I recognise the phrase 'holding on'. It is just like that.

    TS, I am not by nature impulsive. I am the methodical one evaluating everything before acting so this is quite a challenge for me.

    raft, I'm usually pretty good at biding my time but this time seems to be different.

    mimi, I think I could probably be very easily described as staid so I suspect you'd be similarly frustrated with me. ;-)

    beyond, we do what we have to do ~ right?

    Sidhe, LOL!  I could never have risked the inevitable reprimand had I been caught doing that as a child.

    ET, {hugs} Just know that I do understand...

    SuperZ, you may have hit the nail on the head there. That this is tied to uncertainty and self-doubt seems very likely to me.

    LG I can imagine you and the shoes. ;-)
  • carmachu said on Mar 27, 2007....
    Mostly have patience. Not always, but for the most part.....
  • HairSprayGirl said on May 02, 2007....
    I am completely impatient. I can't stand having to wait,although I will if I have to,but I complain. when I want something I want it now! bad trait,I know,but what can ya do?
  • Alyss said on May 03, 2007....
    Thanks for adding to the comments HSG. I'm still waiting but not as patiently as I'd like...
  • HairSprayGirl said on May 03, 2007....
    it's ok alyss. I am waiting for something too and every day I cry because I don't want to fucking wait anymore! pardon my languag. I know all too well the pain of waiting for something you want so bad.
  • Alyss said on May 03, 2007....
    Waiting and wanting really, really suck especially when it is something you have no direct control over yourself. I'm sorry you feel it too.
  • HairSprayGirl said on May 03, 2007....
    I think it makes it ten times worse when you have no control over it.
  • Alyss said on May 12, 2007....
    Indeed it does HSG, indeed it does. 
  • asiabeaute said on Oct 29, 2008....
    I get impatient when i have to repeat what i just said more than twice hehe

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I am not blessed with it.

At all....
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