Hey there everyone. I am new to this site but I have a lot to say. I have this thing where I am not sure what to do about. My sister's boyfriend is constantly hitting on me and I don't know what to do about it. See back before they got together he told me that should I ever leave my husband that he would be there but he just don't get it that I can't stand him. He use to date one of my good friends and I have seen how he has treated her and I just don't know what to do about him because he just won't get it out of his head that someday we could be together. I told him that if there was anything that ever happened between and my husband that there wouldn't be a chance in the world for him not only because I don't really care for him but because he has been with my sister. I just think that is totally nasty. He don't understand that it is gross to be with family members. I am sorry but I wouldn't ever be with someone that has been with my sister. And I know that she wouldn't either. And he says that he loves her but I know that he really don't or why in the world would he be hitting on me? Or my best friend for that matter. I mean do I tell her about it or do I just let things go for the moment and let her catch him in the middle of it? He is always careful what he says when he is around my sister. I am just terrified that he is going to burn her yet again. He has already left her once before to be with a female in another state. So what makes me believe or trust that he isn't going to hurt her again. I told her that she was making a mistake taking him back but she just won't listen to me. Anyone who reads this let me know what you would do in this situation. Because I know that my sister just won't listen to me. I have told her that he is a sorry excuse of a man. And I don't think that of most men but there are a few that I just don't like and he is one of them. One who will hit a woman don't deserve respect in my eyes or in my heart family or not. A man shouldn't touch a woman. But neither should a woman touch a man. That is just my feelings. If you are woman enough to hit a man then be a woman enough to get hit back and that goes for men to. My sister's boyfriend has even tried to kiss me and more. And I have told him no several times and he just don't get it that I am not interested in him like that now or ever. He just isn't my type. I hope that I get some feedback on what to do about this because I am not sure how to handle him.



