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Do you have words....specific words....that arouse you?
 
Ones that when they're spoken to you make your tummy do a flip flop?
 
 
Are they the really dirty ones? 
 
The ones your mother never told you about? 
 
Or are they just normal everyday words....but ones when said with just the right tone, at just the right moment, or by the right someone are enough to make you melt into a puddle?
 
I'm not talking about the breathy 'i love you's' here....nope.  that's not where i'm coming from at all....
 
i'm talking about other 'magic' words....the one's of a different variety-
the sexy erotic words that make your heart race, your palms sweat, your ears ring - among other physical reactions....
 
Words that foreshadow actions .....'i'd really like to ________'
And then words that describe actions ' i love the way you ___________'
 
Maybe i'm different than most. 
 
Maybe not. 
 
I'm aurally fixated.
 
I like the talking. 
i like the dirty words when whispered in my ear while i'm sitting out in a restaurant.
i love that they have the power to make me blush....
 
i like them as teasers for what's to come....
and i like them as bold announcements of what is going on.
 
there are certain men who can make almost anything sound sexy. 
 
where it feels like normal sentences are oozing sex.
 
i've known men who can say the words i've considered the most taboo of all....and yet they say them, and instead of sounding nasty and disgusting....they make them sound musical and beautiful...
 
and there are other men who aren't comfortable with lots of language, but can take a simple word, and make it feel erotic.
 
I knew a man who was very shy.  he had 3 daughters and used no curses.  he referred to my backside as my 'bottom'....and 'bottom' became one of my most erotic words....
 
So do you know what i'm talking about? 
Are you this way?
Do you want to share your magic words?
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


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  • mobil said on Mar 19, 2007....
    Geeze SL, I don't think I can narrow it down to a favorite word or phrase.
    For me it's just about anything that has anything sexual involved.
     
    I get hard if a woman looks at the bedroom. Anything a woman whispers
    in my ear makes me begin to shake all over.
     
    It's the voice, the voice when sexy and a little lower. I've never done phone
    sex so I don't know about just verbal sex. I have to say, I am at a loss here.
    A woman talking about sex in anyway turns my crank.......thanks SL
  • missunderstood1162 said on Mar 19, 2007....
    mobil I love your answer!  hahahahaha  I am picturing you just standing there in awe quiverring!  hahahahahaha

    I think when someone says my name in the heat of passion is pretty hot...especially when I know how they feel about me.  That's only happened with one person in my life and I've been married more than once. 

    I can't tell you what my favorite word is......I just can't.  hahahahah or favorite sentance.  sorry.

  • secretlife said on Mar 19, 2007....

    mobil:  i wasn't really talking about phone sex -  just talking as it relates to sex in general. 

    i think it's interesting that certain words become erotic...

    it's like a little ding ding ding going off in your head when you hear them....

     

    miss:  any such words for you? 

  • missunderstood1162 said on Mar 19, 2007....
    okay what words become erotic......sorry I wasn't following


    suck
    slit
    open
    hard
    erect
    moist

    another one is globes
    hhahahahaha

    alabaster globes....hahahah now I can't stop laughing or blushing. roflmao




  • lioneljay said on Mar 19, 2007....
    A phrase that I have used is, "Come for me."
  • missunderstood1162 said on Mar 19, 2007....
    um yeah that works....certainly gets your attention!
  • lioneljay said on Mar 19, 2007....
    In the right company, it does more than get attention: it gets results!
  • missunderstood1162 said on Mar 19, 2007....
    I'm surprised that more people haven't stumbled onto this post yet.  Because it's a good one.  I'm heading over to the moonriver chat for a while to see who shows up before I call it a night.  
  • satyr said on Mar 19, 2007....
    I know what you mean, SL.....I don't have a word or words so much as topics of erotic conversation that turn me on - LOL.
  • Lioness said on Mar 19, 2007....
    "Don't stop"  sounds cute and sexy to me. =)
  • frontanack said on Mar 19, 2007....

    how about... penetrate...with all the ings,tions,,,,etc

    or... mount... that's a good one.

    opening,

    oh, and there was something about coming and going... guys come and women go... and if you are transexual.. do you know whether you are coming or going?  or something like that... and that is not meant in any way as a slur on anyone who is gay... it is just a play on the words. 

  • beyondtheveil said on Mar 19, 2007....
    secret- One of my favorites isn't a word or phrase, but a look. It involves a playful touch or rub, a small smile, and glancing eyes.
     
    I don't have a word, but certain words that wouldn't normally come from her mouth are special and carry more impact in the sexual sense.
  • gingersoul said on Mar 20, 2007....

    Secret..... that would be "Why dont you come closer?"  followed by that special look that darkens almost the color of his yes .....so intense is the erotic desire.....

    and if the man wears glasses followed by the slow, hypnotic gesture of taking his glasses off......i like the short, quick movement of his hips when he starts to unbelt his pants and he says "Would you like to help me?"......

    the dirty words can come later........or not....it will depends by the mood...:-)  

  • hotaka said on Mar 20, 2007....
    I loved the way my ex used to whisper with heat, "Ooh, I want you in me." The first time she said it I thought my brain was going pop out of my cranium. After that it was just freakin' cool when she said it.
  • ninjapirate said on Mar 20, 2007....
    I love the way a certain fellow would say just about anything nice and it would make my belly feel funny.  It's also pretty great when they mention what made them hot that I had said. 
  • Alyss said on Mar 20, 2007....
    It's not about the words, at least not so far, it's the tone of voice. The smallest of noises that I know mean I am wanted, the tone that conveys so much more than just the content. 
  • sweetsoul said on Mar 20, 2007....
    oh yes....surprisingly so, to the most ordinary of words. *wicked grin*
  • lioneljay said on Mar 20, 2007....
    It's all about context. Over time a couple builds its own vocabulary of words and phrases that hold unique meaning for them. Experience together also can add or remove power from certain words. For example, the first time together a man might say, "I'm going to do you until you can't even think straight." If he delivers on the promise, then the next time she hears those words, she will melt at the prospect. But if the experience doesn't match his words, then the phrase will hold no special meaning whatsoever.

    Likewise, even very ordinary words, as SS and SL both mentioned earlier, can take on unique and very powerful meaning for a couple. During a hot encounter, she might say at some point, "In - now!" in a pleading voice. He takes her swiftly and passionately. A week later, he might come up behind her and whisper into her ear, "I want in. Now." And she will melt at the sound of her own words used to fire her desire.

    And thus is born a language that can draw desire from the ether - even by email or text message.
  • Bluesmurfy said on Mar 20, 2007....
    make it hurt
  • secretlife said on Mar 20, 2007....

    miss:  you made me laugh....alabaster globes lol!!!

    LJ:  what can i say?  your phrase works for me!

    satyr:  i know there must be certain words....

    lioness:  i think 'don't stop' is very very sexy.

    front:  penetrate....yeah...that's a good one.

    beyond:  you know, i think you're right that words or phrases that don't often come out of someone's mouth and that maybe don't quite fit the regular image you have for her can be quite erotic....

    ginger:  i think you are more visual....darkened eyes, smoldering looks, gestures like taking off glasses or undoing a belt...  i know lots of people who don't care so much for words...in fact really don't like words at all. 

    i thought i was that way too......for a very long time.

    hotaka:  you made me laugh with your brain popping out of your cranium!  but sometimes, the right word/words said at the right moment have that effect....it's almost like they're too intense to process....

    ninja:  i think alot has to do with the person saying those words

    alyss:  absolutely the tone makes all the difference

    sweet:  i think i was most surprised how ordinary words can literally make me melt.

    LJ:  when words or phrases we've used in the heat of passion are repeated to us later....perhaps during our regular workday...perhaps in an email or just in a phone conversation, it is very much a turn on....and a secret language.  i always think....'did i really say THAT?'

    blue:  you must be a real tiger!

     

  • mobil said on Mar 20, 2007....

    "Make me cum" someone said that to me one time. I found that

    phrase to be very hot.........very hot...........thanks SL

  • zombied420 said on Mar 20, 2007....

    I have a ruff voice that makes me sound like Danny Bonaduce, so everything I say to girls they take as I want them to get in my pants, which I do. But not always, sometimes I'm walking and all of a sudden I get this urge, so I walk up to a girl, I look at her, I whisper in her ear..."I want you right now." Usually I pull it off.

    However, sometimes mace is what my eyes see.

    What works for me is when they whisper in my ear, "You are not walking away for this one." Yea, usually by then I'm ready to go.

    But I'm a guy so I'm easy. Sluty easy to be precise.

     
     
  • redrocks said on Mar 20, 2007....
    sometimes he calls me "piggy".. when I don't start laughing, it's really exciting!
  • gingersoul said on Mar 20, 2007....
    Zombie.........oh yes...that tone of voice and that words would do it anytime for me too ....;-0
  • secretlife said on Mar 20, 2007....

    mobil:  i'm feeling a little warm myself by that one!

    zombie:  LOL mace huh?  that's no good at all!!!!

    i think whispering is especially sexy....i'm not even sure it matters what the words are then....

    redrocks:  I know i'd be laughing at piggy!!!

    ginger:  zombie is happy to know that you wouldn't shoot him with a can of mace!

  • CamDaMan20 said on Mar 20, 2007....
    Can't wait to "go up in you".....

    come on...."Just the head"....

    get on ur knees....

    take it all....

    swallow me all the way....

    mmmmmmmmmmm.........fuck me hard

    bottoms up.....

    your sooooooo hard..........

    I'm dripping wet..........

    just to name a few ...hehe
  • Ladyfly said on Mar 20, 2007....

    This post was a great way to start my day.  Thanks Secret. :)

    My ex husband and I were always afraid that I'd get pregnant. So when I told him during the act "Please (in a begging voice) come inside me" he would go into a trance and do everything the right way.

    He never really said any words that got MY heart racing. But he did make this sound...almost like the sound of a bed squeaking, "eee-errr, eee-errr", that usually made me giggle and then immediately hot for him.

    I just realized I miss having sex. I need a man!  

  • Bronx said on Mar 20, 2007....
    SL: for some reason, 'take me home' isn't one of mine.

    Two girls used that phrase once and I took it literally - they were surprised to find themselves at home pronto, they said later.

    Then, the third said, 'I don't want to go home yet' - so, I did!

    Strange life, isn't it? 
  • VICARIOUS said on Mar 20, 2007....
    You touched on a key point. Some people can make anything sexual, without any effort. I seek those women, and surprisingly they aren't difficult to find. Words can trigger me but it is more in the way she looks at me when she says them. And the smile, not always innocent, that makes me drip.
     
    But when a woman looks me dead in the eye and tells me she want to fuck, I find it incredibly sexy. I love when a female talks dirty.
     
    All those years of phone sex and the one phrase that always blew my mind ... Rick! I'm cumming!" And then she explodes with her own inimitable style. I love listening to a woman lose it after I spent as much time as she needed to make her mind into mush. My reward. That and, if it was me going down on her that made her explode and she looks at me with glassy eyes and says, "Oh fuck--I want you inside me--now!"
     
    Great post.
  • secretlife said on Mar 20, 2007....

    cam:  I can tell a fellow aural addict when i read one!

    i liked you list...for starters...lol!

     

    lady:  you're welcome.  i hope it brought a smile :-)

    i don't believe i've ever heard of anyone making that sound your ex husband did!

    and i think if i did, i'd laugh and spoil the mood...

    i'm crossing my fingers that there's a hot guy in your very near future!

     

    bronx:  you cracked me up!  so you're a literal kinda guy then??? LOL

     

    vic:  it's nice to see you.  i hope you are well.

    i'm a big fan of the word fuck....i know it's not very ladylike...i was raised that ladies don't use that word.....but i still love it.  and you know what?  sometimes ladies do use it!  and it feels good to say...

     

  • lioneljay said on Mar 20, 2007....
    SL, anything that feels good to do should also feel good to say.
  • sexygurl24 said on Mar 20, 2007....

    Oooh, this sounds fun! While my boyfriend doesn't really do a whole lot of talking during sex, I do! And I make him talk back to me.

    Some of my faves are as follows:

    When I'm in the mood I'll grab his hand and stick it down my pants where its hovering just over me and I'll say: "I want you to touch me, I'm so hot." I'll let him play for a little while and I'll moan to the pleasure his fingers bring to me then say: "I want you now. Fuck me!"

    This really gets him going. I'll let him take control for a little while until I'm ready to really play. I'll get on top and let him slide in and out of me very slowly, then I'll slide him out to where just the tip of him is inside me and I'll ask "Do you want me?"...he'll reply, and if it isn't loud enought I'll ask him again.

    Once I get a good answer I'll let him slide in and out slowly a few more times and then I'll whisper, "How bad do you want me?" I'll wait there until he says he wants me really bad. And then I'll tell him how good he feels inside of me, how hard his cock feels and how much I want him to pleasure me.  He really enjoys it and we'll switch through several positions as I taunt him with erotic phrases.

    It's really fun.

    SG

  • Gypsyheart said on Mar 20, 2007....
    First off, thank you for your feed back on my invisibility post. I am an aural addict myself. Unfortunately my husband gets flustered any time I ask him to talk during sex. Words I've used to get him to respond have been, the afore mentioned "cum for me" and "Fuck me" I've also used "I want to ride you 'til we both cum" I'll also go about asking him if he likes how wet I am or what ever my trick of the moment is and I'll tell him what I would like to do to him in graphic detail. It either gets him fired up, or ends things with a bang. So I know his magic words, but not my own.
  • botoni said on Mar 20, 2007....
    For me it isnt always a word as much as a sound.  I love the feeling of breath on my ear and very low quiet......'mmmmmmmmmmmm' or a whispered willowy...'oooooooooooooooooo'.  Sends me soaring and roaring!
  • Ladyfly said on Mar 21, 2007....
    Secret: I definitely need a hot guy. I did laugh when he made that noise. My friend's father considered having sex as "laughing together". I always thought that was a good description.  Unfortuately, my ex would want to talk while in the act. Not words of passion, but daily talk about what was going on with work and his friends. Those are not words that get a person hot!
  • secretlife said on Mar 21, 2007....

    sexygurl:  it sounds like you know how to have alot of fun with words!

    gypsy:  i betcha you do know your magic words.  sit and think about the words or phrases that if said to you would turn you on.  write them down. then come up with a way to share them with your husband.  i bought a book once to teach myself how to introduce talk into my play...Talk Sexy to the One You Love and Drive Each Other Wild in Bed by Barbara Keesling....

    botoni:  those are sweet sounds...

    ladyfly:  I LOVE laughing in bed....

     

     

  • lioneljay said on Mar 21, 2007....
    SL, I once dated (briefly, very briefly) a young woman who told me that sex bored her so much that she used to read magazines while her then boyfriend was pumping away. I'm trying to imagine how exciting it would be to hear someone breathlessly say, "Ooh, honey, you're making me want to turn the page."
  • Bronx said on Mar 21, 2007....
    SL: yeah, almost bordering on the stupid sometimes!
  • tbs230 said on Mar 21, 2007....
    This has absolutely nothing to do with this post (fair warning):

    SL, I want to hug you. I was reading a comment you wrote somewhere, and I got the incredible urge to give you a hug...a huge warm bear hug. ((((((SL))))))

    There, that helped a little, but the ache is still there...is everything ok my dear?
  • glitzNglam said on Mar 21, 2007....
    hm...so many choices....i get aroused by a lot of words ; )    but i think what does it for me..is my name.  i love it when a guy jus says my name in a certain tone and i know that it means he wants to sex me up.   ....man cant wait for the hubby to come home!!!
  • hotasian said on Mar 22, 2007....
    aaaaah words are so very important! if my bf tells me how sexy i look and how desperate he is to fuck me, or if he says my name when we r about to climax, that just blows me away...........i love it!!!!!!!!!!
  • satyr said on Mar 22, 2007....
    secretlife, I will have to admit that "don't stop" is a real turn on.  I also smile every time she says "I love how big and hard you are."
     
    LOL - wouldn't let me get off the hook there, huh? ;-)
  • missunderstood1162 said on Mar 22, 2007....
    don't stop is good.....LOL....I'd have to agree......

    I may have to try that later.....see if it works.....I'll report back
  • secretlife said on Mar 22, 2007....

    tbs better today...thank you.

    glitz: i LOVE hearing my name too!

    hotasian: we have a name appreciation club going here!

    satyr:  no, couldn't let you off the hook so easy :P

    miss:  you gonna give us the blow by blow?  LOL

     

  • lioneljay said on Mar 22, 2007....
    One of the best I've ever heard, in medias res: "Isn't he beautiful?" I could have kept going all night after that. Come to think of it, I did. [SEG]
  • missunderstood1162 said on Mar 22, 2007....
    hahhahaha....funny girl you are secretlife.....hehehehehe
    I just might...
  • mom said on Mar 24, 2007....
    my husband has a deep voice and when he whispers in my ear that he wants me, while his hand is slowly sliding down to lightly run over my breats are enough to get me into bed.  Also he will ask me if I have been a bad girl,  of course I say "YES"   then he spanks me.  But he also likes it when I swear at him.  If I say something like come for me you cocksucker, he loves it.
  • ThePainfulTruthBFTW said on Jun 20, 2007....

    If she gives me "that look", and points to her tounge and says "right here" or "give it to me baby!" Uhhh, I’m probably going to ask her to marry soon after that. No really! Don’t laugh…that isn’t playing fair when you girls do that shit. What choice do I have?

  • nicole1 said on Nov 14, 2007....
    I love talking dirty and hearing dirty words so whoever wants to talk dirty...im here

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