mobil: i wasn't really talking about phone sex - just talking as it relates to sex in general.
i think it's interesting that certain words become erotic...
it's like a little ding ding ding going off in your head when you hear them....
miss: any such words for you?
how about... penetrate...with all the ings,tions,,,,etc
or... mount... that's a good one.
opening,
oh, and there was something about coming and going... guys come and women go... and if you are transexual.. do you know whether you are coming or going? or something like that... and that is not meant in any way as a slur on anyone who is gay... it is just a play on the words.
Secret..... that would be "Why dont you come closer?" followed by that special look that darkens almost the color of his yes .....so intense is the erotic desire.....
and if the man wears glasses followed by the slow, hypnotic gesture of taking his glasses off......i like the short, quick movement of his hips when he starts to unbelt his pants and he says "Would you like to help me?"......
the dirty words can come later........or not....it will depends by the mood...:-)
miss: you made me laugh....alabaster globes lol!!!
LJ: what can i say? your phrase works for me!
satyr: i know there must be certain words....
lioness: i think 'don't stop' is very very sexy.
front: penetrate....yeah...that's a good one.
beyond: you know, i think you're right that words or phrases that don't often come out of someone's mouth and that maybe don't quite fit the regular image you have for her can be quite erotic....
ginger: i think you are more visual....darkened eyes, smoldering looks, gestures like taking off glasses or undoing a belt... i know lots of people who don't care so much for words...in fact really don't like words at all.
i thought i was that way too......for a very long time.
hotaka: you made me laugh with your brain popping out of your cranium! but sometimes, the right word/words said at the right moment have that effect....it's almost like they're too intense to process....
ninja: i think alot has to do with the person saying those words
alyss: absolutely the tone makes all the difference
sweet: i think i was most surprised how ordinary words can literally make me melt.
LJ: when words or phrases we've used in the heat of passion are repeated to us later....perhaps during our regular workday...perhaps in an email or just in a phone conversation, it is very much a turn on....and a secret language. i always think....'did i really say THAT?'
blue: you must be a real tiger!
"Make me cum" someone said that to me one time. I found that
phrase to be very hot.........very hot...........thanks SL
I have a ruff voice that makes me sound like Danny Bonaduce, so everything I say to girls they take as I want them to get in my pants, which I do. But not always, sometimes I'm walking and all of a sudden I get this urge, so I walk up to a girl, I look at her, I whisper in her ear..."I want you right now." Usually I pull it off.
However, sometimes mace is what my eyes see.
What works for me is when they whisper in my ear, "You are not walking away for this one." Yea, usually by then I'm ready to go.
But I'm a guy so I'm easy. Sluty easy to be precise.
mobil: i'm feeling a little warm myself by that one!
zombie: LOL mace huh? that's no good at all!!!!
i think whispering is especially sexy....i'm not even sure it matters what the words are then....
redrocks: I know i'd be laughing at piggy!!!
ginger: zombie is happy to know that you wouldn't shoot him with a can of mace!
This post was a great way to start my day. Thanks Secret. :)
My ex husband and I were always afraid that I'd get pregnant. So when I told him during the act "Please (in a begging voice) come inside me" he would go into a trance and do everything the right way.
He never really said any words that got MY heart racing. But he did make this sound...almost like the sound of a bed squeaking, "eee-errr, eee-errr", that usually made me giggle and then immediately hot for him.
I just realized I miss having sex. I need a man!
cam: I can tell a fellow aural addict when i read one!
i liked you list...for starters...lol!
lady: you're welcome. i hope it brought a smile :-)
i don't believe i've ever heard of anyone making that sound your ex husband did!
and i think if i did, i'd laugh and spoil the mood...
i'm crossing my fingers that there's a hot guy in your very near future!
bronx: you cracked me up! so you're a literal kinda guy then??? LOL
vic: it's nice to see you. i hope you are well.
i'm a big fan of the word fuck....i know it's not very ladylike...i was raised that ladies don't use that word.....but i still love it. and you know what? sometimes ladies do use it! and it feels good to say...
Oooh, this sounds fun! While my boyfriend doesn't really do a whole lot of talking during sex, I do! And I make him talk back to me.
Some of my faves are as follows:
When I'm in the mood I'll grab his hand and stick it down my pants where its hovering just over me and I'll say: "I want you to touch me, I'm so hot." I'll let him play for a little while and I'll moan to the pleasure his fingers bring to me then say: "I want you now. Fuck me!"
This really gets him going. I'll let him take control for a little while until I'm ready to really play. I'll get on top and let him slide in and out of me very slowly, then I'll slide him out to where just the tip of him is inside me and I'll ask "Do you want me?"...he'll reply, and if it isn't loud enought I'll ask him again.
Once I get a good answer I'll let him slide in and out slowly a few more times and then I'll whisper, "How bad do you want me?" I'll wait there until he says he wants me really bad. And then I'll tell him how good he feels inside of me, how hard his cock feels and how much I want him to pleasure me. He really enjoys it and we'll switch through several positions as I taunt him with erotic phrases.
It's really fun.
SG
sexygurl: it sounds like you know how to have alot of fun with words!
gypsy: i betcha you do know your magic words. sit and think about the words or phrases that if said to you would turn you on. write them down. then come up with a way to share them with your husband. i bought a book once to teach myself how to introduce talk into my play...Talk Sexy to the One You Love and Drive Each Other Wild in Bed by Barbara Keesling....
botoni: those are sweet sounds...
ladyfly: I LOVE laughing in bed....
tbs better today...thank you.
glitz: i LOVE hearing my name too!
hotasian: we have a name appreciation club going here!
satyr: no, couldn't let you off the hook so easy :P
miss: you gonna give us the blow by blow? LOL
If she gives me "that look", and points to her tounge and says "right here" or "give it to me baby!" Uhhh, I’m probably going to ask her to marry soon after that. No really! Don’t laugh…that isn’t playing fair when you girls do that shit. What choice do I have?