• MissMimi said on Mar 16, 2007....

  Go see them Sunny! Why not? You could have a wonderful time!

• minniemouse said on Mar 16, 2007....

  Go dammit!  I'm sure I don't need to even try to hard, but look freakin' hot as shit.  Maybe he just got nervous.  Maybe he fell down and broke his dialing hand, or he suddenly went deaf......I'm reaching, I know, but you never know!!!  lol!!!  Go out, have fun with your friends and see what happens!!

• missunderstood1162 said on Mar 16, 2007....

  GO!  Maybe he's just the kind of guy that needs a little extra push.  Maybe anything.  Maybe his aunt sylvia died and he's been really sad.  Maybe he's shy.  Maybe he had a cold...maybe he just didn't because he's lazy but oh god there you are again and he thinks it's fate because you came back and he got a second chance! 
  
  GO.
  go
  g
  o
  
  yes
  go
  
  

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 16, 2007....

  I'm IN LOVE WITH ALL 3 OF YOU!!! Is it the "M"s in your names that makes you all brilliant???? Gosh, I soooo hope you guys are right...shy, broken dialing fingers, pnumonia, dead relatives falling out of trees!!!!!!! At least my ego doesn't get hurt if it's any of those reasons! Teasing!!!!
  
  And damnit, I'm gonna look so hot that his teeth will fall out! I think I mentioned that last time I looked like something the cat dragged in a week ago and left under the kitchen sink, so this time I'll look good and make him cry.
  
  Thanks girls, for totally and completely kicking ASS!!! Many hugs and kisses!!! Sunny!

• missunderstood1162 said on Mar 16, 2007....

  That's what friends are for.  Support and Validation.  What's it gonna hurt sweetie.  Just go and see what happens.  Then you will know.  Then you can say you went.
  I hope it goes well.  I'll be thinking about you!
  

• MissMimi said on Mar 16, 2007....

  LOL I hope you have a great time! I'm glad you decided to go. If you hadn't you would have always wondered what if...

• minniemouse said on Mar 16, 2007....

  ok....so we are all expecting a post letting us know how much fun you had!!!!!  Raise a glass for your soul cast chicks when you are out tomorrow!!!  MM

• MGrella said on Mar 17, 2007....

  I wanna know what happens, too!  Please post an update!

• frontanack said on Mar 17, 2007....

  OK, so I have come up to speed now, ... had not had time to read the blog when you first put it up... but have caught up now.    It was a wonderful meeting, that is for sure.  And the waiting to hear.... brutal, torture.  Bad boy. Bad boy.... 
  
  But definitely go... (if it is not already past..)... this is Saturday morning... no new post, you might be at breakfast... ??
  
  There is always the possible that the guy has a conscience to wrangle with.. or, if he Really liked you... maybe just too shy to jump in... so, give him the chance. yeah..
  
  oh, and the musician thing... there is an inherent gentleness to musicians.. playing a guitar is like handling a woman... or a baby (looking after the instrument is like that)... so, that is probably a good part of the attraction thing... especially if he is not one of those who smash the guitar at the end of the concert..  be looking for you.
  

• husbandhater said on Mar 17, 2007....

  No way! He can't call but he wants you to see his band? What are you a groupie to him? Tell him you'd like to make it but are other wise pre engaged and that if he's playing  again sometime in the future you'd love to go then.

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 17, 2007....

  Seriously, I love you guys!!! No, the EVENT hasn't happened yet! It's 2:35 my time and I'm supposed to be going at 6:00. And I'm nervous as a cat on a hot tin roof!!!!
  
  Frontanack...it WAS a wonderful meeting. It was one of THE best meetings I've had in 36 years with a boy/man/guy/whatever. I've been floating on Cloud 9 ever since...well, until the damn PHONE didn't ring! ;) I'm hoping for the shy thing. Please GOD, let it be the shy thing, only he didn't seem shy at all when I met him and neither one of us was drunk, stone cold sober. So, I worry I'm deluding myself. Oh jeeze....
  
  And yes, musicians do have this beautiful gentleness to them if they aren't the smash and grab type. I think that's why I am always drawn to them. And you know what, on a rare occasion, even those naughty ones catch my eye! It's the Gemini in me, I just can't help it!
  
  Hey Husbandhater! You are the other half of my personality!!!! I've been sitting here the last 2 days saying to myself, and pardon the French, "Fuck him! I'm no groupie slut. He can call me or he can kiss my ass!" So, yeah, I sooooooooo totally see your point. And ya know, if it was just lust in the old loins I was feeling, that's exactly what I'd say and do and I wouldn't show up for all the gold in the world.
  
  BUT...I'm smitten. Some evil crush creature bit me and I've got a wicked crush. So, I'm going to give it a shot tonight. It may well blow up so hard in my face and then my ego will be...well...it'll just suck, but I've gotta try. Just in case. And you know what? My ego WON'T be hurt cause it'll just show he's an idiot. I'm a damn fine woman! And if he's too stupid to see that, he can bite me and NOT in the good way! ;)
  
  Love you guys! I will TOTALLY let you know how it goes!!!! Thanks again for the love and support!!! All of you RULE!!!! Big hug! Sunny!

• minniemouse said on Mar 17, 2007....

  I will all work out!!  I know it!!!  HUGS!!  MM

• frontanack said on Mar 18, 2007....

  hey sunny, this is frontanack's daughter.. i was sitting here with my mom and reading your blogs about this guy.. and i asked my mom if i could wright you a post.. she agreed.:).. well. i havent heard the full of your situation, so i dont have a full understanding of it. but i will try my best to give you my knowledge based on what i have read.. and to me this guy doesnt seem like such a good guy, i mean.. you go to a bar.. and it seems to me that he just feasted his eyes on the first fresh meat girl he could.. the thing with men is they think that getting a woman is as easy as kneeding bread.. but for the guys who dont know.. kneeding bread takes time, streangth, patience and energy.. and this guy doesnt seem to have very many of those quialities. *laughs*. .. in my expiercne with guys. .first impressions are allways the best.. they seem so understanding and seem to want to get to know you.. but like most guys.. sex is allways on there mind.. if he was really interested in you then he would at least have the decensy to call you right??.. and in my opinion if a guy has time to lead you on but doesnt have the time to call you then he isnt looking for a relationship.. it was nice of him to invite you and your friends to see his band.. but then he doesnt call you?. that to me is disrespectfull. i for one really dont think hes worth your time.. i know your thinking " oh but hes just so handsome", or" but hes gotta be for me, hes a musician and hes sweet and funny".. but girl you gotta think of whats best for you. and if he is realy man enough to treat you the way you need to be treated.. as a musician do you really think he has time for you?. or anyone else.. hes got alot on his hands and he doesnt seem like someone who wants anymore to deal with.. i say give him a try.. but expect to be disapointed.. just prepare yourself for the worst, but allways hope for the best.... if he tells you he will call you and then he doesnt then that just proves that he isnt someone you can depend on.  i wish you all the best with him, and if it doesnt work out then i hope someday you will find someone who really cares about you... just allways remember. the ones who care dont matter, and the ones who matter, dont care:).. all the best
  Bobby.G:)

  bobby is 14yrs,, no. 12.. and She Blows my mind... has the strengrhs that are my greatest weaknesses.  Good luck on this one.. can't wait to hear how it goes...

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 18, 2007....

  I think I love Bobby!!! What wisdom for her years! Sometimes it's the simplicity of youth that really knows what the hell they are talking about. You know what, you are so right. I guess I'm just so disappointed. So very, very disappointed.
  
  I so rarely meet anyone who I find interesting, so when I do, it blows my mind. I guess I just got excited. Where I live guys mostly talk about their cars, their jobs, and oh, did I mention, their cars? BORING. Who cares? That's why this guy got my attention. He was so different and FUN. But, I definitely think I need to listen to you. I need to heed your wise words. It's just hard to. I felt such a connection, and I never feel those kinds of connections. And I'm PISSED cause he seemed to feel that connection too and led me on. I don't particularly care for that kind of BS very much. I mean, he's not in his 20s, he's a grown man...can't he act like one for goodness sake?
  
  I did post what happened last night, but I've been having trouble with SC all day and I haven't gotten any comments on that post, so I'm wondering if anyone's been able to see it. It was such a screwed up night. Ugh.
  
  Thanks frontanack and Bobby for taking the time to help me see straight. I need so much to have support right now and clarity of vision. You have helped me greatly. I'd give you both hugs right now if I could. Love you guys!! Sunny (A somewhat sadder Sunny, but I'll get over it.)

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