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So my ex husband called yesterday.  He's quitting his job.  Not surprising because its been 2 years.  He wanted to see what I think since he wont be paying child support for awhile. ( He thinks)
You see for me it's not a money issue.  My husband and I can support Joshua just fine.  It's the point that Mr. Sperm Donor would still like the benefits of being a father without any financial responsibility. He doesnt have a plan yet, but maybe he thinks he might apply for financial aide and go back to school. He thinks he might try to get an AA degree. (Whoopee)  Yes MR 36 still doesnt know what he wants to be when he grows up.
And though I am irritated at his inability to finish anything in his life, it just reaffirms my decision to divorce him and makes me more proud (if that's possible) that I am married to such a responsible and loving man who always puts his wife and children first.
Enough said.


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  • bloc said on Mar 15, 2007....
    I've certainly known my fair share of dead beat dads. It's always a shame.
  • SOLDIERCIPSWIFE said on Mar 16, 2007....
    They dont realize that someday these brilliant children will figure out and understand what they did.  My son is already catching on and he is not happy.
    Having to speak positive about daddy donor is hard when you really want to tell them what a dead beat loser this idiot really is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
  • secretlife said on Mar 16, 2007....

    Yes, but it's important to keep speaking as positively as you can.

    You hit the nail on the head that by doing so, you gave him every opportunity to get his act together BEFORE his son figures it all out on his own, which he will inevitably do.

     

  • SOLDIERCIPSWIFE said on Mar 16, 2007....
    Oh secretlfe--you would be so nice to have as a neighbor:)   I make a great cup of coffee....Oh and BLoc you would make a great neighbor too!!!!!!
     
    I have found that by not bad mouthing bio dad-My son is learning to decifer what is going on and who is dad really is...on his own...and I am proud that I am able to do that for my son's sake:)  Cuzzzzzzzzzzz when Im mad its hard to hold my tongue:)
  • secretlife said on Mar 16, 2007....

    that's so smart - very very smart. 

    better to say nothing and let your son figure it out.  they always do.  and then you can be proud that you didn't win points by putting him down.....

    it's hard for everybody to hold their tongues when they're mad!

    you oughta hear me!

    so, what time's coffee??

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