• silverwhisper said on Mar 13, 2007....

  not everyone can, actually. this is perhaps more common than you might realize, redrocks.
  
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• redrocks said on Mar 13, 2007....

  it depends on the control? he's very good at it and sometimes I get a lil blue coz I think he's not that he's enjoing sex with me but sex in general and I am not so sure I like this sorta control. I mena, sometimes I'd like him to explode, even if I know that his way of keeping the control is also for me, coz it can take me a long time to get an orgasm..

• silverwhisper said on Mar 13, 2007....

  i doubt it's about the control: if it were, he would never be able to cum that way. it might be that he's preoccupied by stress or something.
  
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• secretlife said on Mar 13, 2007....

  this has happened to me too.  only once, but it's happened. 

  if he's enjoying what you are doing, i'd say that was the most important thing.

• redrocks said on Mar 13, 2007....

  that's right, secretlife. My problem is that I am doubting about  everything because I got a big disappointment, and after that I am aware that I am not able to judge people and to know when they are tricking me.
  
  

• secretlife said on Mar 13, 2007....

  trust yourself a bit, ok?  i know it's hard after you've been hurt, but if you don't take the risk, you won't ever find out what's it's like.  and don't you want to know that?

• redrocks said on Mar 14, 2007....

  i'm scared by everything this very moment, especially coz i don't see any reassurance from anybody.
  i guess I may be strong and just go on.
  

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