• minniemouse said on Mar 12, 2007....

  I guess it depends on the circumstances and the people involved.  I, for one, could not and would not go back to my first love.  I don't think he would want me back either.  I am not a person that can "forget" the past.   I can move on and create a new future, but I would never be able to forgive past problems.  I think when you end a relationship, that over time, you start to forget the problems and/or issues that caused the breakup to begin with.  All you remember are the happy, fun times.  Then when you see that person, you get that rush that you first felt when you first met.  Then, unfortunately, reality sets in. 

• secretlife said on Mar 12, 2007....

  i'm not sure if i could either.

  i can understand wanting to.

  but i'm not sure that the same issues that caused you to separate in the first place could be overlooked...

  that being said, lots of people change, and if you think that the person is changed, then perhaps it's worth a try...

• Anastasia said on Mar 13, 2007....

  Well i think that if both of u can forgive and forget the past it's worth a try!

  No matter what we all remember our first love and some times ur first love can be ur true love!There's a saying that goes "Maybe we meet all the wrong people so that when the rite one finally comes along u'll know how to appreciate what u have!

• Mellowman5 said on Mar 17, 2007....

  There's a lot of truth in that old saying that you can never forget that first true love.  I for one still remember mine from time to time and often wonder how happy I would have been if she had accepted my proposal.
   
  It is also true that one tends to remember only the positive and not the forces that divided you.
   
  I fell madly in love with a girl in college and wanted desperately to marry her.  She was a little out of my league and I doubted my ability to provide for her in the manner in which she was accustomed.  She ultimately decided to move on without me and became very wealthy and politically prominent.
   
  But she never married and to this day I often wonder if things would be different were we to resume our relationship now.
   
  I hope I'm not the only one to ever wonder about their first love.  

• dailyachesandpains said on Apr 14, 2007....

  I would NEVER do it!  You couldn't pay me enough money.  We have run into each other, literally bumped into each other.  I wished I bumped him hard enough to make him fall and crack his skull. 
   
  The next time I saw him, I saw him from the side and I hid, going down differnt aisles in the grocery store.  Keeping my attention on the "theft" mirror's at the end of every other aisle...just watching to make sure he didn't need to go back toward my direction.
   
  Daily

• lfbno7 said on Jul 04, 2007....

  no way.  i had enough of her.  i don't really like her.

• anonymous said on Nov 12, 2007....

  Yes, just did and had the same feelings of light as I did the first time. With each experience in life and of course with age, we can greater understand ourselves and our actions. Weather or not the reasons for seperating with your past love, were for any ligitimate reasons; there was a connection regardless to ignite the beginning. At a later time in life (with Age that is), we can reflect on the decisons we made in past relationships and agree or disagree with our actions. NO ONE IS PERFECT and I am sure we can all say at some point, "I made a mistake or was just not thinking at the time I opened my mouth and called it quits".

• destinydiva said on Jan 18, 2008....

  yes, I definitly would!!!! I often dream about him, he still lives in the same area as me yet we never bump in to each other.  I heard he is single again late last year,
  our relationship ended when we were 16, we had got engaged and to be honest I just got cold feet and wanted to live a little before settling down. but we had such an amazing relationship, four years of fun and laughter :-) I havnt had a relationship like that one since.
  my sensible head says that we are probley totally different people now and probley wouldnt even get along anymore, but I would love to meet up with him again, and just see :-) xx
  

• lostinoldluv said on May 02, 2008....

  I found my high school sweet heart 2 years ago, we exchanged #'s and occasionally called throughout the years to say Hi or Merry Christmas. We had a very harsh break up, he hurt me deeply and when we first got back into contact I had to work through old emotions. It was the best thing I ever did! We became "friends" with distance and I felt I was healed and the past was the past. I'm married with 2 children, been married for almost 16 years and it's not a perfect marriage but we make it work. But just reciently I my ex has texted me with a bit of flirtation and I found myself going for it!! Needless to say one week later I'm at his house, then in his bed, with a passion that I hadn't felt since him!!!! It was natural, hot and just unreal. Now what? We give the occasional texts over these last couple of days, but still finding the attraction for him. I crossed a line that I can't go back now, I just need to think things all through! I didn't think of how this would hurt my husband, espesially because it is with the "true love of my life". Can I leave the past in the past and just leave it for what it is? Or is this meant to be??

• anonymous said on Apr 18, 2009....

  I have reunited with my highschool sweetheart we were together 5 years and 25 years he called me from another state I had to see him again and have relocated to be with him our relationship is so awesome it is unbelievable I left my husband of 25 years and am getting a divorce I want to remarry my dirst love and live happily ever after.

• alwaysgarysbaby said on Jul 21, 2009....

  i recently ran in to my first love and we have been back together for a month now and it is great. it has been 27 years, he broke my heart when we were in school, but when i saw him i forgot that and we remember the good times that we shared. he told me he was sorry for the pain he caused me and i forgave him. We were both young at the time and we both needed to grow and then we found each other again it is better than before. So if you get the chance to find that love you lost, then yes it is worth it.

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