• petitepapillon said on Mar 11, 2007....

  Hi Sunny!

  Anyway, I just wanted to stop by and say thank you for what you said on SeanRenaud's post about rape. I would've said it over at that post, but I didn't want to post another comment, adding to an already growing comment list. I didn't think he deserved another comment added to a disgusting, poorly worded post.

  But yeah, I just wanted to stop by and say hi and thank. You captured so much in your comment. : )

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 11, 2007....

  Hi Petitepapillon. Thank you so much for taking the time to drop by and tell me that. It's very kind of you. It is just a sickening post that he put out there. As a matter of fact I just left him a post that says that I'm done with it. Not worth the time anymore. He's just a jackass looking for attention.
  
  But thank you again...it was hard to write, but I just had to get it out there. Come back and visit anytime! Hugs, Sunny.

• MissMimi said on Mar 12, 2007....

  Hi Sunny. I also thank you for what you said, and I'm so sorry you had to endure those things. I'll be sure to look for your blogs. :)

• missunderstood1162 said on Mar 12, 2007....

  waving.....hey....I just went over and said hey at your other post.  did you read my comments after yours at SR's rape post?  particularly the second one?  My love to you.  Hugs
  
  

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 12, 2007....

  Hi wonderful missunderstood...I did read your comments and I felt your warmth in my toes. It felt like a hug, and it meant a great deal to me. That was a really hard post to see up at the top of the list on soulcast, and I usually avoid that stuff, but it just sat wrong with me and I had to say something, then I felt I had to say everything. Until I came here, I usually never really said anything...just so much regular conversation to get through the day. Now I feel like I have people who care in a different way, and a safe way. People like you Sweetie.
  
  And I am so desperately sorry that you too have been through that kind of Hell. I feel your pain. I know your pain. I live it too. It's a wonder that we learn to survive. What creatures of survival women are. That anyone should do such things to you, to us. I know their true punishment lies beyond our reach, but I do know that it lies ahead of them.
  
  While I wish that he'd never posted such tripe, in some ways I think it has brought me closer to several of you here. We share a bond that, unfortunately, too many of us share. We can see into each other in ways now that maybe before we couldn't. As I read all my wonderful new friends' posts and I read of our insecurities, our sense of worthlessness, our fears and our searches for who we are or wish we were, I now have a better understanding of why we feel the way we do. The scars left beneath the surface take so much longer to heal. There is no salve for them. No bandaid for protection. There is just that search for healing and strength and peace that was forcibly taken from us.
  
  I think, considering, we are all getting there. Thank God. And with people like you, giving me your support and love, well, that just helps me get there faster and with more hope. Thank you, sweet girl, for your kindness and warmth.

• missunderstood1162 said on Mar 12, 2007....

  Hey girlies I'd love to stay up and talk some more tonight but I'm a sleepy girl.  I do have yahoo chat if you guys ever want to chat live time.  My yahoo email is Totalmisunderstanding@yahoo.com  Let me knwo when you get this down and then we can delete this post.  K?  I'd love to chat sometime in real time.  There are several gals that I'd like to visit with!
  
  

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 12, 2007....

  Got it girlie!!! Delete away when the rest of the chickies get it! :) Sweet dreams!!

• HairSprayGirl said on Mar 14, 2007....

  Hey Sunny. I haven't been on in a couple days. I've missed so much!!! I did add you to MY yahoo messenger list,so the next time you're on we can chat! My ID is,low and behold, HairSprayGurl. Just spelled a little differently. I've had a lot on my mind ever since I composed my lists. Haven't had much to say that I haven't already. I'm having a hard time. I think I actually could use some counseling. Anyways! I'll talk to you later!

• minniemouse said on Mar 15, 2007....

  Hey Sunny!  Hope all is well and your interview went terrific!  I can't wait to hear about it!  I'm on yahoo messenger as well, mommy2girls03, in case you ever need a friend to chat with!  Later!!!

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 15, 2007....

  Hey HairSprayGirl and Minniemouse!!! I don't have yahoo messenger, I use MSN..will they work together?
  
  HSG...How are you honey? It sounds like you are not only under the weather, poor sweet thing, but going through some heavy emotions right now. I'm soooooo glad you composed your lists and I'm sooooo happy that it may have helped clarify things for you. It's a real soul searching thing to do. And yeah, once you have those lists, what do you do with them? Where do you go from there? That's where that bravery that I KNOW YOU HAVE comes into play. Like you said, you know he's not giving you what you want or need, and never will or can. So do you keep on just trucking along with the status quo, or let it get a little messy for a while, but end up in the sunshine on the other side?
  
  Honey, I know it's tough, Lord knows I've been there. This is what I do to help me make my decisions. I look at what I perceive my life to be in 5 years...10 years and so on if I stay with that person. What will it look like? And while I'm doing this I remember that marriage does not make those things that we already DON'T like about a person better, it makes them worse, so amplify all those things about your boyfriend that you hate 10 fold. Then picture yourself at 29, 34, 39. Where do you see yourself and him? Married, divorced, in hell? Try to get your head out of the moment and into the future. That has saved me more times than once.
  
  Please let me know how you are doing honey...I really care and think about you every day. I hope you are feeling better and that your brain and heart work together to make the right decision. Love ya tons Sweetie.
  
  And Miss MinnieMouse! Thanks for the well wishes on my interview!!! So far, so good. I'm losing my mind for all this interviewing! I'm sitting here on my sofa waiting for another one. Seriously, I'm friggin' interviewed OUT!!!! Done. Sick of selling myself. BUT!!!!! All looks great! The one company is supposed to give me the official offer tomorrow, Yay!!!! And the other one was trying to get me to fly out to San Diego yesterday for a final interview with some of their VPs, but I couldn't get off work, so we may reschedule for next week. I'm STILL torn between the two though...not sure where to go. It's hard making this big of a decision when so much is at stake. So keep saying lots of prayers and sending good vibes my way! I can't wait until the end of next week. By then all decisions should be made and life should be starting to settle down. Whew...I'll need MORE than ONE drink at that point!!!!
  
  Love you ladies tons!!! Thanks for always checking in with me!!! HUGS!!!!! Sunny. :)

• minniemouse said on Mar 15, 2007....

  Hey girlie!  You will definitly need a drink or three when the week is over!!  lol  I actually spent a couple of hours updating my resume this evening, getting ready to stick my foot back in the water and seeing what I can fish out for myself. 

  I do believe that MSN works with yahoo, but I think it has to come from the yahoo end, so if you want to email me its mommy2girls03@yahoo.com, feel free and I can try to add you.  I'm on the east coast, so I know we have a time difference. 

  So will you have to relocate for either of these new jobs?

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Mar 16, 2007....

  Hey Minniemouse! Good for you! Isn't resume building just THE most fun??? NOT!!! But that's great that you are looking to do something different! YAY for you!!! I'll keep my fingers crossed that you find something that inspires you! For that is truely the best kind of job ever!
  
  Luckily, for either job I end up taking, I don't have to relocate. Lot's of travel, but no relocating. I'm hoping to save enough frequent flyer miles to take me and my best friend to Italy. Wouldn't that kick ass? There are benefits to traveling for a living!
  
  Much luck Cutie on the resume building/job hunting! I've got all body parts officially crossed and good vibes and mojo on their way to you. :) Sweet dreams.

• D6fer said on Mar 30, 2007....

  Everytime I hear your name I think of this old song...do you remember?...probably not....young little bitch! he he he ;p
   
  Sunny, yesterday my life was filled with rain
  Sunny, you smiled at me and really eased the pain
  Oh, the dark days are done
  The bright days are here
  My sunny one shines so sincere
  Sunny one so true
  I love you
  
  Sunny, thank you for that sunshine bouquet
  Sunny, thank you for the love you brought my way
  You gave to me your all and all
  Now I feel ten feet tall
  Sunny one so true
  I love you
  
  Sunny, thank you for the truth you let me see
  Sunny, thank you for the facts from a to z
  My life was torn like windblown sand
  And then a rock was formed when we held hands
  Sunny one so true
  I love you
  
  Sunny, thank for that smile upon your face
  Sunny, thank you for that gleam that flows with grace
  Youre my spark of natures fire
  Youre my sweet complete desire
  Sunny one so true
  I love you
  
  Sunny, yesterday my life was filled with rain
  Sunny, you smiled at me and really eased the pain
  The dark days are done
  The bright days are here
  My sunny one shines so sincere
  Sunny one so true
  Sunny one so true
  Sunny one so true
  I love you
   
   

• NotTheOfficeWhore said on Apr 07, 2007....

  Guru Daddy??? How'd I miss this comment?? You are so fuckin' adorable!!!! BIG kiss from me, you damn cute bastard!!!!! :)

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