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Yani said it earlier, now I'm saying it: Yani if you find that place make room for 2 b/c I want to go with you. My husband is here (after I've spent all day with the kids) screaming about my time on the computer. Can I ever get a moments peace. Btw him and the kids and the screaming and running back and forth in his family's home and he looks at me and tells me to speak to the kids( and as usual he's doing nothing). Am I the O-N-L-Y parent they have?
Does his words not carry any weight? So then he says: Well they have to go to bed.( duh really). They've eaten dinner, its now 8:45 send them to bed then. At 10&8 they don't need their hands held to go to sleep. Now he has to put 4yrold to bed. Whoope! For God's sake can I ever have a moments peace. A moment not shared by every member in my family(They even follow me to the bathroom). A moment to breath. A moment to dare I say the word: R-E-L-A-X!
 
The one outlet I do have, the one thing that calms my spirit and he's bitching b/c I'm not doing everything and running after every one. Yani I have my pillow I'm ready when you are!


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  • wombat said on Feb 27, 2007....
    That's exactly why I disappear from here then pop back up.  I still haven't told my hubby I am on SC, or that I am "Wombat."  No one knows except you guys here!  Occasionally he gets ill with me and makes a comment like, "if you can pull yourself away from that damn computer...."   I don't comment alot when he is around.  Once he asked me what I was writing over here.  I told him, "Nothing."  If he gets up and walks by, I click on the home button and proceed to look bored, checking out the latest news.   Like you, this is my outlet--mine and mine alone.  I have to admit I don't have the little ones running around--I wonder if I would be in the boat with you if I did.  Hang in there, and don't feel guilty!
  • yani said on Feb 27, 2007....

    that dang husband of yours!

    you're husband sounds so helpless, take joy in the fact that he couldn't live without you :)  HH honey, I will reserve a place for two, you are definitely coming with me.

    Did you ever get the guilty feelings while you're in the bathroom, sitting on the throne, doing nothing and everyone is screaming for you? Well, I do and it sucks! I think I've been brainwashed to believe that I should do most everything for everyone.

    Oh well! let's hit the sack HH. come on!

    Wombie lol at looking bored :) but you're right. This is OUR space. My hubby doesn't know I blog. And I intend to keep it that way.

  • wombat said on Feb 27, 2007....
    yani:  Glad to know I'm not the only one keeping this secret from my hubby.  Sometimes I think of just asking him how he would feel about it if I signed onto something like this.  I'm sure he wouldn't be mad--he would just start to get nosy and spoil the fun for me.  Then he would probably ask if there was anyone interesting up for a threesome.  {giggle giggle}   No, that isn't my objective here!  Or anywhere else!
  • yani said on Feb 27, 2007....

    really? it wasn't your objective? you had me thinking there for a minute bwahahaha!

    I think the hubby wouldn't like to know I'm writing stuff here. He might get too defensive and suspicious and start breathing down my back ugh! that I don't need :)

  • husbandhater said on Feb 27, 2007....

    The hubby knows I blog(hasn't read my stuff though) and has begun to ask if i'm done with my new boyfriends yet! Too bad I don't want anybody but him lol! I'm coming Yani. Wombie wanna Join us so that you don't have to look so bored. Oh and the little one's running wild bothers the living hell out of me but I've had them all day and he always does this when we've here and even when we've not so I am now crafting my own me time. 10,8,4 and big kid hubby will just have to occupy themselves while I get that me time. I'm tired and tired of being tired so i've got to do something or lose my sanity.

    I want a little girl so bad but you know what I can't deal with another child(not to mention girls don't seem to be my racket). So I live vicariously threw my brother. My neice is going to be 6months old(she was born a day before my birthday) on the 18th of this incoming month. And when she was born I brought the little sqirt so much stuff she hasn't wore half of it yet. And when the spring hits I will buy more. I love her but she is too little to do very much with yet, but soon I can pick her up, take her to the park, and just go crazy spoiling her and then drop her off back to the parents when I'm done. Ain't life grand!( Why am I blogging about this lol?)

  • genalonewolf said on Feb 27, 2007....
    Now I know that they make child saftey gates to put up at the stairs and in bedroom doors, but do they make one in husband size? I think it is something you should look into! lol
    The kids are the same here with my pickle, they are constantly up her butt from the time she gets home til they go to bed. I have no clue as to what to tell you to get your husband to realize they are half his which means that he takes half the responsibilities, short of inserting something sizable into his ass. keep your cool something will come to ya!
  • silverwhisper said on Feb 27, 2007....
    i'm glad you finally had a moment or three to yourself, HH!

    ed
  • yani said on Feb 28, 2007....
    hey HH, you got all boys and I got all girls hehehehe is it too early to make plans yet :)
     
    why am I still here? {{ heading for the sack }}
  • ALIENated said on Feb 28, 2007....
    If you ladies cannot handle your addiction (SourCast) then you might want
    to seek professional help. I went through the wife not liking how much time
    I spend on here phase. She is learning to cope nicely now that I just tie
    her up instead of locking her in the closet while I blog. The gag helps, but
    I can still hear her muffled screaming, and I am afraid to sleep with both
    eyes closed.
    
    Sleepless in Seatle
    
  • BrenneeLee said on Feb 28, 2007....
    Haha, my hubby asked me what I was doing on here once.  I told him... "Bitching about you!"  That was that... hehe
    He said as long as I'm not bitching AT him then that was alright by him.  He knows now and when he looks over to see me laughing he asks me to read it to him.  Keeps him out of my hair when I'm reading or posting on more serious matters.

    Good luck with yours HH.... I'd kill mine if he were like that.
  • RabidBoi said on Feb 28, 2007....
    I was married once, key word once. So I dont know what advice I can give. If you guys find solstice behind the moniter go for it! Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life, its not unhealthy to play on the net. My boyfriend whines about me playing my online games all the time but he has yet to have the audacity to try and stop me. He isn't around all the time so I have the time to do as I please. Though when I was married I was on when ever I could, mainly cause he never did anything for me that was fun or entertaining or loveing. He just watched TV or went to the bar or we had sex. Thats all he ever wanted in life and I wasnt enough for him. So the computer was my lover. :) If it boils down to it, start screaming "LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE FOR 30 FREAKIN MINS!" To anyone who pushes you to far, just not the kids, just tell them mommy needs some mommy time :)
  • copsunited said on Feb 28, 2007....
    Wow.. this is really humorous. My old lady started to bitch
    one evening. She said I want to talk to you. I said..um..what if
    I don't want to talk to you?
     
    But you spend all your damned time on the 'puter. I said nope..
    only some early afternoons and evenings.
     
    Well..she says..I think that's ridiculous. I agreed and left the house'
    Drove to the club..sat..played poker for 3 hours..drank 1/2 pint of
    Crown Royal..staggered home..Slammed the door..went to
    bed. Next evening..she says.."going to the club are you?" I said
    depends...she says..well I turned the 'puter on...
     
    LOLOLOL...that worked..
  • RabidBoi said on Feb 28, 2007....

    Im confused Cops LOL *flops*

  • mom said on Feb 28, 2007....
    Wow you guys, I feel that I must have a pretty good husband, he never complains about me on the computer.  He just doesn't want me to sit in the bedroom or kitchen doing it.  So I sit in the dining room and my husband is in the frontroom but he feels that I am close enough.  He will ask what I'm doing and say "blogging", he then says "Ok".
  • skald said on Feb 28, 2007....
    Husbandhater. Seems like the same pattern is all around. I know this situation.

    And talking about computers. My husband does not know how to turn one on and he gets sometimes a bit yellows of the puter.
  • momsrock said on Feb 28, 2007....
    same here HH!! Yani, can you make room for another?? :)
  • husbandhater said on Feb 28, 2007....
    Lol lord the room just got so funny! M-Rock it's getting crowded but I'm sure we can squeeze you in! lol. I'm starting a new room for mother's,wives,& Spouses that just want to escape! Thanks to you all for answering! I NEEDED the laugh so bad right now.
  • yani said on Feb 28, 2007....
    lol sure moms!  we got plenty of room :)
     
    HH where is that room?  {{ hugs }}

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