I need some relationship advice. I had been going out with this girl for 2 years and and this september heard from a friend of hers that she was cheating on me. When I confronted her on the issue...she told me she had been cheating on me for months! So naturally I ended the relationship...she didn't want that and began begging me to get back together. I stood stong and kept saying no. She then started to make my life a living hell by spreading rumors about me and ripping pictures of me up with her teeth in front of large groups of people in school. This behavior persisted for about a month, and during this time all my friends had turned on me and went wih my ex-girlfriend, my best friend even went out with her right after we broke up. That same friend stabbed me in the back again by getting me kicked off mhy bowling team but that's another story...So as I have no friends in high school I walk alone most places but am now going out with a wonderful girl who makes me very happy when we get time to spend together(which doesn't seem often enough). However, my ex and her best friend are in my classes and talk aloud about their pesonal lives in front of me. It's much worse than I can even describe. Every day is a torment in class and I just can't deal with it much more. I don't know what to do, if I should say something or not..but this girl is crazy and the funny thing is her best friend also used to be a good friend of mine...and the only reason any of my previous friends even know my ex is through me..blehh any advice???
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rainandsunshine said on Mar 01, 2007....
im sure you are having a tough time bcos of your ex gf . but i must say you made the correct decision in breaking up with her . she is trying to alienate your frends from you by making you look like the bad guy and to get their sympathy . but if your frends are your true frends , they will realise at some point of time that they have been manipulated by your ex gf . and im sure that day will some soon . as you say , you've found a wonderful new girl , you shud concentrate on your relationship with her . if she is hearing all these rumours , she might feel insecure and you need to assure her .
i know you are having difficulty geeting out o this , but give it time , it'll sort itself out . concentrate on your new gf , she is more important than geeting upset because of your ex gf's spite . take care and keep in touch .
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frontanack said on Mar 06, 2007....
I totally agree with rainandsunshine. Buck up...take the lashings because it will make you incredibly strong. Do not allow the anxt of the ex to scare or scar you, because that will only make you Crazy! Hold on tight to your girl.. and give her every assurance, and cry on her shoulder too... she can help you with this. As for the ones who are ganging and betraying.. the best you can do is put forth a gentle, if firm and distant front. Just protect yourself: from the hate they want you to engage in. Misery demands company: and when you dont comply, the back of that devil gets broken pretty fast. Congratulate the girl when she does those mean things... tell her something like... "Oh yeah, you really got me there,, guess I deserved it.." and then walk away. and pray for her.. peace and wellness. she needs it, and that is the only way she will ever get it.(I have an ex from a 20 year marriage who has been doing the same sort of thing to me.. while I raised the 12 children alone... believe me, you are the most important one to protect... and that is coming from a voice of unImaginable experience,) -
silverwhisper said on Mar 06, 2007....
she's a psycho. ignore her, and tell her if she doesn't stop, you'll have to start spreading stories about her, too. and if she pushes you, do it. nothing sexual, mind--that's crass and classless. but definitely something she wouldn't want out there.
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