• kruuyai said on Feb 19, 2007....

  I guess you just have to ask yourself what it is you want in a relationship.  Do you feel hurt when you find out that he is seeing other women?  If so, this relationship is probably not for you.  Are you okay with the idea of an open relationship?  Then, it should work both ways.  There's no reason for you to be bound to someone who is not equally bound to you (unless you're content with that).  Just be safe.

• silverwhisper said on Feb 20, 2007....

  honestly, i'd drop him. if he's a womanizer, he's told you in no uncertain terms that your relationship is less important to him than the opportunity to have sex at every opportunity no matter the cost.
  
  think about that for a moment. you're less important to him than sex w/ someone he's just met.
  
  you deserve better out of life and from a relationship.
  
  ed

• mysterious said on Feb 21, 2007....

  yeah, that's something that has to be really given serious thoughts on, thanks!

• mysterious said on Feb 21, 2007....

  so ed --- I take it you're a one-woman kind of man, huh? Your wife is lucky to have you and so are you for having a wonderful wife by your side.

• silverwhisper said on Feb 21, 2007....

  mysterious: nah, i'm the lucky one. :>
  
  ed

• CreativeWoman said on Mar 02, 2007....

  You have to decide what is best for you.  I know that sounds simplistic, but my only advice is not to swallow ANY emotions that make you feel negative about yourself.  That's one of my biggest regrets in life.
  
  CW
  

• anonymous said on Mar 31, 2009....

  sorry to be late with mu comment.. im in a relationship with one..i do love him..he tells me that he is trying hard to get out of his ways.. apart of me want to believe him another part tells me he just faking it, who knows. At the end of the day it will be up to me

• anonymous said on Aug 25, 2009....

  Womanizer... hmmm. A word I use to desrcibe the person I am with. He has 400 woman on myspace and around 90 on Facebook as of right now. He collects them and even keeps their pictures! He turnes a friendly chat into some online love affair and tells them how he wants to marry them and such. I have told him point blank "this **** NEEDS to stop" he tries to tell me tha he has no interest in doing that anymore YET.. he keeps everything private. Seriously, I have had enough of his s**t and I do not deserve this after all the loyalty I gave to him, and he has the nerve to say "I love you"?.... What a crock. You know what? This is just a small percentage of our list of problems that he refuses to fix. I have spent the last 6 months trying to decide what to do. I have already convinced myself that leaving is what I want. I am now currently on my way out the door. There is nothing he can do about it.. and even reading "how to get your ex back" will NOT help him.

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