• kruuyai said on Feb 20, 2007....

  Hi... I've never swapped, but I can imagine how that would be with people you were friends with.  It's just like any other relationship... sex changes everything... for better or for worse. 

• silverwhisper said on Feb 20, 2007....

  i haven't although i've been in situations that would afford me that opportunity if i wanted it. people are funny about sex and friendship and love, and i'm not entirely certain for myself how well i can keep the two separate in such an instance.
  
  ed

• girlfriday said on Feb 23, 2007....

  hi kruuyai

  why does sex have to change things???

  why cant we be normal about it...does dining together chg anything?

  does catching a movie together chg anything?whats so different now is how we perceive things to be.we are more aware of what has happened and thats why we complicate things for our own selves!!!

• girlfriday said on Feb 23, 2007....

  hi silver
  do we really have to keep them separate!!!
  its all apart of who we really are then why kid ourselves in the first place!!
  who are we trying to 'cheat' here...ourselves...isn't it??

• silverwhisper said on Feb 23, 2007....

  i don't believe that my heart can be given to more than one person. for some people, that's possible. for me, it isn't.
  
  ed

• girlfriday said on Feb 23, 2007....

  hi ed its not   about giving your heart...that is only for one person...but what if that

  one person thinks that fantasising about other ppl,swapping etc is important to save the relationship...then what would you do?

• silverwhisper said on Feb 23, 2007....

  then that person isn't for me, that's all. if it's for that person, great for her.
  
  ed

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