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In the last few days my wife has managed to ruin my plans three or four different times after she has said it was ok to do something then a few days latter she changes her fucking mind and then does the same shit over again. It is staring to make me go in-fucking-sane.
First off she says I can take some money out of the bank to go and buy another Harley, later that same day she tells that I can have the money but lay's out  the guilt that we can use this money on re doing the kitchen. I agree and I would just work an extra day a week and use that money to buy another Harley, she says ok that will work so I set it up with my boss to do that. Two fucking days later she says to me, your willing to work more for a Harley but if I want something then you don't offer to work an extra day "like to redo the kitchen" and in the same fucking breath says but I will not have anytime to spend with you. What the fuck is this about LADIES? It is driving me to say fuck it and leave her happy little ass. That way I can get my Harley and work when I want to work. What makes women do this shit in the first place? Don't tell someone it is ok then lay a fucking guilt trip on them, that is just bullshit and a real fast way for your man to leave your ass. I will tell you this much if she does this shit one more time to me I will leave your ass. I have had enough of this crap out of her.  


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  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 19, 2007....
    Is this shit caused from that woman's change of life shit?
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 19, 2007....

    Well sorry to say but she's un happy about something that has nothing to do with you, your harley or the kitchen fucking sink!

    She may not be heard on something because she's not opening her mouth (of course you are suppose to be a mind reader) feel like going in fucking sane yet???

     

    OMG Z this is kind of funny because I appreciate the fact that you would be going mad but are you asking a question thats gonna get her talking??? this is maybe what she needs and a little... you know...

     

    How long you been together??? if not long then hey your loss her loss, if you have been together a while I would be telling her to wack you over the head with the fry pan (nah just kidding) you see we are all NUTSO

     

    So just let it go and then call us NUTSO we are NUTSO so be NUTSO back! until she gets over it.. or she gets a bit or you give her a bit or you maybe take her for a ride on that harley of yours and talk to her about whats bugging your ass about her behaviour - COMMUNICATION IS THE MOTHER OF LIFE Z  use it a little maybe I dunno... (it's still funny honey but its serious I understand)

  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 19, 2007....
    We have been together for 22 years and this is the first time she has ever done this crazy shit. It is driving me up the fucking wall.
  • purrrkitten said on Feb 19, 2007....

    Sounds like she doesn't want you to buy your Harley but she's afraid to come out and say it. Sounds like she's waffling instead and then laying on the guilt hoping you just won't buy it. Ask her straight up if she just doesn't want you to buy your Harley and if she wants the money spent on something else. Maybe she'll be honest this time... 

    Sorry she's driving you nuts!!! Sounds like something my mom would do to me...

  • pickersplock said on Feb 19, 2007....
    She wants you to buy the Harley.....and she wants you to give her something in
    return She wants to know that you're not going to leave her for some biker chick!
    She said yes to the bike and then started thinking, "Uh oh, what if this is some
    mid-life crisis and he's tired of me and wants to show off to the ladies."
    Well, that's my take on it!
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 19, 2007....

    Z - that is kind of strange, maybe she is going through something like purr is saying, maybe she just doesn't know how to say it to you.

    Could be the perfect chance to ask some important questions... maybe she feels as though she deserves something, mid life crisis her self (the change)

    It sounds a little more complex though and I can't provide advice but I hope it doesn't ruin such a long relationship Z, maybe ask yourself the big question of what your relationship is, where is it going, what would you like it to be and how would you like to bee with her - then tell her everything you realise....

  • mom said on Feb 19, 2007....
    I don't know what to say, maybe ask her why she is flip-flopping.  My husband does the same stuff to me.  He will  say yes and then later not follow through with it.  Now I just do whatever without him,  I buy stuff without talking to him, I have never gone out and bought something like a major purchase without his ok but very seldom do I rely on his opinion cause  I can't count on it.  You are always praising your wife so I don't see how you could leave her.  Tell he how you feel.  Hang in there hon, we are so much better than your hand.
  • mom said on Feb 19, 2007....
    Ya know something that I thought about a little while ago.  I think that your wife is feeling that you are being self centered and she is feeling neglected.  Have you been self centered? When was the last time you did something for her?  I don't mean have sex but something like flowers, dinner, movie, something special just because?  How long has she been wanting her kitchen redone?  I am not accusing you, you just need to think and search your soul for the answer.
  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 20, 2007....
    mom I think your right !!! i have neglected her these past few months with every weekend being tied up at biker events and parties and one thing she said was she wanted more time with me and her only. Movies, dinner, spending time together discusing anything but work or bike clubs. trust me i do listen to what she say's and I will take some time out of my busy life to include her needs. On the kitchen it has been about 12 years that she has wanted to do something to it. So I guess that will need to come first to make her happy. She means more to me than a damn oh scooter anyway. 
  • mom said on Feb 20, 2007....
    Good job Z- I think she will be okay about the bike if she feels that she is still number one with you. :)
  • SillyMommy62902 said on Feb 23, 2007....
    Z--Good for you!  Maybe the new bike will come later.  Twelve years is a long time to wait for a kitchen renovation.  Especially when it's something that everybody in the house will appreciate.  Except the baby and the toddler--those two little buggers couldn't care less about how the freakin' house looks!

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