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In life there are two things I know for sure. In 1982 I learned the first; falling forty feet, straddling a railing half way down, and then landing on cement, really hurts. I was twenty three--indestructible and immortal. After my bones molded back together, I was soon back taking what life had to offer for granted, and that included being a reckless kid. It was in the spring of 1985 that I changed the direction of my life; instead of the direction of my car. It took the extreme, I learn the hard way, but no matter how fast you're going a car cannot fly. Actually, they nose dive like a lead balloon. 

            Although my car flew airborne for thirty feet, it then plunged into a nose-dive and fell another fifteen feet. The landing gave new meaning to the words, "compact car". I awoke five weeks later in halo traction with a broken neck, many broken bones, partial paralysis, and unable to walk. But I consider myself lucky--I was alive. In time the movement returned to my legs but my balance was nowhere to be found.

 

I don’t like reading blogs that are to long so I’ll stop here; if you like what you read I’ll continue on……………………… Isn’t it just amazing what the human body can endure? Sometimes, it’s hard to believe I’m able to walk around and I’m sitting here blogging. I may have broken some bones, but not my spirit!

 

MM


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  • minniemouse said on Feb 18, 2007....
    Wow.....its amazing how the body can take a beating, but the brain keeps on ticking....so to speak.  I can't even begin to imagine the incredible physical pain you have endured.  What kept you going through all that?  For most, its very easy to jump into a "pity party" and fall into the helpless victim role.  I would definitly love to hear how you kept your spirt!
  • secretlife said on Feb 18, 2007....
    Are all of these accidents why you feel pain today? 
    How long did it take you to recover from breaking your neck? 
    You are very lucky MM to be here still after such an accident.....you know, but i'm just saying to remind you again....
  • midnightman said on Feb 19, 2007....

    minniemouse: love and support from family & friends helped a great deal in those many months in the hospital but a lot of its up to you. You have to make an effort not to feel sorry for yourself or blame anyone else. I was fortunate that I had no one to blame except myself. You have to live with the cards you’re dealt in life and perhaps the most important thing I found in overcoming adversities was having a sense of humour. Sometimes you just had to laugh at things.

     

    MM

     

    Secret: my past accidents are 100% the cause of my chronic pain; I tore some nerves in my neck and shoulder and there isn’t much they can do about it. I feel blessed to have survived both my accidents and been given a second chance at life. This may sound crazy, but breaking my neck was probably the best thing to happen to me. I was in two different hospitals for two years (I spent a year relearning to walk) but it took about three years to get back on my own and then I began quiet a journey. When it was all said and done breaking my neck took about 10 years out of my life. I’ve tried to give back to life in certain ways and not make the same mistakes as I’d done before. I feel very fortunate but sometimes life can be a real struggle. I think everyone has his or her own struggles to deal with but the one thing I learned is you must never give up! Also, being immersed in a coma for six weeks is a great way to quit smoking.  Ha Ha

     

    Take care……….MM

     

     

  • secretlife said on Feb 19, 2007....
    MM:  i know inside of  you is a truly inspirational story....i'm looking forward to reading it!
  • gingersoul said on Feb 19, 2007....
    Midnight....its not the first time that people who suffered great pain are grateful for the accident that caused them that pain....
    it must be a life altering revelation...
    even if the body is wrecked and broken the spirit takes fuel from the suffering and give new birth ....
    i would love to read what you learned from this horrible accident and how you recovered ...10 years of your life and you are here writing that you are grateful for that car diving...amazing...
    i am really interested in reading more.. and thanks for sharing....{hugs}
  • clocks said on Feb 20, 2007....
    the mind is a powerful thing.Be grateful to ur caretakers
  • SillyMommy62902 said on Feb 23, 2007....
    Wow.  You have an amazing spirit!  You are SO lucky not to be paralyzed (your legs).  It sounds like you may eventually return to a normal life, which is wonderful.  From your other posts, I see that you are still experiencing some pain.  Hang in there.  You'll be fine.  Bright blessings to you!
  • anonymous said on Feb 24, 2007....

    Ginger: Sorry I missed acknowledging your comment….yes, ....the whole experience was mind altering as well as life altering. Your words, “the spirit takes fuel from the suffering and gives new birth,” are a beautiful description….they give me better understanding….thank you

     

    Silly: yes I’m very fortunate I’m not a paraplegic….although I never returned to my life before the accident, I returned to a much better life—I’m very grateful to be alive and walking! Thanks for your bright blessings…….MM

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