• SeanRenaud said on Feb 12, 2007....

  What about all the men who are cheated on?  The women who trap us in marriage by getting pregnant (sometimes not by us) the ladies who want us for our money?  I'm not saying that women shouldn't love themselves more, I'm behind you on that I've yet to see this legendary woman who gave everything and got nothing.  I hear about her everywhere I turn though and frankly I'm tire of all this male bashing.  Both genders need to take full responsibility for where we're fucking up.
   
   

• silverwhisper said on Feb 12, 2007....

  sean, you're sounding awfully embittered there. i've known men and women in both situations.
  
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• MsBradford07 said on Feb 12, 2007....

  I have known men in that situation, but I'm not a man, so I can't say how that feels. I have been hurt before, so I know about my hurt. I'm not saying all men are like 'cause I know some good, but what I'm saying is the one I have encountered a relationship with. Thanks for the comments sean and silver. 

• mom said on Feb 13, 2007....

  Our biggest faults as women, we always have this notion that we can change any man to be the way we want them.  "Love conquers all" mentality.  We seem to think that if we just love them enough, then it willbe perfect.  It is never so unless that person wants to change. 
  Sean I have never married a man for money or because i was pregnant,  I marry a man for his pecker size. :)
  I get the feeling Sean that you have been shitted on a time or two.

• MsBradford07 said on Feb 13, 2007....

  I feel that, too. Thanks for blessing with your comment mom.

• SeanRenaud said on Feb 13, 2007....

  Mosty my friends, but yeah I've had a few attempted screw jobs too.  Am I a bit bitter?  Yeah.  But I see enough guys tht claim to love girls just to get in their panties or do other shit that I find to be dishonest that I can't say my gender is without serious flaw.  I'd probably get laid a lot more if I was willing to lie, I'm the guy who'll tell you upfront, I don't really like you I just wanna fuck, so if your not interested honestly lets save me some time and trouble because I could be beating my high score in Wario Ware right now.
   
  All joking aside I constantly see blogs and hear opinions similar to this about all guys this or all guys that, (which isn't quite the case here) and I almost never see it from guys.  When it is said it's half in jest, you know no sex after marriage, (note I said half in jest.

• mom said on Feb 13, 2007....

  LOL Sean, I knew you were very genuine.  I think that you can have sleeze in either gender.  I never played Wario Ware is that nay good?

• SeanRenaud said on Feb 14, 2007....

  It's very good.  Not to mention I'm a gamer.  I mean like god forbid my girlfriend be in the mood when a good game drops, I will ignore beautiful women offering anal sex (a treat I rarely get) if I'm in the middle of a game.
   
  Being genuine sucks though.  Even my female friends (and sister) keep telling me its ok to lie a little.  Kinda like you have two girlfriends, you need to develope a don't ask don't tell policy.  Oh well guess I'll likely never learn.

• mom said on Feb 14, 2007....

  I used to play the final fantasy games, I love them, I would get so excited when the next one came out.  I didn't want to do anything but play.  I was like you.
   
  I want to give you a piece of advice, you can't win with women.  They want the truth but only if it is something they want to hear.  Yes, means no, and yes means yes. They will tell  you that there is nothing wrong and cry like the world had just come to an end.  They will tell you to be more sensitive and after a bit will tell you that you are a pussy.
  Stay the way you are otherwise you will go nuts. :)

• MsBradford07 said on Feb 15, 2007....

  Thanks for the comment sean and mom.  Me, being honest is something I can't get mad at. If you just want sex, that's cool, but it's my choice if I want to have sex with you. I have been in a relationship where that is all I wanted and needed, sex and only sex. Sean, sometimes you can find that woman that doesn't mind being just a sex partner, but please, I urge, be safe with it.

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