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Ladies if your partner asked you to have a three some or to swing with another couple would you do it? If he asked you to let him take nude photo's of you would you let him do it? If he asked you to have sex with another man while he watched would you do it? If he asked you to make a sex video with him would you do it? If he asked you for a divorce would you give him one without a fight?


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  • polarheart said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Z-Wizard
     
    An absolute NO to all of the questions.  Firstly, I would be incredibly shocked to hear him ask me those things as we have been together over 15 years and married for 14.  Furthermore, his incredibly moral and has the highest regard for the sanctity of sex in marriage.  Anyway, I do whatever pleases him in the bedroom and so I dont think he would have a need for other avenues to please him.
     
    Polarheart
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    I would also say no to everything except for the divorce. I don't fight too much once the "D" is used, why fight, it means the marriage is over.
  • SeanRenaud said on Feb 09, 2007....
    And ladies wonder why guys are so reluctant to get married. OR why we get so damned out of hand at our bachelor parties.
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Sean lololol, you think that is it?lol
  • SeanRenaud said on Feb 09, 2007....
    It is a major factor in my decision to makethings more permanent with my fiancee.
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    well you go for it.  Does she really know what she is in for?
  • SeanRenaud said on Feb 09, 2007....
    See the thing is I value my freedom and honestly some of the things on that list aren't nearly that bad.   I can appreciate (if not like) a woman's desire not to have a threesome or to fuck another man but what possible reason can be given for not taking photographs or filming  a movie with your husband for your husband.  The closest thing to logicthat I can come up with for that is a fear that they might surface on the internet (though honestly that is just a negative relflection on how fucked up our society is) but you should trust your husband at the very least with your reputation.
     
    As for her she knows better than anybody which honestly terrifies me half the time.
  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 09, 2007....
    OK LADIES, WHAT IF THE ROLE WAS REVERSED? WOULD YOU ASK YOUR MAN TO HAVE A THREESOME, HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMEN WHILE YOU WATCHED, TAKE PICTURES OF HIM IN THE NUDE AND MAKE A FILM WITH HIM.
     IF you WERE THE one IN control OF ALL OF IT???
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Sean,
    I would not do photos or films with my husband because of a fear of it ending up in my kids hands or out in public, also I don't like to look at myself at all.
    Yes, you should trust your spouse and hopefully your marriage will last forever but there is always that doubt, and if it is a nasty divorce, well then you run that risk.
    Do you love your fiance', do you guys get along?
    Then trust those feelings.  It isn't all that bad ya know
  • anonymous said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Let's see. My husband and I have done the threesome (MFM), the nude pics, and the sex video. Since we're happily married, I can't imagine why he'd want a divorce.

    When my ex told me he wanted a divorce, I agreed and even initiated the proceedings.
  • SeanRenaud said on Feb 09, 2007....
    1.  You shouldn't be ashamed of your body.  If your kids got a hold of it, honestly big deal.  I think all of us wandered in our parents at least once in the shower and I'm fairly sure the world didn't end.
     
    2.  That whole you should trust your spouce but nasty divorce/protect yourself.  That pretty much sounds like a woman advocating every man (and plenty of women these days) getting a pre-nup for those same reasons. I mean I'm against prenup because that spretty much saying you expect to fail in advance.
     
    Love her with all my heart, I just don't want to fuck up her life or mine.
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Sean,
    I am not comfortable having my pic taken even when I am clothed. I don't even like mirrors.  I have a hard enough time focusing during sex, I don't need a distraction.  If I had a mirror on the ceiling, then I would be looking for pimples on his ass.  If I were on top I would not  want him looking at my ass.
    As for the nasty divorce thing, yeah I trust but not enough to let there be any ammo later.  I also believe in being cautious.  I have been married enough times so that I never assume anything will last.  I also have seen enough of others getting screwed when their spouses want revenge.  Some days I think I will kill my husband just cause he is a man, and other times I think I would just kill him lol.
    I don't like prenups either.
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Z- now to answer your question.  I would not want that either.  I am a one guy at a time person, and very jealous.  My boyfriend was in the shower with a girl.  I went in there with blood on my mind.  I screamed at her, "You fucking bitch,I am going to kill you."  He beat the shit out of me for it. So I like to keep things in house and not be spreading no shit around. 
    I have taken a few pictures of him when he has risen to the challenge but he asked me to get rid of them so I did. By my not doing those things I feel I am in more control of my marriage.  I love to flirt and will do so but it doesn't go beyond that.
  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 09, 2007....
    Ok mom the whole thing here with this posting is simple. It is the fact of who is in most control of the relationship at the time. I have found that most women like to be in control but have a problem when they fill like that control has been taken away from them. I do know that this does not include all women because I have seen those that want the control over them, as well. I can really find out a lot about a person by the way they answer such questions. I am a nosey little bastered but I do it in a sneaky way!
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    well you go boy!  :)  But I still want to know how you would answer this.
  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 09, 2007....
    I would not ask the wife ever to do any of these except let me take some pictures but the problem with that is she hates taking pictures so I am just shit out of luck on that one. So I guess I will just have to look at all the ladies on www.privatevoyuer.com myself.
     However I would much rather look at my wife instead of some one elses wife! But you get what you can take!
  • mom said on Feb 09, 2007....
    LOL, yeah.  I would rather look at somebody elses wife instead of my husband too. LOL
    How can you feel romantic, when he is hacking his brains out from smoking and has earplugs in his ears and a remote control in the other?  LOL  I mean really.  Well I took a gander at the website you left and please tell me you weren't looking at the Navy Gay sex photos.  I have learned that if I want to see really handsome men for eye candy, I must look at the gay sites or mags.  I just look at the pictures and don't read the articles.
  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 11, 2007....
    No- way! Ladies only for me! I am not into men!
  • Z-Wizard said on Feb 11, 2007....
    I don't read the crap either but love looking at the ladies!!!
  • mom said on Feb 11, 2007....
    lol well it is good to know that.

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