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Holy cow, did we party!  I haven't been to a wedding in a few years, so maybe my memory is faulty, but this one has to be one of the top contenders for best wedding I've ever attended.


The ceremony and the reception were held in the same place.  This is a picture of the event center where it was held.   It's a beautiful old church, and more than once I wondered what long-ago parishioners would think of all the merrymaking in the sanctuary of their church.


The bride was absolutely radiant.  My opinion's not objective, of course, but my niece is a beautiful young woman.  And she and the groom actually looked like they were enjoying themselves.  The ceremony was short and very traditional, and curiously tear-free for most of us.  The only time I choked up was when my sister, the bride's mom, was escorted to her seat by her son.  She looked so elegant.


Then the party began.  The recessional was the old song by the Ronettes, "Baby I Love You" and the bride and groom bopped down the aisle while we all cheered and applauded.


And the dancing!  Everybody was dancing.  There were some of the men who were dragged onto the floor by their women, gamely doing what I call "the white-guy shuffle".  There were the little kids running and jumping and twirling.  (My 7-year-old niece was doing her version of break dancing, spinning around on the floor on her bottom.) 


And then there was me. 


I was dragged out on the dance floor, not by B, but by, you guessed it, MimiJr.  I now know without a doubt, you don't need feet to dance.  We had a group dance, my brother, my sisters, MimiJr, and me, to KC and the Sunshine Band.  Nobody ever told me how much fun it was to get on the dance floor and just move to the music.  What an amazing experience!  I think I re-discovered the joy of just moving.  I got horribly out of breath, so we just cranked up the O2 a little, and kept on dancing.  


Sometimes I think I concentrate too much on what I can't do, but last night I concentrated on just having fun.  It was wonderful.  I need to do that more often.



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  • sweetsoul said on Feb 04, 2007....
    What's the part of a saying? Dance like nobody's watching. I like it...
     
    I'm so glad you had such a wonderful time. The location is absolutely gorgeous. To spend time with your family, who you obviously adore, sounds like it fed your soul.
     
    As for the dancing in a wheelchair...I can't remember who it was...maybe Z, maybe not...who once described the wedding of a good friend who danced at his wedding with his wife sitting on his lap in his wheelchair. I always loved that image.
     
    As for concentrating too much on what you can't do instead of concentrating on just having fun....sounds like a great plan to me.
  • mom said on Feb 04, 2007....
    Ah MIMI,
    I had to come on here and see how you fared from the wedding yesterday.  I know you were worried.  The church is beautiful! 
    I was surprised to read that you had so much fun.  I thought I would get the usual story, you know, 'the wedding was beautiful, the bride glowed, I cried' ya know that type of thing.  It sounds like it was better than you had thought.  I am so glad you had that much fun. Good for you Mimi, you have been in such a funk lately, it was good that you got to dance.  Your children sure love you. I think the next time put a tombstone on your husband that reads RIP and go have fun.  If my husband is going to be a boar at some event I tell him that I don't want him to go because he would ruin my fun. *hugs*  You deserve to have more nights like that.
  • silverwhisper said on Feb 05, 2007....
    i was wondering how the wedding went, mimi. i'm glad you had fun. and it's all about perspective, mimi. :>

    ed
  • secretlife said on Feb 05, 2007....
    mimi:  the place was absolutely beautiful.  i'm glad you had a great time.  i miss weddings!
  • dailyachesandpains said on Feb 05, 2007....
    Mimi!!!  SO glad you had a great time!!!  Where was that place?  It's SOOO beautiful!
    Daily
  • lioneljay said on Feb 05, 2007....
    The "white guy shuffle," eh? Guilty as charged, though I can do a few of the classic ballroom dances.

    Bravo, Mimi! I'm so glad that you enjoyed yourself so much.
  • MissMimi said on Feb 05, 2007....

    It was fun to watch everybody. The groom's father and his gay companion were very theatrical on the dance floor. His companion looks like a very young Little Richard, and was a riot.

    B and I even  had a romantic moment when they had a dance for all the married couples.  They played "Unforgettable" by Nat King Cole, and though we didn't go out on the dance floor, he did put his arm around me and we swayed to the music.  Poor guy--he just has no sense of rhythm.  I had to lead.  ;)

  • MissMimi said on Feb 05, 2007....
    Daily, it's an old church that they refurbished and turned it into a clock museum at one time, and now they call it the Bell Event Center. It's in southwest Ohio.
  • polarheart said on Feb 05, 2007....
    Good for you, Mimi, it is so wonderful when the family is together having fun!!
  • mom said on Feb 05, 2007....
    AWW I feel bad now for thinking he didn't do anything but that is so sweet that he put his arm around you, that  meant that he thinks you are unforgettable too. :)

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