At last for several days in bed (I had fever), this time I blog. Well, I had lot to share but for now this will be the first. Even though I got sick and told to remain in bed. I had some phone calls from my friends who just say hi, tell me some assignments/projects, joking me around, telling me about anime and some who need an advice.
One of them is Miya, I knew her since childhood and we treat each other as sisters. She called like it was ten in evening and she was sobbing. I ask what's wrong and she told me about her fight with her boyfriend. She was trying to say to him that their relationship was not working well and she want to be free from him. But to make it worst the guy disagree and pick a knife and warn her if she let him go he will suicide infront of her. She was scared that she still remain his girlfriend even if she doesn't want him anymore.
It so sad when you are in someone who is madly in love and will sure kill itself if ever we just dump them or let go of the relationship. Sometimes I wonder if they ever think if his/her lover is happy with them or plainly they the only one who is happy...
Right now I was thinking how to help Miya but it sure difficult when her lover can take his life...
monozuki posted on Jul 04, 2006
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hotaka said on Jul 04, 2006....
I wonder how many people who say such a foolish thing actually go through with it. Of course, you don't want to feel responsible for someone taking his life but on the other hand I think most of the time it's just a threat. Teenagers can be so melodramatic. -
silverwhisper said on Jul 04, 2006....
monozuki: what her boyfriend is doing is called emotional blackmail. if she doesn't want him anymore, she should call his bluff and alert police he's threatened to kill himself. his happiness is not her burden. -
starlightstarbright said on Jul 04, 2006....
I was in a relationship a long time ago where my boyfriend threatened to do the exact same thing. It scared me to death to think that I would feel responsible for someone taking their own life. But in the end, I spoke to someone who helped me make the right decision. Threatening to commit suicide is just a form of control, and I would advise your friend to get out of the relationship as soon as possible. Just have another adult there when she breaks up with him. It's sad to think that people would even consider killing themselves over a relationship. Your friend needs to think of herself right now. -
lengsilai said on Jul 04, 2006....
All she needs to do is find out what he hates most. Just do the things he doesn't like and automatically he will just let her off the hook. The only that is constant is change and people change all the time. Today we may fall in love head over heels with this person, tomorrow you just can't take another look, can't wait to get rid of it..Tell her to play cool, he will slowly get sick of her. -
soulful9095 said on Jul 04, 2006....
I think lengsilai is absolutely right, finding out what the guy hates most and doing things accordingly..and one more thing i would like to add....she can be pretend herself in a way thats roo boring for him....that way in few days he will start disliking your friend,...i was in a relationship with a girl a couple of months back and it was the same situation...she warned me that she will commit suicide...but now everything is fine i am out of the relationship with her and she is alright now...only morons commit suicide i guess....the worst thing that will happen if we think from the guy's side is he will be depressed for somedays then eventually he will find someone else and life goes on....the best thing ur friend can do now is 1) Doing things that he hates most. 2) being a boring girl for him. 3) making him feel that this relationship is not going to work..so much so that one day he will tell that he wants to be out of the relationship...Gud Luck and God Bless. -
silverwhisper said on Jul 05, 2006....
why should she waste her time respecting his ridiculous demand? boy's got major problems and they aren't her fault. -
monozuki said on Jul 06, 2006....
I agree to you guys. Thanks so much for your comments. I will Miya about the things. If ever the time she want to break up I think I could used my cousin Raven as her bodyguard in if any case the guy will ..surely hurt himself. -
Iocus said on Jul 13, 2006....
You go girl...
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