I am not one to sugar coat anything, sugar coating is more hurtful than helpful. I do not understand why so many people want to tell you what they think you want to hear instead of what should be said! I am true to myself and expect to be true to others, sometimes it is hard for others to except. I however, can live with myself knowing that I was honest with that person and it will only help them in the end. Sometimes they do not see it right away but many times they come back to me and say thanks for the truth. I do not fear of losing a friendship or a love relationship because I am being honest with them. If someone wants the truth then I will give it to them, but expect it not to be what you think it will be. I tell them this up front and they always ask for the truth or what I think. My question to you is: DO YOU SUGAR COAT AND WHY?
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shichi said on Jan 31, 2007....
Sometimes I sugar coat the truth to spare someone's feelings. Just as ina movie quote "a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down" I thinkthis can be said about truth. -
Z-Wizard said on Jan 31, 2007....
thank you for your comment shichi! -
mom said on Feb 02, 2007....
I think you can be honest but use tact so they don't feel they have been attacked.If i say something nice then it is because of how I feel but if my opinion isn't asked I won't say anything usually. I will say something if I feel it highly necessary like, "Hey don't put that radio in the water with you, unplug it first." That kind of thing. If a woman says, "Does this make my butt look big?" I will say "Fuck yes!"If a guy will ask, "Was it good for you?" I would say, "Oh are you done?" I love tact and feel that it is so necessary. :) -
Z-Wizard said on Feb 02, 2007....
thanks mom for your comment! I am one that tells it as I see it. It does get me in trouble sometimes but I try never to attack anyone with what I say it is how you say it that gets the point across. -
mom said on Feb 02, 2007....
u r welcome. You didn;t take me serious did you? Most people don't know how to take me at first and eventually will realize I am just full of shit. -
Z-Wizard said on Feb 02, 2007....
Hey it's all good and fun! -
mom said on Feb 02, 2007....
Yep it is :) -
harriedpsychmajor said on Feb 05, 2007....
What people don't get is the difference between insult and criticism. You can say something negative without attaching any kind of emotion to it. -
mom said on Feb 06, 2007....
Hmm and it is those kind of remarks that make me feel worse. -
Z-Wizard said on Feb 06, 2007....
My wife is good at that! She can be little the biggest man in just seconds. -
mom said on Feb 10, 2007....
lol good for her.
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