• rainsallday said on Jul 22, 2006....

  Ah yes, and it makes me happy as well. Both giving and receiving! You may be a lesbian deep down, perhaps in a past life... Anyway, minus the humor, or the attempt to be funny, here's what I have learned but you may already be aware. Teasing works for some girls, light, slow flicks of the tongue. Or long, slow, licking with the tongue flat and relaxed it depends on her mood. The difference the way your tongue is "flexed" can make a difference. I never really thought that they way guys flick their tongue on a girls clit did anything. But low and behold, my girlfriend likes it. Also, sometimes there is timing factor that comes in when using your fingers. Sometimes using fingers from the get go is all good. Sometimes, if you keep teasing, and flicking and licking, they will crave your fingers towards the end. And again depending on them, if you want nice romantic slow usage of the fingers, or hard, pumping action if they want it a bit rougher. I noticed that my girlfriend also likes when my nipples graze her clit. I don't know how that would work for a man, but who knows. I have also noticed that a constant pressure feels good. Instead of using the tongue to just lick up towards her for example or (in a circular motion), licking back down with the same pressure. That's all I got for a Saturday morning. Enjoy.

• silverwhisper said on Jul 22, 2006....

  rainsallday, i'm grateful for the benefit of your perspective. :> the constant pressure thing, that's new on me. i'll have to try this out later. :D thanks! ed

• Zayda said on Aug 09, 2006....

  I don't know how I missed this post, Silver. You know, this is going to sound odd, but tracing your ABCs around the clitoris while humming ever so softly between is a very pleasurable experience.

• silverwhisper said on Aug 10, 2006....

  i'll confess i was a little surprised you missed this. :> me, i'm a big fan of the feather-light touches there. the alphabet thing i knew about but haven't done in a long time. i'm gonna have to fix that... :D ed

• Zayda said on Aug 10, 2006....

  Eh, chalk it up to not delving through the archives of your blog, which I still haven't really. I clicked on something last night and this post was on the list of posts that came up. /shrug

• LoriaAmnekia said on Aug 11, 2006....

  I love receiving cunnilingus. However, my husband does not like to give it. Some nights he will try, but he usually doesn't. He doesn't like it. At all. It's taken me ages to even get him to put his fingers there! (By the way, as I had to have this discussion with my friends when we first got together, he's not gay. He was a virgin when we got together. I am the first person he's ever gone beyond kissing and hand-holding with.) Of course, he enjoys fellatio. It hurts my jaw to give it. SO, we have a system. Each time he does something really nice/sweet for me, he earns it. Each time he at least attempts to perform cunnilingus, he earns fellatio. It works for us. Even though our male friends think I am mean...

• silverwhisper said on Aug 11, 2006....

  well, most women do like receiving it. :> i personally think that all wives are entitled to at least 3 oral orgasms/encounter. :> ed

• Dazlak said on Aug 14, 2006....

  I tend to agree, the smell, the taste, the movement of her body... love to give it, love to know that it is me that is giving her the pleasure...

• silverwhisper said on Aug 14, 2006....

  dazlak: i just enjoy watching my partner in glorious, sensual abandon. honestly, i don't think a woman ever looks better than during her fourth or fifth orgasm. ed

• extern14 said on Aug 16, 2006....

  AMEN! It's nice to know that there are men out there (besides mine) that know what to do and ENJOY it. There seem to be so few of you left. So, congratulations and keep up the good work. I know your wife will be happy! ;)

• varada said on Aug 26, 2006....

  Both doing cunnilingtus and fellacio simultaneously is what we call 69. 69 is the most enjoyable act where multiple orgasms can be felt by the tremours you feel in your mouth. The taste and the smell augments your pleasure. You can continue for any amount of time without hurrying.
  

• scalywag said on Aug 31, 2006....

  silver, I just came across this blog.....one of my favorite topics. Seems I just can't get enough of giving oral sex to my wife (well, except for the times my tongue gets a cramp....but that usually subsides and it's ready to go again).
  
  And G-spot stimulation with my fingers at the same time usually produces some good results.
  
  Damn. How am I going to make it through this day now?
  

• silverwhisper said on Aug 31, 2006....

  adjust your slacks? :>
  
  ed
  

• scalywag said on Aug 31, 2006....

  it will take more than a simple adjustment
  

• silverwhisper said on Aug 31, 2006....

  how far is your office from home? :>
  
  ed
  

• scalywag said on Aug 31, 2006....

  my office is on the third floor of my home.
  

• silverwhisper said on Aug 31, 2006....

  seems pretty straightforward to me...
  
  ed
  

• varada said on Sep 01, 2006....

  Orgasm after cunnilingus is whole and total. With G spot stimulation it is fast. I have enjoyed it giving more than anything else.
  

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