Are you a student of human nature?  If you are shy you probably are not a top student of human nature.  Part of being shy means you look inward.  You are self conscious.  You are focusing on your shyness.  You are not focusing on what is happening around you. You are probably observing yourself.  You are not observing what other people are doing. 

 

It is valuable to be a studenrt of human nature.  Watching other people can do many things.  By observing other people you learn.  You learn about how people act and react.  You learn how people deal with situations you may encounter.        

 

This is most imprortant if you are shy.  When you are a student of human nature you are learning and observing.  You are also doing one other thing that is of immense value to you.  You are not focusing on yourself.  Your are not being self conscious.  You are saying good bye to being shy. 

 

Let me know how this goes for you.

Marcia, Your Confidence Coach