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I was inspired by Husbandhater's blog about marriage.
 
It got me thinking about the secrets we keep from each other. I'm not saying that everyone keeps secrets but, if your honest with yourself, most people have something they don't want their spouse to know about. It can be anything, big or small, but it must be something you've never told your spouse ( and maybe you never will...).
 
So, tell me, what is your deep, dark, secret?
 
Writerspirit ;D


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  • wombat said on Jan 25, 2007....
    Ooooh! Hello writerspirit!  Missed ya' lately.  My big secret from hubby right now?  He can sit five feet away from me and still doesn't know I've been on SC for about two  months!  Once he asked me when I was typing away really fast, "Who are you writing?"  I said, "Nobody."  When he gets out of his chair, I hit the home button and pretend to be bored on the computer!  I just don't want him to know and want to read everything I have put on here.  This is MINE and mine alone.  (I love him, though.  This is just my little thing just for me.)  I can't put anything on here I don't want him to know in case he ever looks!  Kind of hard to say," I don't know Wombat", when it's right there to see.
  • beyondtheveil said on Jan 25, 2007....
    I think everyone has deep secrets no one will ever know. I keep a lot of mine simply because they are mine & no one elses. I will let one out now. I read somewhere a person said "Sometimes I hope the hurricane wins". Sometimes I do that too. Neither one of us knows why.
  • silverwhisper said on Jan 26, 2007....
    you know, i don't think i have any such things. let me think about it some more...

    ed
  • Comfort said on Jan 26, 2007....
    I don't think there is one thing that I have never told to anyone.. My hubby, friends and family know most things about me, some more than others though.
  • writerspirit said on Jan 29, 2007....
    Hey all!
     
    Sorry I've been unable to get back her for a few days, my Norton firewall was interfering with my Explorer 7.0 and I could not get on the net. So frustrating!
     
    I'm kind of surprized there are so few secrets to be told. I have a few. Some I will never tell my hubby because it would only hurt him and there is no reason for him to endure that pain. Then there are the ones that I simply never told anyone for what ever reason.
     
    I will tell you that I seriously considered leaving my husband and kids about ten years ago and he does not know or at least he's never come out and said he knew. I certainly did not hide my feelings at the time and we were living apart due to a work situation that kept me on the road for three months. Now I thank God that I stayed.Telling him would only cause undue pain and probably create new problems so, this is one deep, dark, secret I will always keep to myself ( except for you all ).
     
    Writerspirit
  • BrenneeLee said on Jan 30, 2007....
    I desperately wanted to be with someone else, anyone else for a long time.  I don't even know if that's still the case but I do better with suppressing it nowadays.
  • wombat said on Jan 30, 2007....
    tee-hee, my hubby still doesn't know the cops came to the door to tell me to turn down my music.  We have strict noise rules here (yuk) and he would pitch a fit.  I have been scared ever who called the cops will apolgize to him one of these days--just to make sure he found out about it!
  • writerspirit said on Jan 31, 2007....

    BrenneeLee: I think we all feel that way at times; it's human nature. Don't let it make you feel guilty. Hang in there!

    Wombat:  That is too funny! Were you celebrating while he was away or what?

    Don't worry about the neighbours. No one ever confesses to having called the cops. At least not over loud music, it makes them seem petty. lol

    Writerspirit :P

  • anonymous said on Feb 06, 2007....
    there is something in my past so deep and dark i cannot tell him ever, though i have alluded to it. it is something that violates a very deeply held belief of his. i'm not even comfortable sharing it here, even thru the cloak of anonimity (sp?).

    should i take the plunge?

    perhaps not just yet. it's so very personal, and something that might conjure up a huge shitstorm. i may blog about it someday when i get a little more comfortable here.

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