• PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jan 23, 2007....

  Oh silent_wisp!
  
  (hugs)
  
  I have to prepare my girl for school, and little one is sick .  . so I´ll come later for a longer comment!
  
  For now I offer you my tight warm embrace!
  
  paper~
  

• kruuyai said on Jan 23, 2007....

  dear silent_wisp,  I understand that it is very painful to be in a situation where you still have to see him all the time so soon after the breakup.  I would advise avoiding him as much as possible until you feel stronger..   spend more time with your girlfriends, and try to reclaim some of the things that gave you joy in life before you met him.  So often, in relationships, we lose a big part of ourselves, leaving a lot of our interests behind to make room for our lover.  If you have done that, now is the time to reacquaint yourself with your interests.  It's not easy, but you'll see that it will help you get over this faster.  And if you can afford it, buy yourself a little bouquet of flowers... just for you.  Pamper yourself in any way that you can.  And when you start to feel just a little stronger... help someone else who is feeling down.  You'll be amazed at how soon you'll be feeling better.  {{hugs}}

• secretlife said on Jan 23, 2007....

  i'm so sorry to find you hurting.
  my advice would be to try to keep yourself as busy as possible.  call friends and go out, join something, find a project........and keep your mind busy.
   
  sometimes when you mind is busy, time just goes past, and it's time that will eventually heal your hurts.
   
  feel better soon!

• silent_wisp said on Jan 23, 2007....

  [wiping of tears] Thanks Guys for the hugs and advices..
   
  Paperbackwriter: Thanks for the warm embrace. I felt I lose a heavy burden when someone give me a hug. Hope your child will get well soon
   
  kruuyai: Your right kruuyai, when I have him in my life, I forgot everything that I do when I was just myself. Being with friends or even had a time for myself.
   
  Buying of flowers...that's a great idea thanks..
   
  I surely help those who experienced being down...and I hope I be strong and learn that I still a worth to be happy ^ ^ without him
   
  secretlife: Thanks secret. I'll keep myself busy with things I that I neglected when I have a relationship with him.
  Thanks   

• kruuyai said on Jan 24, 2007....

  Hi silent_wisp,  How are you feeling today?

• Lucytorial said on Jan 25, 2007....

  Hello silent wisp I hope you are fairing well with your change. Remember as a person you are whole no relationship can make you a whole - you ar the most important interesting person in your life and when you can be happy with that, learn from it and know that you are the best person you can be I'm sure the right person will fill you with joy and love. let us know how you are

• silent_wisp said on Jan 25, 2007....

  Kruuyai: Hi!! I feel fine somehow but when I see him in our class smiling ear to ear and flirting with a girl...make me felt a little pain... [smiling] I knew I can forget him...
   
  Lucytoria: Hello to you too. Thanks for sharing of your thoughts ...right now I feel okay and trying to acquint my "self". Thanks

• kruuyai said on Jan 26, 2007....

  I knew you could, too.  {{{hug}}}

• Fabulousness said on Feb 09, 2007....

  I am glad to hear you are feeling better. I agree with the comments above. When I was heart-broken, I just took a vocal class to give myself something to do after work. it really helped me to be out & about among people with similar interests who didn't know my ex.  I don't know if that is a possibility for you, but it might help.

• silent_wisp said on Feb 13, 2007....

  Fabulousness: Thanks !! There is possible it will help me out...aside from moving on ...I also felt belong and have new bunch of friends that I could hang out. =)

• hotaka said on Mar 11, 2007....

  It's things like this that inspire so many songs in all genres of music. You are not alone. I think everyone has had such an experience. I have broken hearts and had my heart broken too. Is it the rejection tha hurts? The knowledge that the person you cared about, the one who gave you joy, no longer wants to share spending time with you? But it is a normal hurt. Being free allows you to discover yourself more and to possibly find someone even better.

• silent_wisp said on Mar 12, 2007....

  Yeah, your right ...I realized that maybe he not meant for me and the hurt is slowing gone and I'm kind of free and happy with or without someone for now..

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