• silverwhisper said on Jan 09, 2007....

  queen, i don't know how old you are, but i think it's normal and healthy to have a libido, and that's really all you're guity of re: masturbating. i don't buy this view of masturbation as intrinsically wrong. i think that's a load of stupid, guilt-ridden crap, to be honest.
  
  thank you for the compliments. :>
  
  ed

• queenparanoia said on Jan 09, 2007....

  thanks ed!

• mobil said on Jan 09, 2007....

  I don't think there is anything to feel guilty about PERIOD. About masturbating.

  I am 58 years old and I still do it.

   

  If your going to have an addiction, you got the best one going queen..........

• dazed_and_confused said on Jan 09, 2007....

  i don't think there's anything wrong with, coming from a kababayan's perspective. Its okay really. Its much better than sleeping around with every guy that you see.
  
  I think you feel a little guilty because its what our society dictates. We live in such a conservative society that sometimes we tend to just conform instead of doing the things that makes us happy.
  
  I say you go girl.
  
  Cheers.
  

• queenparanoia said on Jan 10, 2007....

  thanks dazed. yeah i feel guilty because of our society. being a filipino we are expected to be conservative.

  bullshit!!! anyway muntik na akong mahuli kagabi!!!

• dazed_and_confused said on Jan 10, 2007....

  hahahah :D grabe naman! :D pero lam mo mas exciting nga pag alam mo na anytime pwede kang mahuli. It adds more to the thrill. I guess there's an exhibitionist in some of us.
  
  Cheers!
  

• Lioness said on Jan 10, 2007....

  Sorry dear, I don't have anything to say about overcoming addictions, much more masturbation. But my point of view on this is that, you are doing it to gain personal pleasure. Right? You have the choice to do or not to do it. Right? As long as you don't harm anyone, and you're happy with it, what's wrong with that?

• mousenphonic said on Jan 10, 2007....

  queen, let's start a masterbation support group right here and now.
   
  Hi, I'm Mouse. I'm 21, getting married in three weeks and still masterbate once a week and don't think there's anything wrong with it!!!

• mousenphonic said on Jan 10, 2007....

  PS: I think it's pretty cool of you to be this forward.  Keep it up!!

• queenparanoia said on Jan 10, 2007....

  thanks mouse. well youre getting married and you still masturbate? wow. your husband would be so lucky!

  ate lioness thank you po. tama ka wala namang may nasasaktan nasasarapan pa nga eh! LOL!!!

• secretlife said on Jan 10, 2007....

  queen:  i call myself the masturbation queen!  I do it pretty much every single day - and some days more than once.  I'm ALOT older than you, and over the years, my desire has come and gone, but never did i really question whether it was right or wrong.  everyone does it queen.  whether they say so or not.  and i think it's a fairly harmless passtime...

  lol oh and ...lots of married people masturbate!!! 

• mousenphonic said on Jan 10, 2007....

  I just feel that no man on earth can give you the pleasure you can give yourself. Unless he's a psycic spiritual mind reader, of course, with vibrating body parts and aphrodisiacs in his pockets.
   
  Queen, a bit of advice (without sounding like your mother, I hope), keep to masturbation and stay a virgin as long as possible.  If I knew what I know now about sex, I would have never did it.
   
  ciao for now
  <*ms
   

• queenparanoia said on Jan 10, 2007....

  hey thanks for the advice mouse!!!
   
  secret does youre husband knows you masturbate? do you let him watch? hehehehehe LOL!!
   
   

• roadstar said on Jan 10, 2007....

  I am way older than you and I masturbate almost every day, have for a long time, gets quite addicting

• secretlife said on Jan 10, 2007....

  queen:  sometimes i do it while he's lying next to me sleeping!  so i know just how you feel doing it in a room with others sleeping close by.  pretty amazing how we can stay still and quiet, huh??  lol
   
  yes, i have, indeed, let him watch a few times.  i like to watch too.  i think it's sexy.

• queenparanoia said on Jan 10, 2007....

  yeah. i think its very sexy too! hehehehe i guess we mastered the silent way of doing it!!!

• silverwhisper said on Jan 10, 2007....

  mouse: seriously, you think that the toys can do a better job than a real live partner?
  
  ed

• MsBradford07 said on Jan 10, 2007....

  Girl, there is nothing wrong with loving yourself, and that's what you are doing. I do it and love it. I got toys and cream to get me going. It's healthy and good experience.

• soulreaver said on Jan 10, 2007....

  fastest way? Do something else... It doesn't have to be another addiction. Anyway, there's nothing wrong with masturbation nor would it be considered an addiction. It's practically normal. Ask any person who've studied psychology and they'll tell you that it's actually good for your psyche (mind). Of course, try to contain it there and there only - don't go on a sex spree! Hehe... just kidding.

• defector said on Apr 26, 2007....

  queen i believe once a day is normal. you will be termed as being obsessed with masturbation if you are doing it like many times a day where it becomes your major activity. not doing it will impaired your day to day life kind of thing. i guess you are normal.

  and i think you are safe. solve your needs yourself is definately than jumping from partners to partners. keep that special first time for the guy who deserves it. and keep it as your memory of life. every one remembers their first.

• redhare said on Oct 14, 2007....

  it's normal to do it. i didn't even know my ex did it until i asked her. i was shocked how long we were together and i didn't even know. personally, my schedule is hectic that i go on marathons on certain days.

• queenparanoia said on Oct 14, 2007....

  redhare: i'm still doing it!!! =)

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