She was just a nutcase.
I can understand believing in astrology i guess. it's taking it to the extreme as she did that makes her a real nut.
my dad once sent away for a reading where he had to provide a date and time of birth. That was the only time i knew he did anything like that and i assume he was satisfied with the results.
my mother is highly superstitious. in fact, whenever she sees a black cat, she spits!
me? nah, that's not for me. I have gone to several palm readers and tarot card readers with my girlfriends when i was ALOT younger....and to me, it was always just a bunch of hogwash....
lmao... I can't believe how much she relied on it for decisions!
I like to read mine every now and again...for entertainment purposes only... but they don't carry a lot of weight with me. :)
SW........yep....that's how she was..actually how she is, unless she died as a consequence of the Seventh house crashed on her while she was doing yoga ....;-)....
Secret.....lol...nutcase is the least you can say.....what was striking for me was the normality of the outside (as we can say normality) and this crazy obession of her........and yet she was at the head of a very successfull business.......she had been even invited to a dinner at the White House with Bush last summer....she declined the invitation though....
I use to make fun of my supertitious friends opening umbrella in their house or walking underneath the ladders...lol......they have been predicting me centuries of disgraces...
Tbs......you know...the way she put it it wasn't that direct.....but i saw Miss Zodiac in her office two days before our final conversation......i have to say that she offered me to find me another job and she was giving me good suggestions about my divorce too...she hugged me before i left her office and she write a very nice reference letter...but still......
Moms.....amazing eh? Yes, i do read the horoscope and i can even go and have fun findinf my astrological perfect partner but it doesn't go further than fun....:-)
Btw, my ex husband and my signs were the two most passionate and erotic ot the Zodiac combinations......unfortunately in the communication field his Sun wasn't in harmony with my Moon....guess what? it was right....lol....
LJ....that was too funny!!!!...LOL...
No, no, unbelivable but true she was a fierce Democrat...she was donating money for a lot of charitable events, she made me personally deliver a check for one thousand dollars for an organziation who provides shelters for battered women...really..... i was simply puzzled ....
oh and i didn't even tell you guys the way she treated her poor Mexican housekeeper...absolutely shameful...
Rolling....thank you so much for your words...you know..i do think the same..that job was really eating me alive......having to deal with her some days was really too much..
So you were too strict.?.....crazy.....
I am looking around now so i wish both of us good luck and a new great job{{hugs}}
Kruu, i love black cats too....but its tue that for their color they are usually the ones left behind.....
Its funny because in Italy our bad number is 17 and the worst unlucky day of all, teh day during the one some people would simply stay in bed and never get out of the house, is Friday 17.......so when i moved her everybody was telling me about this infamous Friday 13 and i couldn't care less.......lol...
Superstition is the opium of the people, like religion. Is it a coincidence that the most supertitious societies are also the most religious?
My aunt was a semi-nun....she would go to church each single day, rain o shine.....she would have a saint to protect her for anything: a saint for her stomach pain, a saint for her job, a saint for her pet, a saint for her lottery ticket.....but she was also so supertitious that any time she was getting out of the huose she would never do it with her left foot first...
Yet she had a saint even for the pedestrian .....only i don't remember his name...lol..
Ginger, I am superstitious about a couple things, but nothing astrology-related.
This happened when I was 15. My mom came to pick me up at school There was a shopping bag in the back seat, and I asked her what it was. She told me it was a Christmas gift for me, and to not look in it. Well, of course, I snooped. Inside was a beautiful pale gray and tan striped sweater. It became my favorite sweater, but... Every time I wore it something bad happened. One time when I had it on, I fell and broke the 3 middle toes on my right foot. The last time I wore it, my grandmother died of a stroke that same day. I never wore it again. To this day, I am very superstitious about anyone snooping and finding out what their Christmas gifts are. I used to tell the kids do not ask me because If you find out what it is, I will return it. And I would have.
Also when I travel by air, whatever I wear when I leave is what I must wear the day I return. Even down to my earrings. For some reason I have it in my head that will keep me safe.
Mimi....geez..that is a striking sequel of bad coincidences...how odd... well, you know they say that having some rituals in our life help us to cope better with the stress or bad memories..so we are going to call them rituals more than superstitions....what you thinks?.....:-)
I think my ritual is connected to release my anxiety of having to go to a place i dont know....i have to learn the most i can about the sorrounding area in case i might get lost.... so i go to mapquest and i print out any info.....it calms me down a lot..it helped me good up to now...
Rolling...no ranting there, girl....
Go figure! Being fired for doing your job! What a b***it!
Makes you wish that nobody will never find the exit once in there....all of them lost for ever in the parking maze...calling out loud your name.....and you..."No, i can't strictly talking help you out now"......i am glad you have another job opportunity.....:-)
Craaaaaaaazy... That's taking things juuuuust a little too far, wouldn't you say? To live your life by what someone else dictates just by what they "see" in your future is one thing but to fire your employees by what that someone "sees" about them??? I don't think soooooo...
Anyone know where to find the nearest sanatarium? cuckoo cuckoo...
ehehheheh ~^^
MsStar.....lol.......her enemies waiting for her to get her....poor grandma...but i am with you...its just an unebeliavable soap opera...
i remember years ago i bought the I King book.......basically is the same divination of the future but made in a very elegant and intellectual form..you have to compose 6 lines and depending if they are whole or broken you can read their meaning in teh book.....its almost poetic....well one day they told me i would have fly over the big water and like a phoenix live several lives in a far away country....guess what? one years later i took a plane to come here crossing the ocean and i changed my life several time too......
There is always something in our life that cards and horoscope can tell about us.....:-)
Paper...its awfully late for you ...GO TO SLEEP!!!!!. {{hugs}}}
See you tomorrow.....have a restful sleep.....:-)
Purr.......yes, its craaaaazy......lol.....i bet that if she would end up in a sanatorium the bed would made with silky organic sheets ....still a sanatorium but so tres chic.....lol......
Wow. All I can say to this is wow. That woman is a complete nutcase in my eyes.
I mean, my mom has her own superstitions passed down to her from her parents and her homeland and I can be a bit superstitious and I like looking into astrology, but neither let it dictate how we live and what we do and what not.
That is just completely ridiculous!
While it's incredible I am not surprised to hear of such a person. I am sorry for that you lost the job, however.
I knew a girl who followed the old Japanese system (based on the Chinese system) of having the days of the year marked with characters signifying what kind of a day any particular day would be. I don't know most of them but two I know well. One is the day of Big Safety. On days marked with these characters you can do anything and all will be well. But the day before is always a very inauspicious day. She wouldn't fly, take a trip, drive a car or even have sex on the unlucky days.
And of course there are as much to be said about Chinese astrology as there is to be said about western astrology. I saw a program over New Year's where a well-known specialist was telling guests on the show whether or not they should stick with their jobs, break up with their boyfriends, or move to another apartment based on their signs, the months, the seasons, the weather, and which direction the door to their abode faced. There are people who base every move they make on these things.
Me? I am an Aquarian. This is my age. I can do whatever I want. Ha-ha!
Moon.....as always Confucius has very wise words...lol.......so wise indeed....gingersoul says: moon very nice in predicting nice future for her...she might smack moon's head with i-king book....moon might duck and miss it and good luck to come or moon might not duck and bad luck his head might suffer....both ways life alwasy goes.....lol...
Petite....ridicolous is a gentle way to put it....lol....
Rolling...that was hilarious..a psychic chef....great.......:-0
Mom...the wisdom that can come from our life experience can never be substituted by standardized divinations....i have some characteristic of my sign, i admit it...a lot of them actually...lol.....and i find in my friends lots of stuff that belongs to their sings...its just fun to compare and connect the dots....
Polar....yes, never say never...first rule in life....i think when we are young we tend to be all black and white and we use "never' a lot....then life teaches us the real meaning of that word and the silliness of using it....:-)
Hotaka...i am so happy i didn't find many astrologer addicted here.....i was kind of afraid to stomp of some sensitive feet....lol...yes, Chinese astrology has always played a great role in Eastern society......i find it fascinating, historically and intellectually talking....
So you are an Aquarian, uhmmm....my sign has lots of affinity with your sign ....:-) .and i have many friends in your sign as welll....
Rmuxa...... and then wath happened when Pluto got declassified as a planet? wonder if it shouldn't have been a cosmic astrological reallignment that they didnt' tell us..
maybe now you are not a Virgo anymore, maybe now you shifted down to be to Leo....you are living another person's life and you dont know it.....lol....
Mom....my daughter too is Gemini....she cracks me up with her humor.....
so according to the Holy Books you are sensitive, easy going, compassionate, a very good friend, you tend to be very girly girly, you see the positive in any situation and you are the life of the party........see? I read, i read....lol.....
I'm no girly-girl either - never have been. In fact, I can't stand super girly-girls. They drive me nuts! I'm the girl at the garage helping my buddy pull out his engine (before I had the twins - now I have no time for that... :-[ ) or drywalling the bathroom in the basement.
Sensitive - uh huh. Easy going - too much sometimes. Compassionate - I'd like to think so. A very good friend - only those that know me could tell you for sure. Positive - I try these days, but I used to be a pessimist big time. Life of the party - errrrrrrrr... well. Not really. Maybe sometimes. Maybe more like the goofball of the party... ehehheheh
I like being a tomboy... Maybe cuz I like playing with the boys.... ?
MeeeYOW! ~^^
lol purty you are so funny. That is so funny, I know more about cars than some men do. I find it fascinating. I had wanted to take a course on auto repair but my husband said it would be a waste of money. He does know a lot about cars. I love to watch, American hot rod, Pinks, american chopper.
I don't party anymore but when I did, I was quiet till I had a few under my belt. I have been carried out of places more than once.
I wanted to take a mechanics course when I was younger. In fact I'd already signed myself up at college for a course (much to the chagrin of my family) before I ran away with X1...
I don't party much either. And I don't need alcohol to be an idiot either. Just some good music and people I'm comfy with. Then I'm a complete weirdo.
Well, off to bed. DH just came down to remind me how much I hate mornings that come so frikkin' early... LOL
Sweet dreams, everyone!!! ~^^
Do tell, ginger. But didn't I say before that we got along well for other reasons too? I sure you said something that made me think of something and then I said something to the effect that it's no surprise we get along well. Did I just say something?
Anyway, my reason for mentioning the eastern astrology is because it is different from western astrology and you can find diehard believers of each system. So which one is right? Truth is in the mind of the believer, eh?
Hotaka.....yes, you are right...it must have been some powerful cosmic shuffling in our sign's Houses that made us bump in each other and wrestle so good that day....:-)
Hello Raft....so long i dont see you...how have you been doing?
Yes, you are right.......i too associates superstition with controlling issue...
our ancestors had no scientific way to interpret the reality and the unpredictable course of the events...having something fixed in rigid structures and rules that at the same time could give the illusion to know the future and maybe control the consequences of one choice instead of another one explains the oringin of astrology.
Okay, I'm very supersticious but I also have to say: WTF?!!! That's just ridiculous, I can't imagine myself staying in bed this morning or quiting my job because Mars has moved into it's ninth cycle, clashing with Jupiter. (Translation: I will have a fight with a form of Authority) Yeah, right.
It kinda takes out the excitement of living not facing a problem or tackling a challenge. Don't worry, Karma will catch up with her for exploiting the gifts of divination. If I were you, I'll sue her for every penny and the two Blackberries. You'll probably win, unless the judge is also supersticious and his spiritual advisor predicted that Venus shall bring gifts while passing the moon (Translation: If you throw this courtcase, an attractive woman will give you a big bonus cheque)
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Oh, ginger. It was more than that now. I'm sure our relationship goes beyond being virtually physical. Did I mention I noticed your virtual cleavage that day when my virtual eyes glanced down your virtual top? Sorry. Even virtual guys can't help themselves. ;)
Mouse....yes, it takes out all the excitement about life, isn't? If i already knows how to behave when can i misbehave?....lol....
Hot(aka)......oh, the virtual hot one.......so you were furtivly glancing, eh....oh, you men.....did you like what you see at least...lol....
Raft.....i am glad i will see you around more often....:-)
Rolling....good job, girl...i am so happy for you! :0
What are you doing now? And please, dont even look at the horoscope during lunch break...lol...
Rolling...shut..sorry..i dont know why i wrote that....mom, did you tell me? When? I don't remember.....but thanks....:-)
Sometimes I write and comment to many different people....fingers slip...or it was a Freudian slip?...uhmmm
Anyway, thank you Rolling...{hug}