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Normally, when I get out of my bed in the morning, I make it. 
 It's a habit from my childhood that I never outgrew -- you get out of bed, you make the bed....
 
There are days, though, where the chaos of the morning doesn't allow me to make my bed, and I have to go back up after everyone is gone.
 
Like this morning, for example.
 
My husband went  back to work after 15 days off.
Thank God for small favors....
But 5a.m. came awfully early for him.
I must have heard the alarm go off 4 times as he kept hitting the snooze button over and over again until finally i rolled over and said, 'are you getting up or am I?'
 
I pulled my pillow over my head and tried to get back where i was ....
once that seal is broken off of my sleep, i can never get back...grrrr
 
The puppy must have heard my husband leaving, and woke up too.
There was alot of sqawking...crying...and general yapping going on.
 
I kept peeking out of my pillow at the clock ....
 
I noted that the 13 yr old got up at 5:20 and added walking him to her morning routine.
I heard her shut the front door and go out, and when she came back in, i heard her yell up to her older sister that she 'better move her butt if she didn't want to be late'.
 
Then I heard the shower in her bathroom go on.  The bathroom door down there slam...
 
That was followed by more barking, crying, yapping as the puppy realized he was back in his crate and not going to get to play..
 
About  5:45 I hear middle daughter in the bathroom up here.  More yelling to her sister,
 
'aren't you up YET??? you're going to be late for sure'
And then her reply,
'can you plug in the hair straightener for me.  i have to get in the shower...i only have a few minutes, because i promised Toby I'd be in early.'
 
Not 10 minutes later, she comes running into my room -- 'mom!  mom!  i have 5 minutes to get to school....do you think you can drive me?'
 
I begrudgingly pulled my head out from under the pillow at this point.
 
'Now??? 
Do you think you might consider going to bed earlier so that you can get to school without us both having to face crisis mode every morning?'
'ohhhhhhhhhhh mom!'
(That's her way of saying i'm being unreasonable and hey, what else was i doing but trying to sleep anyway??)
 
I jumped up, took a look in the mirror, grabbed for a pair of sweat pants and a sweat shirt, brushed my teeth and got myself downstairs.
 
Puppy was still squawking so I let him out of the crate.
 
He promptly peed on the rug.
 
SHIT!!
 
I barely cleaned that up, stuck him BACK in the crate, and oldest was standing behind me,
'i'm ready to go'...
 
I grab my coat, remind her to take her lunch, point out  the yogurts in the fridge....pull a banana and toss it over to her, and we take off.
 
I note that it takes longer to drive there than it would take to walk...
 
Upon returning, my middle one says,
'i'm starving, can you make me some oatmeal?'
 
I throw my coat over a chair, grab a bowl, some instant oatmeal, and milk, and in a minute, there is hot piping oatmeal which she grabs from my hands and scoffs down in less time than it took to make..
 
I yell upstairs to my son,
 
'Wake up!  it's almost 7!'
 
Then I walk with middle daughter to the bus stop with the puppy.....he needed the walk, and i thought she'd like to have him there today...
 
My son was in front of the TV when I got back....Avitar: the Last Airbender...Nickelodeon morning fare was on.  He wanted waffles with syrup and chocolate milk....
 
While he ate, I logged into my computer and started downloading email.  It's been a whole week since I've logged into my work mail....
 
The phone rang.
 
It was Colin down the street wanting to know if I was picking him up for band.
Band?  Oh shit again...it's Tuesday!
 
I rushed out the door again with my son and his stuff, picked Colin up on the way, and dropped both boys at the school a few minutes late for band practice. 
 
'oh well, better late than never', I tell them as they run toward the front door...
 
Finally finally I walk back inside my house and it's Q U I E T.
Not even the puppy is yapping....
 
Ok, so the start wasn't exactly smooth. 
 
But they all got off.
 
It was then I remembered that I hadn't made the bed.
 
That made me smile.
 
I looked at my watch.
 
I had 30 minutes til my first call....
 
Sometimes you get the opportunity to start your day over....
 
I ran up the steps and jumped back under the covers!
 
 
 


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  • MissMimi said on Jan 02, 2007....
    Isn't that the best feeling in the world? Climbing back in bed after everybody's gone for the day.
    You had your husband home for 15 days?? How did you keep from killing him? ;)
  • mobil said on Jan 02, 2007....
    You didn't? Did you? If you really did, you get the New Year award
    for spontaneity......lol
     
    Oh, that puppy, spontaneity isn't what that boy needs for awhile. He
    needs consistent. . . lol
     
    It sounds like your little girl is committed SL, outside with pup at
    that early hour ! That's is commendable and fantastic.
     
    Now, get with the program, vacation is over..................huh?
  • secretlife said on Jan 02, 2007....
    mimi:  I would rather climb back in when it's warm! 
     
    i don't know how he survived all that time at home.  Day 2 I told him he had to knock before entering my office because he hovers too! 
    He got into this routine of waking up at 10 or 10:30, going out for the paper, making breakfast....then to the couch, tv, a nap......last night he was moaning how he wants to retire. 
     
    I just look at him, roll my eyes,  and say, 'you have an 11 yr old son'.
     
     
    mobil:  yeah, i really did get back under the covers for 1/2 hr.  sometimes i do that!  lol
     
    yes, i told you she is a responsible child.  i know every morning around 5:30 she will walk him....
    now i just have to figure out his schedule for the rest of these days!
     
     
     
  • lioneljay said on Jan 02, 2007....
    I used to hate mornings like that when all three were actively in school. For me, checking into SC is a bit like climbing back under the covers and that's one of the reasons why I'm often here early in the day.

    Welcome to '07, SL!
  • satyr said on Jan 02, 2007....
    LOL - you are amazing SL - fixing different breakfasts for each of your kids. 
     
    You really should go to bed early and get a couple of good nights sleep. ;-)
     
    Welcome to 2007, sleepyhead. :-D
  • silverwhisper said on Jan 02, 2007....
    some days, i marvel at the energy parents must have.

    ed
  • secretlife said on Jan 02, 2007....
    LJ:  normally we're more organized here, but everyone was dragging this morning...
     
    yes it certainly is 07!
     
    satyr:  lol yeah, i should sleep more.
     
    sw:  you really gotta have at least a little bit of energy cause they keep you hopping!!
  • MissMimi said on Jan 02, 2007....
    SL, telll him he has to be a greeter at Walmart if he retires.
  • mobil said on Jan 02, 2007....
    Well good for you SL, I just wrote SL and I thought to myself; Now
    what to hell kind of a name is that?
     
    Guess it's just as good or better than mobil, ha ha, anyway, that's
    great that you climbed back in. Under the covers is one of the
    neatest places to be.
     
    From Childhood till whatever, I think under there is just a special
    place.
     
    Yes, you did say she was responsible and it seems she's living up to
    her Rep.
     
    Someone is going to have to help her with the consistent thing,
    pups are like computers SL. It's all logic with them !
     
    Wishing you and your little girl continued good luck with Oliver !
  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jan 02, 2007....
    Honey, have I told you lately how I love reading y´ah?!

    It´s 10 minutes to midnight...yeah, yeah moms (satyr and mobil too ...sheesh the sleep police squad are increasing by the minute!lol thanks, I am thankful, I have a circle of friends to answer for)...only one more comment, and I too will hit the covers (hubby will just have to bear me cold feet - lol)

    I left a message for you and Ginger (where is she? She usually precedes moi) in MissMimi´s post...re: hubbies being at home way tooooo long =    )

    I use to hate routines, waking up early and making beds, but the more I get older....35 in March 20 (Spring child ~blush~) [ducking ... in case someone throw something at me with older comment ;   )  ] the more I find comfort in the routines, waking up early and making beds....

    In a world full of change - rapid changes - routine and the family makes a whole lot of difference - a wonderful, warm kinda difference.

    Sweetheart, thank you again for writing me warm affectionate emails while I was in my short SoulCast exhile...if you didn´t and Godfather (I MISS HIM TERRIBLY!!!) and Godmomsie Jenna didn´t, I wouldn´t have come back....what a dreadful thought!

    Goodnight!

    paper~

    P.S. Your family is to die for =   ) .  It is so easy to fall in love with them....

    Thank God, I am not the only momma, who caters to everyone´s taste in breakfast, lol...

    I am scared when puberty sets in and the girls will either be vegetarians or radical organic food gourmets, their Dad is a carnivore!HELP!

  • silverwhisper said on Jan 02, 2007....
    SL: jeez, it made me tired to read that! i could feel my stress level rising with each paragraph! :>

    ed
  • Mamie said on Jan 02, 2007....
    i agree wtih ed on this one, i was ready to give everyone a valium and a pop tart! :) welcome back to the daily grind!
  • secretlife said on Jan 02, 2007....
    mimi: he won't go near a wal-mart.
    home depot?  that's a possibility.  he'll be the grouchy guy you have to ask where to find the plumbing supplies...
     
    mobil:  i'm partial to being under the covers (LOL!!!)
     
    paper:  of course we want them to eat something for breakfast.  my girls do alot of grab and run ...yogurt, fruit, granola....my skinny little boy, i try to stuff with waffles or pancakes loaded with syrup!  there's a method to my madness as i'm trying to fatten him up!
     
    I was like you and fought routines for a while, but then i gave in to them and found that even in chaos, if you have routines, it's somewhat organized chaos!
     
    When they hit puberty?  LOL...i'll just let you enjoy that surprise.  believe me, what they're eating won't matter very much!  There will be other much more important things to think about.
     
    ed:  you get used to it.  believe me.
  • momsrock said on Jan 02, 2007....

    I don't know how you can function that early in the morning!! :)

  • Lioness said on Jan 02, 2007....
    I think that is what you call a "Super Mom" =)

    Ohh, watch the rug!!
  • Zayda said on Jan 02, 2007....
    I would have gone back to the grind, but from home today, because I had grand plans for setting up my online course.  But somewhere along our hub Verizon had a severed fiber line.  So, instead of going back to the grind, I did more organizing, sorting for donations, and tossing. 

    My husband was sort of under foot all day since he doesn't go back to the grind until tomorrow.  I almost sorted him into the donate pile when he got in the way a couple of times...almost.  But then I found he was very useful for hauling those items that need to go to the local shelters to the car.  So, I unsorted him from the donate pile.  :)

    And I'm with Ed, Mimi, and a few others....whew...SL..that made me tired reading that. 
  • gingersoul said on Jan 02, 2007....

    {{Here i am Paper.....:-)}}

    Oh yes we parents have endless energy and patience........the mornign rush out of the house simply kills me............ i am NOT a morning person...i am a night owl.....and Sc lately has enormoulsy intensified this habit...lol...

    So even if i wake up on time and i am punctual at  work my brain doesnt really start functioning before 10 am. I just go in automatic pilot......I cant even imagine having other two kids....

    Moms like you, Secret, deserve indeed a special nomination....:-)

    But usually i dont like coming back in bed......i used to do when i was at school or college ...some day i would simply wake up too late for making it  and it was pure joy jumping back ....now once i am out , i am out.... i can lazy around for endless time when i dont work though...:-).

    Welcome to 2007, guys!!!

  • writerspirit said on Jan 02, 2007....
    Hi SL,
     
    I don't envy your morning rush but I do feel for you! I only have two kids, both teens, but two dogs and if I don't make sure they get out in the A.M. they don't go out. How did you train yours? (the daughter I mean)
     
    I have to admit though, I do jump back under the covers as quickly as possible!
     
    Writerspirit :)
  • danetteb said on Jan 03, 2007....
    I did that this morning...  After dropping our domestic worker off (she had to go to the hospital), I also had 30 minutes to waste.  Since I didn't sleep properly last night it was the perfect time to snooze a bit more. 
    It wasn't enough however, and now I'm sitting here at work, with my eyes barely open, and a huge mug of coffee... I wish I could sleep some more : /
  • mrhowto said on Jan 03, 2007....
    lol...sounds like madness.  I think you've successfully put me off starting a family for at least another 5 years.  ;)

    I've just gone back to work after being off since the 22nd of Dec.  The lie ins were soooooooo nice, but it all goes sooooo fast.  Now I'm in the routine of going to bed late and getting up late, but have to force myself up at 6am, when I'm not tired until 2am and damn it's hard work enough!

    You deserve a medal of bravery missus.  Well done.
  • secretlife said on Jan 03, 2007....
    mamie:  don't you just LOVE pop-tarts?  I have at least 4 boxes in the pantry!
     
    lioness:  lol!  i'm giving you the paper towels next time!!!
    padon me while i go get my cape out of the dryer...
     
    z:  i envy you the extra day off! 
    lol @ almost donating your husband!
     
    ginger:  10 years ago i'd never even THINK of going back under the covers for that silly 1/2 hr....but you ought to try it some morning when you're at home.  It feels wonderful even to stretch for 10 minutes!
     
    writer:  my middle daughter came that way.  i don't take any credit for her being so responsible....she's had small critters for many years, and every morning she feeds everyone's bunnies (outside in a hutch) and her hamster, gerbil, mice....i've never had to remind her to feed or clean these creatures.  my 16 yr old on the other hand.....a whole different story!
     
    so how could i take credit? 
     
    she was out there again at 5:30 this morning....
    i know i'll never have to remind her. 
    it's the only reason puppy is here now....
     
    danetteb:  i'm glad i'm not the only one who sneaks back it.
     
    mrhowto:  c'mon be brave....
     
    my story is the same as yours in that ALL of us were used to staying up late and sleeping in last week, so getting back to our routine was just a little (lol) chaotic!  It'll be better next week for sure!
  • gingersoul said on Jan 03, 2007....

    Wait a second, Secret...i have to say something ...

    Mrhowto....long time i dont read you!!...:-)

    Ok, back to the grind.....my daughter loves Pop Tarts too...she likes them cold so we put them in the freezer....so she fools me good because when i open the freezer i am usually looking for something else and the box looks always closes like never opened...but.....ta ta ..is empty! She can devour that things in in the time it takes me to say "Don't eat all of them......".

    Secret, sometime i do come back in bed.......but only for some sonnellino (naptime, siesta) ...though it happens rarely and mostly in the summer.....and yes that 20 minutes are heaven....lol.....

  • willbrich said on Jan 03, 2007....
    SL,
    You told us a vivid, colorful, amzing story about the mornings in your house. Wow!
  • secretlife said on Jan 03, 2007....
    lol hey will......got any good jokes today?

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