I got this posted in one of my seldom commented threads. The name has been redacted to protect the identity of the author. I have one other, but this one is better written.
I wish there was a way to just email you ---
Since there isn't, i'll do it this way.
I'd like to ask you a favor. I know I have no right to ask you for a favor, but I'm going to anyway, and I know either way, you'll give it fair consideration and I can live with your choice whatever that is.
I hate butting into battles that aren't my own.
I always feel really incomfortable when people are going head to head with each other, and it starts to get really ugly.
I understand your point of view. I do.
I understand it about the cover post and comments.
I understand it about her personality and posts in general.
I've actually fought with myself and have had to hold back NOT to call her elitist, pompous, narcissistic blah blah....and especially when she complains about her students being stupid....i think that's the worst of it all and i would not want my college profs writing that about me, that's for sure....
i've actually felt attacked on more than one occasion as I've responded sincerely to some of her posts.
But-
(i know you aren't gonna buy the buts gumpy, but i'm still going to but you-)
This is how i feel....sometimes, the way you prove you are better than someone, is to ignore what they say.
I've come to believe that this person must be very very unhappy in her life gumpy....and isn't that punishment enough without having to stoop to her level and fling insults?
Enough, no? enough has been said. Sometimes you just have to say what you think and let it go....otherwise it looks like you're enjoying the kill too much....and that would make you cruel and unkind. i know you are neither....
Don't become like the thing you abhor, ok?
You'll not get ed to agree with you. He defends her like a brother.
Sometimes people defend those they care about ---right, wrong, or indifferent.
Love is blind, you know.
So, a stranger asks you to be the bigger man here.....
Let it go.
Have compassion for her even though she doesn't appear to offer the same to anyone else. It makes you better. In the eyes of others gumpy, it makes you bigger.
I'm sorry for butting in. I rarely do that.
I'd appreciate you deleting this when you've read it.



