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“In sickness and in health…til death to us apart…” This is a vow between a groom and a bride in the event of matrimony. They vow no matter what will come to their path only death can separate their bond as husband and wife. Is it true? It reminds me of a certain couple who have different attitudes toward money spending. The wife is a little bit money spender who spends money for the needs and wants til no money is in her wallet. While the husband is a very strict and thrifty man even from the needs at home, he gives very little money. If you were the neighbour in the next door, you could hear their quarrels and slamming of doors. They fought about money … money… more money. One of their children, a friend of mine, told me that she hate her parents cause they like animals shouting at each other. She told me also that she felt that her parents never treat each other like a husband and wife does. Like when her mother ask for money to the father, he tell off first before giving the money. He even had a list of the so-called debts of her mother. While her mother where also nagging the father about being so thrifty blah blah blah… Money is root of trouble/evil to what I see. Additional to the BIG difference of belief and attitudes. I was kind of pity to my friend and her parents. Why they always fight about money? And why the husband made every penny given to his wife as a debt? I thought they should share what they have… Is this the modern husband and wife?

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  • hotaka said on Jun 29, 2006....
    Now you have me worrying about a friend of mine who is going to get married. He and his girlfriend (soon to be fiancee as soon as he can afford the expensive ring she wants) usually argue about money. She loves to spend and doesn't try to pay off her credit card debts and student loans. He works hard and saves his money. Almost everything he owns he paid for in cash (huge TV, stereo system, etc.) Only his house was financed but not before he had saved up a lot for the down payment. Now he has mostly assets (except the mortage) while she has mostly debts. What will become of them?
  • monozuki said on Jul 04, 2006....
    I'm not sure if they going to live happily ever after. I'm sure the guy will be a little fustrated and tired of working so hard to earn money while his wife always spend and made some debts. They maybe they will be like the said couple in my blog. Is he sure about marrying the girl..??

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