You don't have to comment on the 'popular' folks.......but nobody is going to know you're here unless you comment, like bloc said, on other blogs. It helps if you do this on a regular basis, which if you think about it, is how most relationships are established anyway...
I would have commented on your blog last night after returning from work, but as it was, I guess I was so tired I nodded off with my BlackBerry in my hand (I didn't even post! **sniff**).
But if it makes you feel better, you did get my attention (which is why I am here now).
This is not to say I only comment on those who write comments to me, though. Quite often, I will comb the list of blogs--starting at the middle or end--because I know there are those who receive little, if any response. Being the comment slut that I am, I completely empathize.
And as far as popularity is concerned, we all start at the bottom. In fact, I just found a screen print of my blog from July 19, 2006 (it isn't posted anymore), and you know what it says? 'Who is reading JadeLondon...Currently, no one.'
So, yes--it bites; but we have all been there!
Danette.......
Jade is rigth......do what you are doing...comment in other people's blogs..sometimes there is not enough time in one day to answer our favorite people and write new posts And scooping around for new blogs. i usually try to do like Jade...i like to go to visit teh back pages and look for some title that intrigues me...i started only 3 months ago posting a comment after another one....then i started noticing that some people i was commenting was reading me. and commenting on MY blogs...and bam...its all starts in this way..dont try to be nasty or rude or extremely provokative..be yourself ...i answered to you in my blog..thank you again for visiting..i will be visiting you from now on..its simple like that..i wish you a great experience here..you are only at the beginning... hug.....
Sweetlady,
Did you per chance notice the dates of these blogs and comments?
More than half or nealy all of the names on this particular item are long
gone.
But I'll take notice. I have not seen your blogs before.
cops