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This is a survey that I got from friendster, I just wanted to answer these questions... why? Because I'm opinionated that's why! Pretty mushy stuff if you ask me...

do u get jealous easily?
> No, I'm more of a laid back girl. Jealousy can be good at times but too much of anything is a bad deal. If you don't even show a little jealousy, your man might think that you don't give a damn. If you show too much, you'll be branded as nagger, hothead, and selfish. And also, too much jealousy in the workplace is a big no no because you wouldn't be productive or helpful to the company. So much for crab mentality.

what bothers you right now?
> I actually don't have anything to do the whole day except surf and read some helpful articles. It bothers me because I don't like being idle. I don't like getting paid without any productivity. I'm still waiting for next week when every module would be given to me, and alas, I would cram. hmm....

what is your favorite month of the year?
> I would have to say December because its the holidays, time for a vacation and bonuses. I like the feeling of laid back once in a while {of course without feeling guilty}

what are your agenda's for tomorrow?
> tomorrow's a saturday. I will go home to the province to visit my mom. Also its fiesta there {feast}, so I will pig put on food and visit the bazaar to look for discounted items!

what is your greatest fear?
> Dying without accomplishing anything.

what was the best thing that happened to you this week?
> I got my thirteenth month pay today. {I'm slightly richer}

what are u planning to do this weekend?
> pig out and celebrate, buy some cheap stuff

what can you promise to the one you love?
> right now, I don't have a bf so this is for my mom... I'll always be here no matter what... even if we bicker a lot and bitch at each other every now and then, I will be here, that's why you're always calling me the "reliable daughter". One phone call and I'm there! Promise
smile...

what will you wish for if you have a genie?
> 100 million dollars. I'll split it for my family and myself. {I'm not that selfish}

who is the one you're thinking of right now?
> my niece, what would she like for Christmas...

who do you run to when you're down?
> not who but what. I blog my feelings and listen to angry girl music

who are the most influential people in your life right now?
> my family.. they've always been on top, even if they are annoying... can't do anything about it.

who was the last person you went out with?
> I think it was my sister

who will you call/text you later?
> probably Jason, he was asking me for my pictures and ebooks. {Hey reader, want some pictures of me LOL hehehe}

who completes your day?
> the readers and subscribers here in SC. I always manage to smile when people write about themselves and the things around them. As they say, real people, real opinions

who do you want to talk to right now?
> No one. Okay, sue me, I want to talk to Jason. Kapeesh. :D

when will you take a bath?
> tonight before I go to bed. I want to smell nice.

when will you watch a movie?
> I dunno know. :D Jason was asking me out to a movie, I'll think about it.

when was the first time you deeply fell in love?
> When I was 15 years old. See my post entitled "Entangled" heheheh :D

when was the last time you went out with your friends?
> Technically, last week. But my friends here at the office always eat our lunch outside so does that count?

when was the last time you said "i love you"?
> Wow, it's been a long time. I don't even say that to my mom. Come to think of it, my mom doesn't say it too.

when was the last time you read a book?
> A novel: 2 days ago... I was reading Clive Barker's Galilee. An educational book: yesterday. I was reading O' Reilly's book, learn Perl in 21 days.

when was the last time you asked for help?
> last Monday, from my teammate.

when was the last time you kissed your dad/mom?
> A very long time ago... really...

do u easily get attracted to the opposite sex?
> yup, so sue me. :D Attraction however is much much different from LOVE.

any people in-love with u right now?
> I don't really know. Hmm... I don't know anybody who has that kind of strong feelings for me at the moment.

want to get married?
> Yes, but not right now, probably in the next 7 years or so. :D Let's just wait and see. I want to take things really slow.

last person u fell in-love with or currently in love with?
> Its with Rod. But the level of love that I felt was just Platonic. Too bad :D

are u serious when it comes to relationships?
> Well, the last relationship that I've had was pretty serious and intense. But when I was younger, hmm.. i seem to bounce here, there, and everywhere. See my previous post "Entangled".

are you afraid of commitments?
> Yes, especially life time ones. But if I don't know how to risk things, I would just be asking myself What ifs... and I don't want that.

what was your last ride?
> bus ride. I rode a bus to go to work.

how can u say that a person loves you?
> well I can see it in the way the person looks at me. The way the person speaks to me.

are you good in handling relationships?
> A big NO. I am known for my fickle mindedness back in the day. I'm like Marissa in The OC where every guy can steal her from her boyfriend. But now, hopefully, I am a stronger person.

willing to give everything?
> No. I'm selfish in a sense that I want to keep something for myself. I want to keep something only to myself so I won't lose my individuality... However, its a different matter when it comes to my kids {future kids that is...}

do u demand ur loved one to change into someone that pleases u?
> Not really. But I do try to help them become a much better person that they are. But of course, I don't want to force them.

would u let go of somene u love?
> Yes. I did for all the wrong reasons I might add.

what is the major reason of a break up?
> I'm fickle minded. A boy steals me from a bf. I'm not attracted enough. What else, oh yeah, my priorities. For all the breakups that I've had, I'm always the one who did the dumping. I guess that tells something about me...

most important ingredient in a relationship?
> trust and respect. Trust meaning, I am confident in him. Respect meaning, we respect each other as a human being.

one thing u like about love?
> It brings out the worst and the best in a person. Nobody's perfect!

Well Cheers Everyone.... I hope you got a clearer picture of me. I know I did. :D

Cheers Again!



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