i feel like a freggin' charity case! as i said earlier on this week my bf was 'let go' from his job...since then nothing has come up but he is trying so hard....meanwhile my sisters have decided to help out their local charity..ME!!! they have been coming all week with coal and wood and they even put oil in the tank for me...i am greatful....but i feel like the charity case in our family...they are always going over-board..at christmas they buy the kids far too much...they ask me to go out for drinks and never let me pay...i am the only one with kids in my family,so they help..but i dont want them to..i have never asked either...i know they are just looking out for me..but i am the one with the kids,i want to support them myself and i do,but since the bf lost the job (friday gone!) they have been major ott.....i know they mean well but they leave me and my bf feeling pretty shitty as if what we earn will never be good enough for our kids....thanks for listening, a very blue bull......
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secretlife said on Nov 21, 2006....
ahhh bull.....you know sometimes we need to accept help from the people who love us most. they hurt for us when we hurt, and their instinct is to reach out and help you in any way that they can. everyone has times where they need help. and especially when you have children to support.
remember the kindnesses and generosity of your sisters. someday, it will be your turn to do for them. i hope you feel better soon bull.....your boyfriend will find work soon.
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silverwhisper said on Nov 21, 2006....
bull, i'm sure there've been times when you've been ready to help your sisters in the past, no?
ed
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Lioness said on Nov 21, 2006....
The situation you are in now shall come to pass... My prayers are for you.
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IdeallySublime said on Nov 21, 2006....
You gotta love them for trying. Just imagine how it'd be if they didn't care? -
bullblogg said on Nov 22, 2006....
i know, you are all right..i sound so un-greatful -thanks guys....
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silverwhisper said on Nov 22, 2006....
we know you aren't ungrateful. i can understand how frustrating and disempowering this can feel. i think a little resentment is healthy, to be honest. :>
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secretlife said on Nov 22, 2006....
we know you aren't ungrateful!!!!
{{{HUGS}}} I'm praying for you guys.
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dailyachesandpains said on Nov 24, 2006....
SL, said it right. I too, hope you feel better!Daily -
pixilatedcowboy said on Nov 24, 2006....
You know Bull,for most of my life I thought matierial possessions were so important.I finally learned that "stuff" doesn't make you happy.I gave away everything I had to be with the woman that I love and I've never felt happier
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