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hey guys-just sitting down to ask you men and women out there a question...
Ladies- how do you deal with the gobshites who feel you up or pinch your bum , while out for a drink with your mates??( or does that happen across the water?!)
Gentlemen- why ,oh why do men do this kind of thing?( just give me an insight please-im not saying YOU do it ,but why ye think men do it!!)
this has happened to me -one to many times in one night,that, i ,very un-lady like,kicked the fecker in the nuts!- i do know it was bad of me-but i had told this 'man' that i was not interested in him and that i was not meat-he grabbed me all night and finally felt my breasts,so i kicked him-hard-and i got removed from the club! now i ask you was that fair? i really dont think so..surely he should have been removed also-he was grabbing and groping me all night......



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  • silverwhisper said on Nov 17, 2006....
    totally fair and frankly, i think you should have kicked him a second time while shouting "no means no, asshole!"

    ed
  • bullblogg said on Nov 17, 2006....
    sliver- why thank you..he was a shite really......
    you floating through some blogs too eh?? im currently watching 'children in need 2006'-fundraising for kiddies its great stuff, plently of English 'stars' making fools of themselves-ah fair duce to 'em, its a great cause...i am rambling on arent i? ops...
  • caliqueen said on Nov 17, 2006....
    completely fair to kick him in the nuts. one time some asshole grabbed my ass and i socked him in the chest. it felt good. sorry you got kicked out though, that's just bad judgment on the part of the bar, i think...
  • secretlife said on Nov 17, 2006....
    That has never happened to me.  It's highly inappropriate behavior.  Whatever you deem fair punishment, in my opinion, is fair.
  • MissMimi said on Nov 17, 2006....
    Good for you, bull honey.  Does this happen a lot?  I've never been felt up or groped or anything.
     
    Only jerks do stuff like that, and deserve whatever retribution they get.
  • paidinblood said on Nov 18, 2006....
    You should have kicked the effing and feculent shite in the nuts twice and then some! :D

    Frankly I don't know why he would do such a thing aside from maybe he is totally incapable of getting laid.

    Much respect,
    paidinBlood
  • Bronx said on Nov 18, 2006....
    Bullblogg: Pity you had to become a bit prone to that. Some clubs don't just make the cut sometimes.

    Perhaps, I can suggest that you take some karate or taekwando lessons?

    Some men who are in the habit of doing this kind of thing are usually the ones who have gotten away with it in the past. They are usually under the misguided he-man impression that they are God's gift to women and that all women need sex from any man all of the time!

    Big problem, right?

    So cheer up, you can do something about it ASAP.
  • gingersoul said on Nov 18, 2006....

    Just slap him hardly on the face while screaming "I said no. And it means no". He is guilty of sexual harrassment. Pigs like these give men a bad names. 

    Ever been on a crowded bus? And some guy starts to press againts your back with the excuse that is really packed . You move an inch away. He approaches you again, you move again (as much as you can) and look at him. These guys are always looking in another direction, like you dont exist but their nasty hand is grabbing yoru butt.....

    It happened several times when i was going to college. Old men, young men... it didint matter. The first time i was shocked by the surprise. The second time i cursed my lack of luck, the third time i said to the guy "Would you stay away from me?"  And he would alwasy says innocently "Where? There is no room. Who are you? A princess?" They always try to gain other people sympathy putting you down some how. So one day i was with a friend and she got the service. She nodded at the guy and together we planted our heels on his shoes. He cried for the pain but we were hopping out of the bus laughing. They deserve psysical reactions sometime.

  • organic.writing said on Nov 18, 2006....
    i think men get confused between DANCING and what's appropriate.  its ok to touch when dancing, but appropriately and i think men get all "oo, i get to touch" and they get excited and go crazy.  i think it is a club thing, but i remember a lot of creepy old men trying to grope all over when i was in england.  is that a trend?  that's disgusting that he tried to touch your breasts.  england was the only place i have been where men didn't know what no meant, but the men who didn't know what no meant weren't english.   
  • missb said on Nov 18, 2006....
    Bull,
     
    Wow...you shoud've "glassed" his ugly face :) Ok, that was a bit extreme.
     
    It never happened to me. And i think it rarely happens on this part of the world (Jakarta - indonesia). But i do have this one particular experience of being kicked out from a club, sort of. I went back in :)
     
    It was in a club in taipei. I was drunk and the place was so packed. I was happily walking or should i say, queuing to walk, minding my own business when suddenly this white guy in front of me turned back furiously at me and pushed me, screaming "stop pushing!" that i almost fell down.
     
    I was like, WTF. I pushed him back and screamed " i didn't fucking push you" He went mad and I did too. I was drunk, what do you expect? Besides, I really didn't push him and i think it was very un-gentleman from his part to do that to a lady. So i was raging and he was too, making a bloody scene. I don't really remember what happened but at one point, i took one of my shoes off making a "i'm-gonna-hit-you" gesture. LoL.
     
    Turned out the bastard went to the bouncer and told him that i was hitting him with a beer bottle. He's got a bloody cheek, huh. The bouncer came to me and i said "how could i possibly be hitting him with a bottle? I only drink champagne"
     
    I was escorted out :) But i was a regular and the bouncers kind of recognized me, so after a while i went back in. Oh well, what an experience.
     
    Sorry this got long :/ But conclusion is, guys can be such assholes :)
     
    Cheers!
     
     
     
  • bullblogg said on Nov 18, 2006....
    thanks all for the comments! it happens to me quiet alot and its rarely an Irish man!!! i think 'they' are all let out for day release and go crazy...cheeky f****rs!!!!!
    missb- i have been kicked out three times from a club, once for that gobshite, another for screaming at a guy who spiked my drink(long story) and finally, the last i deserved-smacked my (then) bf with my handbag as he was kissing some w***e!! then i poured a drink over them-turned to the bouncer and said 'now i'll go!!'.....

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