yesterday,the 6th of november was my friends 26th birthday,she and her mother were killed on the 6th of april earlier this year. we are going to visit her grave on saturday and im scared....of being there and she won't be there. does that make sense? could i ask anyone who reads this post to leave a prayer(if u are religious) or words of comfort for their family and friends to read,as we are all still trying to cope....thank you all.. bullblogg.
bullblogg posted on Nov 07, 2006
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CreativeWoman said on Nov 07, 2006....
I have lost two people very dear to me in the last two years. I visit their graves fairly regularly. I also take a little something to leave for them that fits with what their personalities were like. I tell them that I love them and I miss them. I don't linger at the cemetary. It is tragic that they aren't in this world with me, but I honestly believe they have gone to a perfect place. I believe their lovely spirits live on. I hang on to that.
I hope this helps you in some small way.
CW
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missb said on Nov 07, 2006....
Bullblogg,My prayers are with you and your friend's family. God bless!Cheers! -
secretlife said on Nov 07, 2006....
Bullblogg:I believe that all things happen for some reason. And that we just don't understand the reasons.I try to remember that our time here on this earth is short. That some day soon, we'll all betogether once again; and we'll be able to hold our loved in a place where there are no more tears.I will keep your friend and her mom in my prayers. -
gingersoul said on Nov 07, 2006....
Bullblogg,I lost my sister only 3 weeks ago.The pain is something will only ease with the time. The loss will remain for ever.Hold you heart and go, don't be scared......i am not a believer but i do believe that we who are left behind can still feel connection, love and belonging with teh one who left us....right in your heart and memory ....our loved ones will always be with us.This i believe and give me comfort...I don't have prayers for you and your friend....but i can support you telling you that life has a way to heal these wounds...i believe in this and i pass it to you.With all my understanding. -
hstock28 said on Nov 07, 2006....
Do not be afraid to go. You are right your friend is not there in the cementary. She is much closer to you. Even as I write this she is right there with you fully aware of all that you are going through. Unlike us she is no longer hindered by the physical form. She is in a much better place and fully aware of everything that occurs here with her loved ones. Talk to her just as you would if you could see her there standing next to you. Tell her whatever you want or need to. She will hear you. If you haven't seen John Edward's Crosscountry on the Oxygen channel, you might be interested in watching a few. Sylvia Browne has also written several books that you might find comforting. (If you have noticed lights flickering or weird occurrances with electrical appliances, she might be trying to communicate with you. If you would like to communicate with her, you might trying announcing to her that you would like to hear from her (you might ask her some specific questions or just leave it open-ended) then leave a taperecorder on all night. Then of course review the tapes. I hope this helps. -
MissMimi said on Nov 07, 2006....
bullblogg, I'm so sorry for your loss. I urge you to go, and don't be afraid. When you're there in the quiet, let her spirit fill you, and you will know what to say. She will always live on in your memories. I wish you peace. -
bullblogg said on Nov 08, 2006....
hey guys,thank you all so much for your kind words,i appreciate it. i will go and i will speak to her as though she were standing in front of me-thank you all.bullblogg.
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FaithfulDisciple said on Nov 08, 2006....
They will be included in my prayers and weekly Masses. Was their death the result of a criminal act, was the culprit brought to justice? How about the surviving relatives, how are they coping with this tragic incident?
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bullblogg said on Nov 10, 2006....
hey faithful- they were the only women in the family,my friend was the youngest-they are survived by their father-husband and four brothers-sons. they were killed by two circus trailers one carrying two elephants(animals survived) and the other carrying circus equipment. the driver has been put on probation and awaits the trial-the family dont want to persecute this man as he is a young man who was only doing what he was ordered to do-leaving town early as the load he was carrying was illegal on irish roads-the family want the circus owner to stand trial. you see, the weight of the trailers caused them to come apart from the attachment and crash sideways into the car. also, the trailers were not made to carry elephants,never mind two. it was and is hard to understand how this happenend. thank you for your prayers.
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Lioness said on Nov 13, 2006....
Sad to hear that bullblog, may they all find solace and eternal peace. Keep praying and offer masses for them.
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